The Couch! #21

Good start, Lola!!

I just shampooed my carpet.. It looks pretty, and hopefully smells a little better. 4 month old puppy who is not yet house broken has taken a toll on the poor carpet!

I went out and used my chain saw to break some fallen trees and branches down to a size that will go in my fire pit, then I built a fire and grilled dinner. The young dog ate all the hot dogs, so my son is NOT going to be pleased.

Oh, and one of my facebook friends posted a joke about women in tampon commercials and how they always are dancing and laughing. She said, "shouldn't they be revving their chain saws and setting stuff on fire?" I was like, "HOW did you know???"

lol mkac!!

I am so tempted to edit this!

You do and I will cross oceans to get to you!!

Oh My!
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Lions and Tigers and Bears?

Something like that...lol...I was referring to CE'S comment about editing your posts. Took me right back to when he had a big enough pair of ***** to ask SD what turns her on. lol

Grrr....I am getting so annoyed with group T.....how when one person has an issue with me, others decide it's a good time to jump in and rally against me about their complaints about me....eff it. I am so close to being done with this bs.....

MUE...I don't understand how the group T is allowing that? And not stepping in to help everyone handle it in a more contructive way? They should not be all "Ganging" up on you...it does not seem fair.

Hey, I can grow just as big a pair of cojones when I need to. I know CE is joking and hopefully he knows I'm joking too.

YUP.

My T is a very big advocate of letting things fall into place and letting us navigate through hard times....which helps everyone see what roles they play, what works and what doesn't, how people handle distress.

I agree, it's not fair that everyone is ganging up on me....but that's telling in itself - that perhaps they don't feel permission to express how they're feeling unless someone else does first...which says a lot about them....and how I tolerate it and react to it says a lot about me.

I am trying not to be reactive....but I'm struggling with it. Especially considering how poorly I've been feeling lately - physically and emotionally. But that's my problem, not theirs.

Sigh.

There are good groups and bad groups. (I've had both)
Maybe this is a bad one.

Yup. I'm the only one she slams against the wall. It's quite an honour!

It would be fair to say, "You have a right to your opinions, but when you all gang up on me at once, it's difficult for me to keep coming back."

Good night couch friends. My melatonin is kicking in

night sconnie... sleep well

night all, spent a little quality time with wife tonight....hope everyone has a great rest, or a good Day CE

Goodnight couchians.

You know I got nothin' but love for ya!

I'm going to say good night also because my meds are kicking in. I get to go spend a couple of hours in the hospital with my client tomorrow afternoon. Then I think I'll visit a new local craft store, then come home to more laundry. I got a lot done today.

Everyone sleep well, have a good morning, or a great day...depending on where you are!!

Thanks, CE.....I'm going to try to digest what's going on in group and maybe I'll have a better perspective tomorrow. Of course, that goes against what we're taught to do - which is reacting 'in the moment'....oh well....((shrug))

If I still feel the same way, I will probably post something along those lines...Thanks!

Goodnight, couch friends!

So, I am sure that most are asleep, but I thought that I would stop in and say hi. I have been at work since 10:00 am Saturday morning, and just finished at 1:00 am Sunday morning. I am tired. Right now I'm trying to catch up on the couch, but am having trouble concentrating. I hope everyone had a good day! This is going to sound awful, but my little nephews birthday is tomorrow, and I don't know if I will go. I don't feel great, and I don't think that I can deal with my family. My nephew is so sweet, and my brother is one of the only good ones in my family, but if I go I will have to interact with many others. I just don't think I can do it.