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Jun 27, 2005, 10:51 PM
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I don't know what a thread is, so i don't know if i should be posting here are not. I am feeling very down since i served my husband with the order of protection. My boys miss him terriably. i know he was not good for us but still i feel bad that i kicked him out of our house. i got a letter in the mail today that our house is getting foreclosed on. my husband was not keeping up on payments. i am so angry with myself for trusting him when i said i would never trust anyone again. but he promised me he would never hurt me and he knew how badly i had been hurt in the past. i have had trouble with SI. and i am scared to tell my therapist because i don't want him to think i am sucidal because i am not. i don't want to die. i hope this makes some sense. i don't know what to do about the house, or letting my husband move back in like he and the kids want. i hate being the bad guy but i want them to be safe but not hate me.
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Jun 27, 2005, 10:59 PM
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There are Forums (see the topic headlines: General, Social Chat, etc?) and what you just began was a Thread (a new subject, beginning post.)
Well, the house won't do you any good if they foreclose on it. And you might still have to pay for it and not have it. If he really loves you, tell him to catch up on the house payments and get it our of foreclosure. So that might be a moot issue, anyway. Don't let the children make your adult decisions for you. Children don't do that well. You had good reason to do what you did in the first place. What has you doubting your thinking, except the rantings of the one who is to blame? Why would you listen to him now? Because he is playing on your sense of guilt? Stay strong. Counseling is a must. Ask your T is he has any opinions about SI, and see if he understands the difference between SI and suicidal wishes. TC 
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Jun 28, 2005, 01:41 PM
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Please call your pdoc and/or t right away and be seen. You need some professional advice. Also, do you have a lawyer? You need some help before you lose your house. Don't let the kids make your decisions for you. You are the adult. They can't make reasoned, rational decisions. I know you're having a terrible time. I hope things settle down for you soon. Hugs, Jan
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Jun 28, 2005, 04:32 PM
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Jun 28, 2005, 04:35 PM
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call a lawyer. call your T. tell him everything, or her? call the mortgage company and tell them what happened. ask for time. if they haven't "served" you with court papers, you still have some time. when they serve you, you still have about 30 days. get moving. you and the boys deserve a good, decent and safe life. and you are posting in an okay place. and you started a "thread" and we're adding to it.........xoxoxo pat
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Jun 29, 2005, 07:03 AM
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thanks for the suggestions. I will and do make all the decisions in the house, however i do take the boys feelings into account. My T has not called me back and i was on the phone yesterday for over one hour with the foreclosure dept. Very frustrating. i will have to try to get a lawyer for that like everyone suggested. This really is a great place to get some support and i really appreciate it. Thanks again everyone for taking time to answer my posts.
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Jun 29, 2005, 08:29 PM
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Jun 29, 2005, 08:48 PM
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