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Jul 06, 2008, 08:11 PM
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maybe.. if I post it.. it will go away... I can't sleep.. cause.. this nightmare.. over and over again...it never goes away...I have been divorced for about 23 years...
In the nightmare.. I am re-married to my abusive ex-husband.. how I got married.. or why... is a msytery.. BUT I want out desparately...so so so desparately.. more than anything in the world.. he disgusts me... I am terriffied of him.. scared to death.. I am at work.. in my office... and I can't stay awake.. I keep going to the yellow pages to find a lawyer.. and the printing blurs.. or.. I can't find the attorney pages.. or I find the attorney pages.. and can't find one that does divorces..or I find one.. and am driving... and can't find the office.. and.. the dream goes on.. and on... trying to stay awake.. so I can find the help I need... because I know... he will kill me.. if he finds out.. I want a divorce.. and IRL... I was terrified of him.. and I did hide at safe houses.. and it was a real nightmare... just want this dream to go away... and never come back... how many times.. do I need to re-live this??????? |
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Jul 06, 2008, 08:25 PM
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I wish I had some answers for you. Maybe you could train yourself to wake up when you start dreams like that. Or learn to tell yourself in the dream that it isn't now and you don't have to live through that anymore. A part of you must still have something that hasn't been processed enough yet. Something still not fully understood somewhere. You have more strength and power than you know. You did get out of those situations, but part of you still doesn't know it.
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Jul 06, 2008, 09:36 PM
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(((((((((free))))))))))))
those are real good suggestions! I've been able to do that with some of mine. One i had to do that with in therapy and i never had it again. Best to you free!!! Kiya
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Jul 07, 2008, 07:52 AM
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My doctor and T helped me alot with this your marriage sounded a lot like mine. He didn't kill me but he still will sneak here at night and slash my tires ect. It's been a year and a half. I wish he would move on. but anyway talk to your doctor and T.
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Jul 08, 2008, 01:16 AM
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Someone told me today that vitamin B6 can make nightmares go away. I don't know any more than that, but maybe it would be worth a try. B6 is good for so many things.
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