Was there an ad written somewhere that I must of missed?? Where is eveyone coming from?

A few pointers for the repeated questions:

If you feel bad about hurting people...... You don't have NPD

If you understand others feelings and can put yourself in their shoes..... You don't have NPD

If you really care what others are speaking about that doesn't pertain to benefiting you.... You don't have NPD

If you feel for a complete stranger..... You don't have NPD

Just because you think your the best...... You don't have NPD

Best looking...... You don't have NPD

Feel free to add to this list. Im only doing it so we can stop reading all these stupid sob stories of what if's that are a complete waste of our time. (Not being the best I can be right now)

[glok]

Thank you for sharing, Underground.

[Atypical_Disaster]

If you feel bad about the possibility of having NPD, you don't have NPD.

If you are simply vain, you don't have NPD.

If you simply are actually intelligent and self-confident, you don't have NPD.

If you think this forum is too rough and/or offensive, you don't have NPD.

If you can turn your empathy on and off, you don't have NPD.

Your welcome glok

[shakespeare47]

Wow. I must be in really bad shape... Even the NPD's are rejecting me....

seems a little rude to say "Even the NPDs"

[shakespeare47]

^ no offense meant. Hopefully, you'll let me check in from time to time, as I do have so of the same traits.....

[Atypical_Disaster]

Originally Posted by shakespeare47

Wow. I must be in really bad shape... Even the NPD's are rejecting me....

That makes it sound like we're scum of the earth or something.

I suggest you tread carefully here when you post.

Its NARC time!!!!!!! We have these forums for us! The moderators here do a great job for us! Treading lightly is a nice way of putting it as like all who goes against us the moderators do make changes. To be accepted is best by understanding, to say things like "even us" creates set backs. Please remember you are dealing with a group that takes things very personally(Part of our disorder). SO with that being said you can apologize now and we can reconsider what is allowed.

[Notoriousglo]

Is bragging about your personality disorder part of the profile? Is it crazy to say I'd rather be NPD than BPD? I would rather feel awesome and not give a ****. Yet, you mentioned you're sensitive to criticisms....how can you be sensitive if you don't care? Lmao. So confused...no offense, I get confused with everyone....personality disorder or not...

[Atypical_Disaster]

Originally Posted by euphy

Is bragging about your personality disorder part of the profile? Is it crazy to say I'd rather be NPD than BPD? I would rather feel awesome and not give a ****. Yet, you mentioned you're sensitive to criticisms....how can you be sensitive if you don't care? Lmao. So confused...no offense, I get confused with everyone....personality disorder or not...

Narcissists have huge egos, but they are fragile egos. Personally, I am very quick to take offense when someone says something that I perceive is threatening my superiority in some way. I cannot tolerate criticism. If someone criticizes me at all they are risking me flying into a rage at worst, and at best I cut down whoever it is to size verbally so they'll be sorry they had the audacity to insult me.

Originally Posted by euphy

Is bragging about your personality disorder part of the profile? Is it crazy to say I'd rather be NPD than BPD? I would rather feel awesome and not give a ****. Yet, you mentioned you're sensitive to criticisms....how can you be sensitive if you don't care? Lmao. So confused...no offense, I get confused with everyone....personality disorder or not...

The sensitivity is how we feel we are being portrayed. Not caring about others is one thing, making sure we are seen as above is what's more cared about. Criticism to us is as simple as being questioned.

[waiting4]

Originally Posted by Underground

The sensitivity is how we feel we are being portrayed. Not caring about others is one thing, making sure we are seen as above is what's more cared about. Criticism to us is as simple as being questioned.

Really, underground...you HAVE to write a book. Really.

I know I know it's just that my mind works to fast for me to actually write a book. My wife would probably not like many things too lol

[Atypical_Disaster]

Bump, because people need to see this thread.

Agree on that one

[Atypical_Disaster]

Like I said earlier, of course you agree with me silly!

[LUTE20]

Originally Posted by Underground

Was there an ad written somewhere that I must of missed?? Where is eveyone coming from?

