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Old Nov 01, 2003, 04:34 PM
witsend witsend is offline
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For the past seven years I've been feeling out of control. My youngest daughter was killed 7 years ago. I've had one failed relationship after another its getting harder and harder to keep going. My friends are tired and so am I


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Old Nov 01, 2003, 05:42 PM
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You've been thru. one of the most traumatic things a person can have happen; stick around and let us get to know you, and you us. It helps to have a place to talk things thru.. I'm truly sorry for your terrible loss. Best regards, Peanut

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Old Nov 01, 2003, 08:10 PM
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That is really tough to handle and I'm sure you can use a lot of support. I have never experienced anything like that, but I have recovered from a life of panic anxity and depression thanks to the tools I learned in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). You may want to look into it as it may be able to help you get back on track.

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Old Nov 04, 2003, 08:03 AM
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Hang in there!! I couldn't even begin to imagine what you have been through. I do on the other hand know what it's like to lose someone close to you. I've lost all 4 of my grandparents and 2 good friends. I have no children yet but I'm sure that is one of the worst things that could ever happen. It sounds to me like the loss of your child was the begining of a downward spiral. You must try to come to grips with the fact that you lost your child and just remember the happy times you had together. Try not to dwell on the past. There is nothing you can do to bring your child back, so cherish the time you had and go on with your life the best you can. Once you've let go, your life will go back to normal.
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Old Nov 04, 2003, 11:55 PM
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you're tough enough. my younger sister was murdered, years ago, but effects linger. it may seem cold consulation, but current life-science and physics have show a real heaven's possibility---real as here. grieving for those there, if it be, doesn't do much. you're daughter's probably ok--even simple probability says 'something happen, probably happen again'---no reason for people to jump, we seem here for a reason. maybe we get paid for it? it may seem whimsy, but look-out, the net available corroboration is hard science. i hope it's my own delusion, but seems death exists. if so---why not make the most of life while here, heaven or not? does your pain make your daughter any happier? i doubt it. maybe it's time we both said 'adios' to ghosts? lithium is very effective at enhancing the life of truly depressed people, for decades it's been known. if you're deprssed it may work miracles, even non-bipolar depressions. we're not the same biochemistry, but mabe the 'same' enough. and if she was ok sometime before, so may she be later. fortunately i've made too much money to be called crazy--rather, 'perhaps eccentric'---the reason i speak of lithium is due to re-onset of use and seeing benefit. it even repairs neural tissue. if you see the end of the rope i'd see a dr. about lico. please feel better.

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Old Nov 05, 2003, 04:43 AM
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Hi witsend

Its ok to feel out of control, and i understand how tough things have been for you and still are. Dont give up though, its not worth it. You have people who need you and love you.

I can't begin to think what it is like to loose someone of ur own flesh and blood but offer you my full support.

As for failed relationships, I feel the same and im redy to give up, but I think you should focus on those u have already and see what happens

All My Love and Support
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