PC...What Is Going On Here???? UGH!!! HATE ALL this Cr*p

I have been staying quiet and just sitting back but things are starting to get to me.
I came to PC back in March and I came here to for support and help, NOT to see BICKERING, FIGHTING, CLICKINESS.
I have faught with these things ALL my life.
I am just wanting to be able to come here and know I am SAFE and FEEL SAFE and lately it does NOT FEEL that way and I do not like that. PC has been the first place I had found that I really liked and actually felt like I fit in. But with all that has been going on lately I do not want to be HERE...ALL of this has NOT been helping my depression any...ALL of this has NOT been helping my anxiety any....ALL of this has NOT been helping my SIing any and isn't that what this site is for???

I just FEEL so BAD for Doc John, here this man is trying to have a site for us to help us out and he has to deal with all these different EMOTIONS being throwed at him for different reasons from different people suffering from different disorders....that CANNOT be easy on him either...
I am just tired of all of this Cr*p and I want to RUN and RUN far like always in my life. I want to Cut and Cut deep.....like always in my life...EVERYWHERE I go there is trouble and EVERYTHING I touch turns bad......so maybe if I go away you guys will ALL be ok. again....
UGH.....just so TIRED of all of this......sorry for venting....

I hang out with dogs a lot and have learned this about cr*p:

If you ignore it, and try not to step in it, ....it's really no big problem. Eventually it dries up and blows away.

Take care.

em

Hope try to look at it as "Were all having a temporary moment" and as Emmy said it will blow away
Angie

LOL Em, I know just what you mean!

This is how I deal...I start with me by recognizing that I can't change other people, the only person I can change is me. I do not take responsibilty for other ppl's issues, negativity or irresponsible behavior. I seek out those who are of like mind and of like heart and focus soley on the betterment of ourselves and support of others.

All these posts about what's going on around here, or not going on around here are probably not producing the changes that the poster wishes. It's like banging your head against a brick wall. Ouch, that hurts and it's unproductive and just continues the cycle of negativity. It is our choice to walk away from it, ignore it and not internalize it. Everybody has their own set of issues. We are not here to be saviors, but to find encouragement during the bad times and celebration of the good times.

With all that in mind, how can you go wrong? Let there be peace on earth and let it begin with me.
TgrsPurr, xo.

i second that emotion!

I think the temporary moment has already started to pass. I actually feel safe posting in here again. Hope, I hope you can feel that way again soon too.

((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Hope)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

It'll blow over soon.

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As a newbie, the only sign of any of this I see is the actual postings talking about it taking place. I don't go into all of the forums, but the one's I've been in have all been very supportive.

Perhaps it used to be better, and if so I CAN'T WAIT for it to go back to normal.!! Whooo Hooo!! Hooo!!

Missi

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As a newbie, the only sign of any of this I see is the actual postings talking about it taking place. I don't go into all of the forums, but the one's I've been in have all been very supportive.

Perhaps it used to be better, and if so I CAN'T WAIT for it to go back to normal.!! Whooo Hooo!! Hooo!!

Missi

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Very astute observation, Missi. I have thought the same thing more than once.

Yes, imnsho it did used to be MUCH better. I used to post regularly and a LOT here, and now I find I don't have the energy to deal with a lot of it.



I appreciate you offering us a fresh perspective

Hope, sweetie, trust me, this is NOT your fault



*safe hugs* if wanted

Hope,

I can understand your sensativity to fighting. I too am very sensative to it, and feel like I have to run out and protect someone. Hang in there and hang tight to people who you feel are supportive and steer away from those that are not. Unfortunately, we can't make everyone get along, but we can create an environment for ourselves where people get along. Stay in peace.