cancer and family history

Good deal! You are on the ball! I agree, discuss with the docs and see what the best course of action to take would be! You are amazing and handling this so well. I commend you!

{{{{{wmd}}}}} we apologize for not being able to read this thread

it hits far too close to home for us

Zo ,,, You give me support in so many ways ,,, Don't read this thread ,,, you got me . And if you ask something I will sugar coat it ,,, as best I can ,,, But I will never say Can we talk of this subject.

Love Ya Zo . .

corky. where are youuu, i miss you. im sending big hugs andlove yours ad donnas way. this is a truly difficult situation. i wish i could do more to help. but i cant so ill just give u mylove for now.
talk to me please im someone to vent on, im here to listen. i wish yahoo call ******* worked. grrr
love u kiddo, take good care
dot

>>. Thank You onlymedid,, At least as this trial of the mind plays out ,,, I will know more than I did last Year at this time . <<<<, If I not go crazy .

>>>>>>>>>>>..AAAAAWwwwwwwwwwwww MAAAAAAAANNNNNNNNNNNNNn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

W M D has been doing research ..... .

Wow ,,,, Many things to consider here.
And I believe the psyche of the person this directly affects ,,, Most important ...
[[[[[[[[[[ REASON ]]]]]]]]]]].

If you want a Peep to go through same thing maybe awhile down the road ,,, you have to leave them as whole as possible . What I mean is ,,,, The Depression factor would weigh in heavy if a cancer >>> lose more things ... { oh ,, her hair is coming back } .....

But Bottom line is support and thinking for them sometimes as you may know there reactions as to any situation .

((((wmd)))) you are amazing....

>>>>>>>>... HI Wings !!! .. I must just be missing ya when you come on line .

The amazing thing .....>>. . I D K ??

Wmd you truly are amazing. Your taking good care of Donna

. Yea Muffy ,,, let's not tell her dad that.

He will bust her chops when we need help on something like eeeeerrrrrrmmmmmmmm a 2 month bill for water service ........$ 70.oo. OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOoh And he is never going to spend his wealth unless he lives to be 200 yrs. old .

He Like 76 now .

And he knows I am going through this with her to be there as needed. >> . Doing small side jobs in home improvement repair for just 2 peeps at the moment <<<<, Although they have rental properties . But after things are fixed >>> ??? . I wait for another thing that as my life is ,,,, 4 leaf clover . .

Main thing with dad peep is ,,, he is real old southern school .

*hugs corky* bless yah. tell her dad if he wnt her to be happy he needs to help the hell out. otherwise well. cmon dude.
u doin agood job there tho cork. keep goin. and get a doc check out your discs!
lol
thouht id put that in there somewhere
just cuz ur concentratin on donnas health doesnt mean u gota forget your own. youve always done that.
*hugs*
tc e.son
dot

Thanks Selfy ,,,, The discs in my lower back I am pretty sure caused by weather change .>*ouch*<.

Well ,,, I have my 50 year old/young birthday , then the next day Donnas cosmetic surgeon consult .... I researching vocabulary as far as mastectomy and re-construct..

At least Docs' time will not be wasted if he be focused and not giving a 3 min lesson in >>. This is what it will be << ....

As I said before ,, if a peep may see this thing again or shortly there after ,,,,.
Wanna give them the thought of this won't be so bad or at least >>>. No Worse.

Couple days ago Donna had consult on re construction and Time she would be out for it and what it will entail .

I Knew the jargon and was able to help Donna understand and see this Surgeons before and after pics . Of his Work . << He GOOD .!!!

When he was showing Donna after pics ,,, I asked " Those are like 5 month after shots , right? "

And Yea ,,, And Then I asked Doc Peep if after 9 months there is a less dramatic visual thing ,, and he did agree.

So now wait for schedule and deal with the next step ...

I <<<<< TRULY WISH It was ME going through this ,, rather than such a Sweet Peep.

You are a sweet peep too, WMD

Thank You Clyde ,,,,, We won't use the water test to see just how sweet I am though ,,,>>>>> <<<<< I might melt completely awwwwwwaaaayyyyyyy !!!!! LOL.

I know that feeling

<<<<<<<<<<<<<, [ put that face on hold ] .

hehe Clyde .

OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOoooook >>>>>. <<<<<. back to face thingy .
Donna and I have talked about ,, " maybe best I leave ".

Ya know how family peeps can be ???
LIke they think they going to be the >>> Magic Bullet <<<.. The one that will be patted on the back ,,,,, I say to them >>> " OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOk You want this " ???? Go for it and accept the reprecussions.

Donna will stay here and take care of business as to her health.................I will re-establish us in Florida >> 8oo miles away !!! >>>>>>>>>>>. And after we tell them our plans ,,,,,,, it will be in there court if they help out during this transition . <<<< Meaning ,, waiting on disability monies and [ Donna not going to give up her animals ] Thing is >> I also a stray that Donna saved
My life span just a bit longer . hehe .
Not the real point though.

when does she have her mastectomy done hon? I hate that you are going to have to go so she can get her family to help! that stinks!

No matter what kind of cancer it is so scary. I am glad you are there for her. You seem like a love of a life time.

Hey Bop ,,,,, I awoke this morning after a symbolic dream , I will try to make the words fit and draw a scenario that seems to be the Bigger picture . I'll post it in creative.

It is so fresh in my mind <<<<< This Dream.

Waiting to hear from Docs as to Schedule.

i love yah corky. i know this is a difficult situation. *big hug big hug*
if i can help in any ways at all im here. and im open to listening.
hokay~?
so no hiding sad stuff or or or trying to be strong quiet man. cuz i get noyed.
remember we you!!
so nyer.
*hugs*

Don't be 'noyed Selfy ...... I be annoyed at Donna ,,,, I go out to do a job and I ,,,,,, come home to an empty 13.5 % by volume bottle of McManis family vineyards 2005 ,, Cabernet Sauvignon . <<< . Inexpensive like ,, but a good dinner wine .

She didn't have dinner with it .
And I was only gone less than 2 hours.

Well, it sounds like you have every right to be annoyed. Maybe she is trying to drown out her fears, pain, anger and whatever else she may be feeling by drinking it away.
Is she in any kind of therapy? I know my mom got really depressed the longer the cancer stuck around.
My mom was very stubborn and refused to talk to anyone. I hope Donna isn't like that.
You are a good person and I am sorry that this whole thing is so hard on you and on her.

BJ

My thought process is >> Donna Look at caloric in - take and Why You Drinking again ,,

Thing is while trying to keep from losing dogs ,, cats ,,, and Home through this ,,, << .. We not married for 28 years together ,, so I cannot speak for her ,.

And what I make only covers the what is after emptying the IRAs' and making sure there are no assests over $2,000.oo car include ???????????????

I love written rules as to what you can have When you are going to start losing body parts >>

So I just said >> " Well De-tox again is still an option before surgery " >>> Her choice .