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Apr 07, 2005, 11:57 AM
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 Please will you tell me I am ok, I can trust ppl can't I ?I hate it that I can't see anyone on here and be with ppl who care in real life. I so desperatly need to know I am ok, I want someone to hold my hand. I am crying now so much, can I trust any of you ? I mustn't lose my ability to trust you. I need it restored. It feels so wrong to turn to ppl I can't even see, there isn't anything wrong with me is there ? I haven't done anything to hurt ppl have I ? Please don't reject me - I know I am pathetic, a sad old thing turning to ppl that have the power to hurt me. All ppl have the power to hurt me, that's why I am so nice, so they won't. I just want some friends who understand. take care of yourselves, Poppet
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Apr 07, 2005, 12:10 PM
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poppet, what happened to bring these feelings up> you know that you can depend upon me and several others here. we care for you and only want the best for you....the support here is so consistent and true. talk to me, poppet.....pat
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Apr 07, 2005, 01:56 PM
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(((((POPPET)))))
 I don't know you very well yet, but I haven't been visiting this site for very long. I can certainly relate to feeling like there is nobody there -- in "real" life or in "cyber" life -- to listen, to empathize or even to sympathize.  I, too, feel like there must be something wrong with me if the only people I feel are true friends, are those I meet in support forums. But the logical part of my mind (the part I can barely hear) says that it makes sense, because you know that there are lots of people here who understand exactly what you're going through.  Sometimes, though, it seems like there are so many people on this site that I can't find the ones I know and already trust. Sometimes for me it helps to choose a few people that I feel I've connected with online, and start sending private messages. There are a few that I feel are true "soul mates", that I've started emailing. Now I can more often find someone who knows exactly what I'm going through, even when there's seemingly no one online.  Keep holding on. I hope you find a lot of people here that can relate to you -- and you can certainly send me a message any time.  Don't give up!
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Apr 07, 2005, 02:27 PM
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(((Poppet))) you are not pathetic turning to people here that you can't see- because the people here all understand what it is like to have these feelings. That is why this is such a safe place to talk about the things that are bothering you. It is a good place to come for support and comfort and help when you need it. We have to trust each other- sometimes we are all each other have.
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Apr 07, 2005, 02:44 PM
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(((((((((((((Poppet)))))))))))))
I'm so sorry you're feeling like this. there really us nothing wrong with turning to this site for support and comfort. like you, this is the only place really that i get such understanding from. hope you feel better soon.
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Apr 07, 2005, 02:56 PM
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((((((((poppet)))))))
I've been talking to crisis counselors and social workers since last night. I've told them that I've found an online support group and they think that's a wonderful thing. Don't get down on yourself because you have to turn to online people. Look at all the rest of us doing the same thing. (doing the Ricardo Montalban "Welcome to Fantasy Island arm sweep) 
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Apr 07, 2005, 06:10 PM
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Poppet, we are here and it is real and I do wish you could feel the comforting physically.
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Apr 07, 2005, 09:15 PM
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(((((((((((((((((Poppet))))))))))))))))))))
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Apr 07, 2005, 09:55 PM
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(((((((((((((((((((Poppet))))))))))))))))))
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Apr 08, 2005, 11:46 AM
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 to all of you, I am so grateful for all you do and say to me.I was so upset, yet I didn't want to appear manipulative by asking for your comfort. I had to 'get out there' with my feelings cos I was scared I would not post again if I didn't. My feelings go up and down like a rollercoaster at the moment. I am torn between trusting and not trusting, its hard. I am so shattered today, but I couldn't not acknowledge you. I found out someone I cared about has died today - and it makes me question the whole meaning of life. (((((((((((((Pat))))))))) ((((((((((((Ozzie)))))))))) ((((((((((Kimmy))))))) ((((((((Debi)))))))))) ((((((((Oksomaybe)))))))))) ((((((((((Silver)))))))))))) (((((((Wi Fighter))))))))))) ((((((((Wise))))))))))))) (((((((((((Wants2fly)))))))) ((((((((((Fuzzy)))))))))))))) Speak to you all soon and look after yourselves as much as you looked after me, eh ? Poppet 
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Apr 08, 2005, 11:48 AM
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((((((((((poppet))))))))))) Please stay safe. I'm here for you.
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Apr 08, 2005, 11:48 AM
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it's a good thing, poppet, when we can acknewledge that we need support. it's a great thing when we do, and it pays off!
good job! kd
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Apr 09, 2005, 08:26 PM
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(((((poppet)))))
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Apr 09, 2005, 08:55 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
Please will you tell me I am ok, I can trust ppl can't I ?I hate it that I can't see anyone on here and be with ppl who care in real life. I so desperatly need to know I am ok, I want someone to hold my hand. I am crying now so much, can I trust any of you ? I mustn't lose my ability to trust you. I need it restored. It feels so wrong to turn to ppl I can't even see, there isn't anything wrong with me is there ? I haven't done anything to hurt ppl have I ? Please don't reject me - I know I am pathetic, a sad old thing turning to ppl that have the power to hurt me. All ppl have the power to hurt me, that's why I am so nice, so they won't. I just want some friends who understand. take care of yourselves, Poppet </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> man this sounds like me tonight totally......wish I could cut and paste it and post it again and put my name to it.....just wanted you to know your not alone.....my T is taking two weeks off to be with his wife who is having surgery for cancer and he might have to cancel his practice and I am so SCARED....I have never trusted anyone until him and now this....I do not want to be abandoned again....so I turn to the boards here for comfort and I know people are here for me and they are here to talk to....so PM me anytime ..........I could use the talk myself.........take care
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Apr 09, 2005, 09:45 PM
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there are tons of good people here who care about both of you...........i know i do...pat
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Apr 10, 2005, 05:16 AM
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(((((Hey Poppet
 )))))Yeah.....I CARE!!!! Does that mean anything to you? Remember the PM we shared on the 8th? You were feeling pretty bad about relying oncomfort from ppl you didn't really know,,,but remember the optimist reply that rings in your head. The ppl in these forums do care an awful lot about you. You just need to re-adjust your settings on life's meaning...eh?  If you're in a crummy, uncomfortable place in life right now here's the quote of the year: PM me!I'm open 24/7 *if my hubby is playing solitaire, I have to wait my turn,,,,,,,here's some comfort, dear Poppet......      (((((DAYZEE)))))))))P.S: To anyone who is bothered, I apologize for my massive use of smilies 
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Apr 10, 2005, 06:13 AM
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for being there, Lost Lonely, Kimmy, Cat eye, Hope, Pat, and Dayzee. You great big lovely ppl ! Didn't expect any more messages - and these all help me so much. Just knowing its ok helps me feel ok again. I have been working through such a lot this week - I have a counsellor but have not seen him for 5 weeks, but I have had years of working stuff out in my own head, so can do it alone - thankfully ! As you can see, I'm in rational mode today -well, so far anyway  !Hope you are all doing ok ?...........................Poppet ((((((((((((((((((hugs to all)))))))))))))) .gif) you angels !!!
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Apr 10, 2005, 03:27 PM
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good to hear you're in a better place today!
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Apr 25, 2005, 07:01 AM
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(((((((((((((((((((((Poppet)))))))))))))))))))))
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