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Old Jan 25, 2013, 09:52 AM
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I need to go do to a few things around the house myself. Back in a bit.
I am supposed to just chill out today and take good self care, wasn't feeling well yesterday. Physically in a rough spot...but what else is new.
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Old Jan 25, 2013, 09:52 AM
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Hello all,

my morning so far has been ruled by #femaleproblems. Not fun. Worst in months. Finally found some aspirin. T later today.

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Old Jan 25, 2013, 09:57 AM
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This current therapist that I am seeing does a 5 minute "wrap-up" sort of thing at the end of session that I find most helpful. She just reminds me of the key things we talked about focusing on. I leave with my "feet on the ground". I have never had a t do that before, and I was wondering how common it is. She isn't totally cbt, she is psycho-dynamic as well, but I like the bit of cbt that she adds in.
My first T was insanely good at the wrap-up. He used to consolidate and make sense of what had felt like a bunch of nonsensical garbage. He was primarily CBT.
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Old Jan 25, 2013, 10:12 AM
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Ugh. I'm having an issue with my group T....One particular member is angry with me because I have closed the door on the idea of ever falling in love again. I have no idea how to respond to that. I appreciate her anger, as it tells me that she cares about me. Other than that, I really don't know what to say. ACK.
I would wonder why she is getting so upset about it. Is this something she has done, or wants to do herself?? Or someone else in her life is telling her, therefore they are not available to her?
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Old Jan 25, 2013, 10:14 AM
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MUE - I don't think there is anything you have to respond to. If someone else gets upset about decisions I make about my life that have nothing to do with them, it is their problem, not mine.
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Old Jan 25, 2013, 10:14 AM
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((fixated)) I do not miss womanhood problems. Ick.

Pbutton...it really leaves me clear minded. I like it much better than the foggy headed dissociated t exits...lol. Safer for other driver as well!

(um...yeah...I didn't do anything)
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Old Jan 25, 2013, 10:15 AM
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can you feel my frustration? and that is only one spot. doesn't include the floor stove sink area front of cabinets and any small appliances that might have been near bye

Couch number 33!!!!!
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Old Jan 25, 2013, 10:15 AM
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Judge's chambers in a federal courthouse.
With or without the judge???
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Old Jan 25, 2013, 10:17 AM
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((fixated)) I do not miss womanhood problems. Ick.

Pbutton...it really leaves me clear minded. I like it much better than the foggy headed dissociated t exits...lol. Safer for other driver as well!

(um...yeah...I didn't do anything)
what did you do?????
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Old Jan 25, 2013, 10:17 AM
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With or without the judge???
lol i wasnt going to ask lol
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Old Jan 25, 2013, 10:17 AM
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With or without the judge???
robes or no robes?
(ok, now I'm just getting lude)
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Old Jan 25, 2013, 10:17 AM
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Old Jan 25, 2013, 10:19 AM
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Old Jan 25, 2013, 10:20 AM
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Good morning, couchies!

Granite, I'm a messy baker, too, but I clean up after myself.

Wiki, I like how your T ends sessions. I wish mine would do that. Instead, he tends to finish with his perception of something I've said. He always wants me to leave with something to think about, usually differently than I have. Sounds good in theory, but there have been more than a few times that it started tears flowing 3 minutes before the end of the session. I'm not fond of walking out of the office with tears streaming down my face. The last time i did it, I ran into the letter carrier on the way out, who seemed to want to converse. Yeah, not happening.

Oh, and to answer the question - on the yellow line in the middle of a country road.
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Old Jan 25, 2013, 10:21 AM
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During a trial or after?
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Old Jan 25, 2013, 10:25 AM
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During a trial or after?
Bigger than a bread box?
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Old Jan 25, 2013, 10:26 AM
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Granite - that level of flour is nothing like what I do when I bake bread. My level of acceptable mess might possibly kill you and wikid.

MKAC and LC -The encounter was not between me and a judge. I have never had a thing for people with power.
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Old Jan 25, 2013, 10:28 AM
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Thanks SD you just ruined the entire scene I had playing out in my head. uggg LOL
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Old Jan 25, 2013, 10:29 AM
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When I make bread, I just go ahead and throw a quarter of a cup to half a cup of flour on the floor.

I know it's going to end up there anyway. Usually flour even ends up on my black dog. It's her own fault though, she's always eager to help (translation: under my feet begging for food).
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Old Jan 25, 2013, 10:31 AM
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Yea granite...your H isn't the worst. Sorry, no wiki points. I would indeed have a giant conniption if that were my counter top though, but I do make a huge mess when baking. I just enjoy cleaning the mess a bit too much...lol.
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Old Jan 25, 2013, 10:32 AM
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Granite, that's a beautiful board! Did your H make that too? Plus I'm drooling over the butter. I cannot keep butter In my house. I went low carb for a week and got my blood sugar under 100. I meet with the diabetes educators next Friday. I am ready, for once.
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Old Jan 25, 2013, 10:37 AM
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Thanks SD you just ruined the entire scene I had playing out in my head. uggg LOL
I have a thing for messing in areas the people in power would object to.
I did not have a case in front of that judge (that would be the unethical line for me). It was with the judge's law clerk. Judge was around.
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Old Jan 25, 2013, 10:39 AM
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I have a thing for messing in areas the people in power would object to.
I did not have a case in front of that judge (that would be the unethical line for me). It was with the judge's law clerk. Judge was around.
LAW CLERK??? OMG this is way better then what I had first envisioned, I 'm gonna need a full report on my desk first thing Monday morning!
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Old Jan 25, 2013, 10:39 AM
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They always leave an office vacant for exactly that purpose.
Did it save your marriage?
I can't say it will turn out to be the thing that "saves" my marriage, but it certainly serves to remind me WHY I am still working so hard on saving this relationship.

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lol i wasnt going to ask lol
Yeah, I have a problem that way lately, I have just started asking stuff I would not have a couple of years ago.

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Granite - that level of flour is nothing like what I do when I bake bread. My level of acceptable mess might possibly kill you and wikid.

MKAC and LC -The encounter was not between me and a judge. I have never had a thing for people with power.
Yeah, I thought that level of flour was NOTHING and that Granite and Wikid would die of heart failure seeing my house when I consider it 'clean.'

Also, I totally have a thing for people with power, but mostly it involves taking the power away from them. There's this one judge I hate and yet also . . .
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Old Jan 25, 2013, 10:40 AM
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Hanksta...do you use EV coconut oil? We have butter "for show"...rofl. No one ever uses it. Quite funny...maybe I will run and take a pic.
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