[Fuzzybear]

I am feeling both invisible and disgusting. It is not because of what any of you who post on here have done. I really, really suck

[vlynnrn2004]

Hello fuzzybear! Sounds like both you and I could use a hug right now. I am also not feeling the greatest right now, but it is good to know that we are not alone. I really do wish I could give you a big hug right now to let you know that you are not invisible, that you are someone special. To be able to take your hand and say let's walk together, you lean on me and I will lean on you and together we can get through this hard time. I do care and I am glad you posted how you felt. The support here is what is helping me to go on and knowing that there are others who do care and are willing to lend a shoulder to cry on, a helping hand and uplifting words. Quote of the day: "...and then the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom".
A big hug from me to you!

[Peanut61]

You know you are none of those things, ((((((((((Fuzzy)))))))))... We care about our Sweet Bear so much; can you talk to us about any of the things that are causing you to feel so badly?

You know we care, and that we are here to listen, right?

<font color=blue>HI FROM PEANUT</font color=blue>

[PlanningtoLive]

If you really were either of those two things, you never would have been missed while you were gone, and you were, tremendously.

You hold a very special place in everyone's heart here, Fuzzy. Even though I don't know much about you in 3D, I know enough about the kind of person you are from the replies you give to people here. Such a sweet, gentle person you are - not invisible and certainly not disgusting.

You enrich life, not take away from it.


<font color=purple>&lt;font size=1&gt;The key to realizing a dream is to focus not on success but significance - and then even the small steps and little victories along your path will take on greater meaning.
Oprah Winfrey (1954 - ), O Magazine, September 2002&lt;/font&gt;<font color=purple>

I'm so sorry that you're feeling this way; you always have so much to offer those who are in the forums, so hopefully some of your encouragement will find it's way back to you.
You're a sweetie, so hopefully you find your way through this day and find yourself in a sweeter tomorrow.
Blessings,
Jon

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[dexter]

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[darkeyes]

You are NOT worthless !!!!!!!!
((((((((((((((((( Fuzzy ))))))))))))))

In giving advice seek to help, not please your friend
SOLON

[Fuzzybear]

Thanks everyone ... I really appreciate your replies.

I have internalised a lot of guilt, abandonment fears and feelings of being "not good enough" (grrr) from my childhood and abusive others ....Hmm ... not much of a reply I know, I need to think about this more and maybe write something that actually says something (I just deleted a sentence here ...) My trust issues block me in a lot of ways although you guys have been so sweet to me ...

Those feelings of worthlessness go back to my early childhood so are hard to shake completely. An abusive doctor and therapist sure didn't help

Love you all,
Fuzzy

[Peanut61]

Awwh, ((((((((((((((((Fuzz))))))))))))))...

I'm so sorry...

Issues from childhood involving abuse can be so traumatic, and have a profound effect on trust of others/oneself, etc.. ...

You Sweet Bear...

<font color=blue>HI FROM PEANUT</font color=blue>

[wisewoman]

Fuzzybear, I can't remember if you now have a therapist you can trust? That makes a lot of difference on the developing trust thing. I too had an abusive therapist. She was horrid. But, my current t is the opposite and has let me do all of the push pulling I have needed to to make sure she was trustworthy. Try to pretend that you are a stranger meeting you and getting to know you. What would your feelings be then? I bet you would be positive and caring and like that person who is you. Hmmmm. Feel better.

[Butterfly_Faerie]

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<font color=red>~Sundance~</font color=red>

<font color=blue>"Never react emotionally to criticism. Analyze yourself to determine whether it is justified. If it is, correct yourself. Otherwise, go on about your business."</font color=blue>

<font color=black>Norman Vincent Peale</font color=black>

[Fuzzybear]

Thanks everyone ... I don't feel that I deserve your kindness ... I feel that I deserve the abuse and indifference that I am used to. But I do appreciate you all,

Love,
Fuzzy

[SS8282]

(((((((((((((Fuzzy))))))))))))))))))) sorry you're feeling like that.

[shakes]

((((((Fuzzy)))))))
Your posts have made me feel better when I thought stuff was crashing around me. That is a really hard thing to do. Please do not feel worthless because you are a beautiful person!!!!

Stay Strong,
Jessica

PS: The frog wants you to feel better too!

<font color=blue> You are in this snowglobe. It is encovered in glass and secure. But one day someone comes and shakes the globe and the pieces go flying everywhere. Now they will eventually settle but they won't be the way they were before and they can never be that way again. </font color=blue>

[Fuzzybear]

Thanks gang! ((((((((((((((((Hugs))))))))))))))))

Love to all,
Fuzzy

[alm15]

I SEE YOU!!!! And I think you are such a wonderful person! I wish you lived close to me so we could hang out. I really understand the past screwing up the present. It's really frustating and sad. But you'll get through it. Remember: this too will pass. My hope for is that one day you'll look around, realize how wonderful you are and take out the trash! And by trash, I mean all those people who treat you badly. I did that a few years ago and it was wonderful! Dealing with my stuff is hard enough without having people around who are hurtfull and adding pain and stress to my life rather than being beacons of light. It can feel lonely sometimes but i'd rather be lonely than miserable. I love you, Fuzzy! You're going to be OK! You are O.K. Annie

[Wants2Fly]

I apologize for digressing from thread topic. Could someone tell me where to get and how to insert the animations? Or the emoticons? I love your Fuzzybear, Fuzzybear!

[gloria]

I want to know too, I don't know how to do it.

gab

[Fuzzybear]

Thank you Annie! I really appreciate your kindness and support. I think you're great too, and I often wish I lived closer to you and some of the others here so that we could hang out I think you are right about throwing out the trash, I am working on it!

Love,
Fuzzy

[Fuzzybear]

Hey Wants2Fly and Gab, I am not sure of the answer to this, but Dex is an expert in these things ... maybe you could start a post and Dex or one of the others will reply ...

Take care,
Fuzzy