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Sep 19, 2017, 03:55 PM

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Originally Posted by newtus

Not sure what you mean

Because guys don't generally want to "take it slow" when it comes to sex. Women do, and for good reason. Once you start to have sex emotions start to settle and then attachments. So it is smart to take it slow and in that women are smarter than men, then again, I think men can fall in love quicker than women so... maybe waiting for sex isn't necessary for men. My own point of view. But I'm single asf so who am I to give dating advice. lol fml

newtus · Sep 19, 2017, 03:57 PM

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Originally Posted by ofthevalley

I updated my post. My husband and I hung out for a couple months before we got together and had sex.

That makes sense.

So him and i having been hanging out for a month now at least.

I feel like its time.

Sep 19, 2017, 03:59 PM

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Originally Posted by ofthevalley

It's okay to just date. Your young take the time to find the right one. In the meantime have fun!

I had fun on the date
He was nice

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Originally Posted by Day Tripper

Well I'm sure a lot of guys are stuffing your inbox at any given time. No pun intended. Online dating for women can be overwhelming. Take your time. Can't rush into these things.

yeah I actually deleted my okcupid account because it got too overwhelming having guys constantly messaging me
and a good 95% of them only wanted to have sex with me

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Originally Posted by junkDNA

I only have selfies bc I have no friends lol

me too, junk
i tried to put in some selfies with other people, though

newtus · Sep 19, 2017, 04:00 PM

I have mostly selfies on my okcupid and tinder account. But i put one with my sister and bro in law on there

junkDNA · Sep 19, 2017, 04:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Day Tripper

That never stopped me from dating women with only selfies. lol

It's just something to ponder "why?"

Just gonna put a note on my profile that says "I only have selfies bc of my isolating paranoid delusions"

Sometimes psychotic · Sep 19, 2017, 04:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Loial

I've now seen 3 different cats near my flat... I saw the ginger one today and went and said hello. Pretty friendly cat and was happy to be stroked. Makes me miss my parents cats.

Maybe you can set out some treats for them and find yourself with a bargain cat?

Sep 19, 2017, 04:09 PM

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Originally Posted by junkDNA

Just gonna put a note on my profile that says "I only have selfies bc of my isolating paranoid delusions"

i know right? lol

newtus · Sep 19, 2017, 04:10 PM

You wanna know what else is happy to be stroked?

newtus · Sep 19, 2017, 04:13 PM

Im not sure why guys are willing to do so much to be with a woman

ofthevalley · Sep 19, 2017, 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted by newtus

That makes sense.

So him and i having been hanging out for a month now at least.

I feel like its time.

Then go for it.

newtus · Sep 19, 2017, 04:18 PM

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Originally Posted by ofthevalley

Then go for it.

I wont see him til thursday. So maybe then. If the time is right.

Sep 19, 2017, 04:23 PM

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Originally Posted by newtus

Im not sure why guys are willing to do so much to be with a woman

Because some things are worth living for.

Angelique67 · Sep 19, 2017, 04:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Day Tripper

I'm in a negative mood today. My grandmother passed away but I don't feel loss or really anything. Just kind of frustrated I can't feel anything so I'm drinking a beer to relax. She lived a long life. 91 years.

I'm sorry for your loss, DT. Lots of Hugs

cogladaid · Sep 19, 2017, 04:29 PM

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Sep 19, 2017, 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by newtus

Im not sure why guys are willing to do so much to be with a woman

Goethe, Dante, Plato, and homer all see a spark of the divine in the eternal feminine that is seen in the particular woman they wrote about. Love lifts them aloft.

Sep 19, 2017, 04:40 PM

i knew that the guy i went out with today was interested in sex,
but i was glad that he didn't push it and that he didn't just talk about sex with me

i am shy, and i really want someone who is willing to slowly peel away my layers before trying to get me to sleep with them

newtus · Sep 19, 2017, 04:43 PM

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Originally Posted by cogladaid

Hey guys I realized that tapatalk has a night mode that makes everything look cooler. Roll Call 100: Centennial Edition

Found it! In settings. Hey everyone! Once you go black you never go back!

Sep 19, 2017, 04:45 PM

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Originally Posted by newtus

Found it! In settings. Hey everyone! Once you go black you never go back!

haha
that reminds me of the scene in "airplane!" where the little boy brought this girl some coffee and she was like,
"Thanks, i like my coffee like i like my men....... black"

Sep 19, 2017, 04:45 PM

Hah! My quote is forever immortalized now in cogs screenshot!

newtus · Sep 19, 2017, 04:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Kori Anders

haha

that reminds me of the scene in "airplane!" where the little boy brought this girl some coffee and she was like,

"Thanks, i like my coffee like i like my men....... black"

Thats that movie?!!?!??! Its in a meme but i was TRYING for like a year and a half to find the name of that movie

newtus · Sep 19, 2017, 04:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Day Tripper

Hah! My quote is forever immortalized now in cogs screenshot!

So is mine!!!!!!!!!!!

Sep 19, 2017, 04:59 PM

I need to shave my head again. I'm starting to look like Mr burns from the Simpsons. Damn you old man hairline!!!

Sep 19, 2017, 05:03 PM

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Originally Posted by newtus

Thats that movie?!!?!??! Its in a meme but i was TRYING for like a year and a half to find the name of that movie

yeah it was in "airplane!" lol

Angelique67 · Sep 19, 2017, 05:08 PM

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Originally Posted by newtus

Well im confused.

How long is someone supposed to "take it slow"?

How long IS taking it slow?

Its been a month and a half. About.

Like i said my pss thinks i need to take more time. And yea im not trying to use him for my gratification. So thats why ive been taking it slow this whole time. Plus wasnt sure if i liked him, but thats changed. Everyday i talk to him i like him more and more. Hes all i can think about lately. He says he thinks about me all day too.

Back when marriage had fewer divorces, I guess an engagement could be 1 or 2 years. I think the engagements that weren't a great match broke up before marriage instead of after. But it's not like I'm an expert about marriage.

Sep 19, 2017, 05:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Angelique67

Back when marriage had fewer divorces, I guess an engagement could be 1 or 2 years. I think the engagements that weren't a great match broke up before marriage instead of after. But it's not like I'm an expert about marriage.

It really crushes me to see all of these divorces... I grew up in a two time divorced household and for the longest time, because of that, I didn't believe in marriage and that everything was in flux as a father stopped contact and a step father disappeared.

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