A few pointers for the repeated questions:

If you feel bad about hurting people...... You don't have NPD

If you understand others feelings and can put yourself in their shoes..... You don't have NPD

If you really care what others are speaking about that doesn't pertain to benefiting you.... You don't have NPD

If you feel for a complete stranger..... You don't have NPD

Just because you think your the best...... You don't have NPD

Best looking...... You don't have NPD

Feel free to add to this list. Im only doing it so we can stop reading all these stupid sob stories of what if's that are a complete waste of our time. (Not being the best I can be right now)

thanks honestly I don't think about these questions at all. Like hurting people. I don't really feel it matters if I'm hurting anyone as long as I'm not breaking the law. I don't really assume to know what's going on in other people's heads.
At my job though I wish sometimes I understood people's feelings more. Because I look stupid not really knowing what to do next.

I was raised though this way to not really care what others say whether good or bad I think my mom is AvPD so I tend to be similar keep to myself not put much weight into what others say and the like.

The rest hits I don't feel like I want to really delve into it though.

Originally Posted by Atypical_Disaster

If you feel bad about the possibility of having NPD, you don't have NPD.

If you are simply vain, you don't have NPD.

If you simply are actually intelligent and self-confident, you don't have NPD.

If you think this forum is too rough and/or offensive, you don't have NPD.

If you can turn your empathy on and off, you don't have NPD.

I don't worry about having NPD. I worry about AsPD. I think the violent thoughts I have scare me because I don't like the result if I were to get caught. I don't want to be raped or beaten or restrained where I can go and I don't like having anyone tell me what to do like I would in prison.
I have a high iq. So did my dad. I've always known I was smart. I am confident but the rest hits. I don't feel those things. But again I don't feel like delving into it.

[Gingy01]

Originally Posted by LUTE20

thanks honestly I don't think about these questions at all. Like hurting people. I don't really feel it matters if I'm hurting anyone as long as I'm not breaking the law. I don't really assume to know what's going on in other people's heads.
At my job though I wish sometimes I understood people's feelings more. Because I look stupid not really knowing what to do next.

I was raised though this way to not really care what others say whether good or bad I think my mom is AvPD so I tend to be similar keep to myself not put much weight into what others say and the like.

I don't worry about having NPD. I worry about AsPD. I think the violent thoughts I have scare me because I don't like the result if I were to get caught. I don't want to be raped or beaten or restrained where I can go and I don't like having anyone tell me what to do like I would in prison.

If you don't think you could handle receiving those things why do you think you ponder doing them to others?

[LUTE20]

Originally Posted by Gingy01

If you don't think you could handle receiving those things why do you think you ponder doing them to others?

Because I like to think about it. It would really be exciting if I could do it without getting caught without any punishment. I don't dislike the thoughts just the risk and punishment it would cause. I would be pretty pissed if I didn't think of how I'd make someone pay. It would be like something that's unfinished and then that just gets bigger and heavier. But I've never done anything because I like my freedom.

I've tried ignoring it just gets worst for me. I just will get a total outburst or have to take it out on some small defenseless animal. Which it solves nothing I'm still mad as hell.

[Gingy01]

Sounds like you should just deal with the fact that you can't do it.

Like going to the moon. It's an enjoyable thought to some, but it's unrealistic so it's just a passing thought.

If you think you can't control the thoughts and prison is something you fear too much then maybe you should seek some help.

[LUTE20]

Originally Posted by Gingy01

Sounds like you should just deal with the fact that you can't do it.

Like going to the moon. It's an enjoyable thought to some, but it's unrealistic so it's just a passing thought.

If you think you can't control the thoughts and prison is something you fear too much then maybe you should seek some help.

I want to try T again...
Idk if it'll work. Sometimes T's expect something that **** just doesn't really work.

I went to T when I was 15. She was useless.

[Gingy01]

Oh no not Fluffy!! Poor Fluffy...
any who, sounds like you have some anger issues you need to work through. perhaps any target would yield the same disappointment.

[LUTE20]

Originally Posted by Gingy01

Oh no not Fluffy!! Poor Fluffy...
any who, sounds like you have some anger issues you need to work through. perhaps any target would yield the same disappointment.

what I'm confused...

Anyhow I agree.

[Gingy01]

Originally Posted by LUTE20

what I'm confused...

Anyhow I agree.

It was a joke.

But yes I think there might be a root to what you're feeling and you might fantasize about getting release but really it wouldn't be relieving. Just a theory.