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Old Jul 27, 2007, 11:56 PM
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so I have had it..

One of my alters is engaging in something that is putting all of us at great risk.. quiete a bit of danger.. actually..

I could "xxxxxxxxxxx" her... but onwards she goes..

I think that her thought is ... "hells bells" she doesn't want to live anyway.. so what does it matter if she gets the rest of us killed while she does this..

So I am completely at a loss.

Feel that no one can help.

Feel that no one would want to help.

T seems completely STUPID... I have told him to a certain extent.. but he hasn't a clue.. Clueless T = Stupid T.

Feel that I might as well just let her get us killed.. cause what can I do.. she has her own life and lives it.. always has.. always will..

So that's that..

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Old Jul 28, 2007, 02:58 AM
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((((((((((((freewill)))))))))))) I'm so sorry that T is clueless on this. A good T can make such a major difference. We had a situation where a part of the brain was doing things to the body wanting to destroy the body. T helped immensely but it was really hard. She actually had to trigger that part of my brain so she could talk to her. I don't think that's a good idea to try on your own though. It was probably dangerous for T to do that, but it was necessary for survival and so we tried it. Things aren't perfect now by any means, but definitely better, in that area.

Is your T familiar with DID? If not, maybe he can consult someone who is that might help you guys find a solution? I wish you peace in this situation. I understand the feelings of hopelessness surrounding it. I am amnesiac during times when other parts are out and it makes it so hard to not feel hopeless about it sometimes. I hope you find the hope and help you need to overcome this.

Take care. how does one control an alter  puts us in direct danger? how does one control an alter  puts us in direct danger?
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Old Jul 28, 2007, 06:35 AM
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how does one control an alter  puts us in direct danger? how does one control an alter  puts us in direct danger? Freewill how does one control an alter  puts us in direct danger? how does one control an alter  puts us in direct danger?

Sometimes it feels like I'm just being chased by all of them and then I'm left to deal with what's left. Sounds like that is what you are going through.

Safety does need to be your priority. Can you communicate with this other part? If you can, that would be a good place to start. Then maybe being more direct with T so he knows right out what is going on.

It can be difficult to decipher what we are really thinking or trying to express with DID. A good DID T usually picks up on it.

I don't know how to stop the dangerous behavior with another that isn't communicating. YOUR presence will need to put safeguards in place, maybe leave notes for yourself as reminders.

This kinda sounds to me like I'm rambling and not making any sense. Just lots of Good Luck.

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Old Jul 28, 2007, 10:57 PM
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Sending you happy thoughts Freewill.
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Do you have a strong alter who runs the system or puts people away? We have a big dungeon that you can't escape from that we put people in and they can't get out of and cause trouble.... Sometimes I send someone with a strongly energetic personality out, like Little, because she can take over no matter who is out AND she can choose to stay out as long as she wants. Do you have someone like that?

That's just what I do when I need to... I hope this helps a little.
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Old Jul 29, 2007, 01:09 PM
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That is a really good system.... I like that... thank you..

and thank you all.... the last few days have been very tough... and scary...
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Oh yes, I *love* it when T's are absolutely clueless... I had to tell mine what DID was and he still doesn't totally get it... I hope you find a good T who can help you.
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