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#851
Oct 04, 2011, 06:51 AM
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I'm proud of myself for saying NO yesterday to people who only want to use me. Now if I can continue doing this will be the challenge.
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#853
Oct 04, 2011, 01:56 PM
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I didn't pass the entry exam for the university I wanted and the other universities are either too expensive or I don't wanna study the stuff they have (engineering puaj!). My job pays very little and has no future and I'm too old... for this country anyway.
My ex-girlfriend/bestfriend has been drifting away from me. She didn't even asked about my university test yet I have always been there for her even at the cost of my own mental stability. I can't shake the feeling of just give up, this has been going on for too much time now. 
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#854
Oct 05, 2011, 12:02 AM
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I forgot I was a member of the forum. Good thing I got a friend request to remind me.
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#855
Oct 05, 2011, 06:16 PM
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I see that having trouble saying "No" to being used is not a problem unique to my life. (Not that I ever thought it was.)
Among the people I like and, in some cases, even love, there are some who are prone to wanting to "use" me. Since some of these are persons whom I really do love, I don't see an easy solution in just avoiding them. Well, now that I think of it . . . . . I am avoiding some of them to a degree. I mean to say that it can be hard to know and care for people who I do want to have in my life, but who tend to put me in the position of having to say "No" on a frequent basis. I guess it's just a skill I'm going to have to work on. I think doing that would be a way for me to have more respect for myself. I think that might be something I need to have more of. I'm trying to come out of depression and I made some progress. I really need to make more. |
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#856
Oct 05, 2011, 08:36 PM
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Trying to figure out how to take my ex to court without an attorney.
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#860
Oct 06, 2011, 06:55 AM
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#861
Oct 06, 2011, 01:30 PM
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I've had a terrible day. I'm feeling distraught, vulnerable and fragile right now (the headache is not so bad compared to that) and could do with a hug.
Why does life have to be like this? :-(
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#862
Oct 06, 2011, 01:40 PM
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What's the point????? Why did I even dare to hope? Foolishness.
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#864
Oct 06, 2011, 10:06 PM
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Woke up with a sore throat, going to go to bed with a sore throat. Hope it's just allergy related and not an illness.
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#866
Oct 07, 2011, 07:11 AM
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I feel the paranoia starting.....every car, every call, every noise. I jump out of my skin. And when I took a nap I swore I heard someone pounding on the door and of course no one was there. I have my curtains shut, doors locked and the sound on the TV so low I can barely hear it. I hate not feeling safe.
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#867
Oct 07, 2011, 11:15 AM
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Porcupine2 - That sounds really sticky, icky uncomfortable. So, like when he stops to see her, he drops by to see you? I would for sure not take any invitation to do anything at all with them. That let's him wedge in further. Maybe you could act real boring when he visits. But with the language barrier, that distance is already there probably. I reserve the right to just not answer my doorbell at times, which was very hard for me to do but got easier.
I always try to discourage unwanted interest very "gently," but I'm learning to be less gentle. In the end, that may be what it takes. Awful hard for me, but being on the puppet strings of others has got me so down. |
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#871
Oct 07, 2011, 07:26 PM
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Still have that awfull sore throat. Dr said it could be strep, a virus, or mono. If I'm not doing better Monday, I have to go in for a mono test.
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#873
Oct 07, 2011, 09:47 PM
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im sad so sad
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