confessions of little turtle with love

I’m here now

And I’m sad and pissed off,

Why do so many people try to lecture me

I just don’t get it

It’s boring, hurtful and useless to me

I am always thankful to see your posts Fuzzy.

I have had this too. Why do some people take no notice of our boundaries?

I understand your pain. Emotional attacks often feel worse that a physical one to me.

Much love you you

Hi Thirty shades, thanks for your post.

I agree, some people either don’t understand boundaries or maybe simply don’t

care..

I suppose those who had “good enough” parents would learn about healthy boundaries in childhood

Some of us have had to learn the hard way.

And we don’t need repeated “lessons” when we have already learnt it.

I’m sorry you’ve experienced this too. I agree, that emotional attacks do often feel worse than a physical attack.

I think possibly more therapists are acknowledging this now.. there’s so much “proof” from “what little I know” ...

But imo those who do not live outside the USA have little idea of how sub optimal some doctors can be.

Things and people are not the same everywhere.

Surprise

Sorry about the rant

Maybe I’ve “run” the bus off the road?

Did you know it’s always fuzzys fault, anything that isn’t perfect

Maybe it’s time to be silent, if I don’t censor everything I say I’m apparently always “wrong”

So maybe it really is “my fault” - everything

No! Don't be silent. Nobody's perfect, Fuzzy. That would be boring.
I'm very sad too.

It's good I was on the bus alone because my bus crashed and burned.

Lecture you on PC? Maybe it's their way of helping...I don't know. I don't believe anyone here would want to see you hurt, Fuzzy. Sometimes people feel helpless and unable to support others, or , like me they try to help and screw it up. Screw it up badly. Should I shut my F****** mouth?

love is patient...
love is kind....
there is hope for us...

Please don't be sorry for saying how you feel. If you, of all people stop this, then what are the rest of us to do? A lot of us see what you say, and it gives us the courage to say how we feel!

Thank You Little T, I think we all need this. I know I do!!!

I thought drugs were going to be the answer...
for years I have been studying the causes of anxiety/panic/depression...
my little organization was called basic brain research...and no money was involved..
but so far I am very frustrated...I have found that eating healthy and having
healthy physical activity may be extremely important but I have a very hard time
eating healthy...I always want to binge on sugar....I think nutrition is important for
mental health....but how important...I am frustrated...I wish I knew a lot more..
I just don't think psych drugs are going to do it....I think they treat symptoms
not causes...I am very unhappy right now...love is patient...love is kind....there is hope...

It’s really hard work being a human/bear

Is it true that only the “tough” survive for long

If so then many of us are “tough” I guess

But I still find that concept not particularly helpful or useful

Although I’ve never been a psychiatrist I kind of know what you mean

Especially

I’m very unhappy right now

Love is patient
Love is kind
There is hope


PS I have been reading on another forum where there are a few people who attack others quite regularly. I don’t engage them. It’s rather sad when people feel the need to do that . And it’s always, of course, the other person’s “fault”

And that’s exactly what the PUs did to me, blamed me for everything

do no harm...the silver rule...
I am not talking religion..
I need to do no harm...

and I don't like false hopes..
these psych drugs are supposed to do wonders..
I haven't seen the wonder yet...
I like real hope...and I don't like all this money $$$$$$$$$$$$
people making big money off of us ...false hopes...
we don't need anymore crap

I kept getting ear infections some years ago
And now I have a boil on my butt
I’m trying not to eat sugar as I think sugar might not help the body to fight infection,

I hope I don’t have to consult a doctor

Maybe I’m being “paranoid” thinking I might have to consult a doctor for this.

I know fuzzy bears issues which aren’t psych are “boring”

I just don’t want to have to take antibiotics which I’d almost certainly be allergic to

And now I’ve prolly “brought the whole forum down and run the bus off the road”

boil on butt...
the bus can take that ok

I am still doing basic brain research...
I know a lot about sugar...I need ...I want....
I was pre-diabetic and that caused me problems..
I have studied pre-diabetes a lot...I need to know more
about how it effects the brain...

anybody have any ideas...I am stuck

I don’t know much about this little turtle

It’s a good question though

does nutrition have anything to do with depression...
I think it does but I don't know...

Now it’s time to tend to that boil. Again

And the sore mouth - again

Sorry tmi

I can’t censor everything I say
I’d end up saying nothing

Grrrrrrrr

Hugs to all on the bus

boil on the butt....boil on the bus...

My H gets then very often. We use icthamal salve. This stuff is a old fashioned remedy that does work, by making the boil come to a head, and rupture. It is messy, but it does work, I have seen it many times with my H!

I think if you are seriously deficient in B vitamins it can have an effect on mood.

Vitamin D also affects mood. I become psychotic after my treatment with vitamin D was over.

I think that these psych drugs can be helpful...
but I also think they are treating symptoms..
nutrition may be dealing with some of the causes
of our mental suffering...I am probably full of crap...
fuzzy help me...lonely chemist correct me..