cancer and family history

But real world is >>> I be the Caregiver ... My Definition of that is . = . I Care !!! >>>>> aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnddddddddddddddd,,,,,,,,if you can't give a damn ??? >>. I WILL !!! .

oh hon I am so sorry she is up to this again! (((hugs)))

Yea Bop ,,, oh twell ??? ... although ,,,,.

Her father and I just had a good convo that went to WTF shouting ,, and then I got him to admit he had a good memory >> [ i do ] >>. hehe . I going to put that man on hold and make him see self hurt ..... Last time I did was 22 cuts in like 10 seconds >>>. And the pic in gallery pic titled Mandas bracelet . Enlarge that and that shows what A tat won't cover.

I already know how much I hate myself My landlord has every right to bring sherriff and make us go with the clothes on our backs.

Butttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt WMD >> Knows how to use the legal system too , and is betting she waiting on appeal from smallclaims court and hopefully she not know I have to post the judgement amount as bond to stop her ... Ya see we been here 8 years .....and the place went through 2 hands with out being recorded in clerk of courts records ...

But I be also a coolio as far as life crap ,,, and .................
I rarely lose .... And ***** happens ... and things change daily ... Ya never know.

I got her father to admit he asked me to leave the state and not tell Donna where I was .. In 1989 .
He tried to play me like I was back in 1 year .
Well Yea Donna found me after finding my moms phone # in old prison letters and called ME 9 months later .....

Oh .. and I had to remind him that she was tired of childs cancer ward at Hospital she was at and got fired for being beer buzzed before work ...
And that she called me to help her when she did not want to fail him again in his eyes .....

I shut up > Thanks for letting me vent that .

(((((((((((((((((((((((((wmd)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

please know I dont post much but I read and I am with you.

gentle hug if ok 123

I know 123 ..xoxoxox..

*hugs*

(((((( A ngel )))))) >>>>>>.

Well ,,, finally schedule is in place and Now To help Donna Start seeing what will no longer and be and what is to come ... To even imagine what a Person thinks when the time comes when they get that last look at what they are today and ,,,,,, What the next image in the mirror will be. >>>.

I mean re-construction is OK'ed and all else ,,,,,April 16,.......... And then a few more cosmetic proceedures .
And once that is done , I will most likely end this thread , . For after that ,,, What's the point . Some years of survivor of Breast Cancer Club .... I almost sound as if I have been feeling sorry for myself through this event in the life of a peep I have know and have seen shine as a gracious careing Person to others even as they were dealing with the crap that this has been to them .

wmd give Donna my love and prayers. how soon will they do the reconstruction surgery?

Well, you don't have to end the thread after this because you know there are going to be many ups and downs even AFTER the surgery. It won't end once the surgery is done, my friend....for that may be just another beginning.
The road to recovery is long and you may still need us....it's ok....we will be here no matter what!
Heck, maybe you could start another thread about the recovery process?!


BJ

Bop the re-costruction ,, implants will be done at time of double mastestomy ,, and then a few things cosmetically will be completed in following weeks and months I assume , from what I have been told and have helped Donna to be aware of . So she does not go to dep land ,, right off the bat.

I spose onlymedid ,,, But I have only enough strength to keep her head together and thinking possitvely ............................................ >>>.Me ,, I am so drained from the crap the family is trying to play ,, and WTF > At the expense of WHAT ??? So one of them can be the cream that rises to the top ?
Well He-l . They are welcome to it . I sit daily and Give props and boosts to Her , as they just give idle advice , like Just stop smoking !!!

Oh Sure ??? She has smoked for 30 years and when I get docs to prescribe chantix .. and nic inhalers to help her widdle down the intake ,, they tell me ,, JUST Stop !!!!

I love those that have never had addictions ,,, but know so easily how to get rid of vices ,,, WOW , Wish I was that smart ,, or withdrawls were that easy . LOL.

Hi Wmd,
I know that it has been a long time since we've talked, but I have not forgotten about you or Donna. I am so sorry for all of the pain you are going through.
My sister is still here, but things are definately starting to happen.
I hope that I can be as strong as you are. I think of you and D all of the time.
I haven't really been in PC lately; I guess I feel a little disracted with al that is going on here, and I don't want others to think that all I do is complain.
You and Donna are in my prayers.
xoxoxoxoxoxo((((((((((((((((((( Wmd )))))))))))))))
nina 52

52 good to see you .. and if you wish to call me 50 ,, it now fits. LOL.

Glad to hear things are >> I hope moving along in the good way. Hey , but here's something to give ya a little chuckle ......You know how they say if your palms itch it is a sign of unexpected money ? ...Or in my case ... I just didn't see the poison ivy mixed in with the english ivy I was pulling away off a tree. . Continues to itch hands and fingers.

Oooooooh Noooooo! I hear oatmeal helps. It would give an excuse to play with your food!

BJ

Oh Oh >>>. I itched them real hard and poured bleach on my hand instead

Does the oatmeal need to be cooked first ????

OUCH!!!
Yeah, cook the oatmeal, then put your hands all up in it! LOL

sounds messy lol

MMMMMMMMmmmmmmmmmmmmm ????

This is a nice distraction as far as this thread goes >>> eeerrrmmmmmmmmm ,,,,, Should I let the oatmeal cool first ?

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This is a nice distraction as far as this thread goes >>> eeerrrmmmmmmmmm ,,,,, Should I let the oatmeal cool first ?

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I'm glad I could distract you for a bit!

You just let the oatmeal cool enough that you can stand putting your hands in. Somehow the oatmeal extracts the poison.

Just make sure you don't eat it afterwards cuz then you get the poisons inside your body!

Well onlymedid ,,, Found oatmeal in cabinet ,,, But I live in the south eastern U.S. ,, and we have this stuff called grits ..... I mean there plain and the oatmeal is Cinnamon and Raisin ???? LOL.

>>>> BIG SMILE For onlymedid.!! (((((((( Hugs ))))))). too.

OH...I love grits! Although, they aren't gonna have the same effect as the oatmeal. Besides, you could take out the raisins and put them in another batch and have DOUBLE the raisins!!

Thanks for the Hugs! Right back atcha!

I went ahead and just kept pouring bleach on the itchy .. ,,'bout gone now ,,, and no oatmeal had to suffer .hehe.

Well today is the second year that Donnas' Mom has been gone from Her . She and her Dad spoke ,, and Well ,.,,,,,, Here brother had him over to [ sorry , but Donnas' brother is a confuzzlement to me .] , Donna had wanted to go over to graveyard with her father and sit ... Nothing More ,, nothing Less. .

This day will repeat itself again in another year ,,, * maybe next time *.

And in 2 weeks and a couple days ,, Donna has her surgery . It is sad to me that her Brother is this successful Family peep . & Donna gets second class treatment when she too has alot to say ,, and Probabley could have Really needed a GOOD CRY with her Father .

Glad to hear the itchy is almost gone! Now you can EAT the oatmeal....yay!

I think it is awful that she can't have the some part of the day with her father to go to the graveyard. That is very sad to me.
She has YOU! I know it's not the same, but it helps, I am sure.

((((DONNA))))

{{{{{{{{{{{{{ onlymedid and her mom }}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}.