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Old Jul 20, 2025, 04:17 AM
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I’m really sorry this didn’t work out for you but not surprised. I’m cynical about the role of HR in organisations. This is why 10 years ago I didn’t report bullying I received from my manager, instead I left. At the time a few people told me I should have put in a complaint and maybe I wondered a little if I was being defeatist. I wouldn’t tell anyone what to do in that situation and you did the right thing by you. But yes, I’m not surprised by the outcome.
Thank you, @Discombobulated, I appreciate your support.

Now that it's over, I am not surprised either. I knew better, but it had to be done. My only hope now is that my boss will be better in knowing that I can go to HR and HR will at least look into it, making my boss more on guard.
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Old Jul 20, 2025, 07:58 AM
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Thank you, @Discombobulated, I appreciate your support.

Now that it's over, I am not surprised either. I knew better, but it had to be done. My only hope now is that my boss will be better in knowing that I can go to HR and HR will at least look into it, making my boss more on guard.
Also down the road it can help other people if they same complaints come up.
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Old Jul 20, 2025, 08:08 AM
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Also down the road it can help other people if they same complaints come up.
True!!! That didn’t occur to me. Thank you!
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