Loordy, Lourdy the COUCH is 40....

WikidPissah · Feb 27, 2013, 09:37 AM

GOod idea Lola....

Want I should make it happen?

stopdog · Feb 27, 2013, 09:37 AM

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Originally Posted by LolaCabanna

You know we should open a thread to place messages from the current members to old members in case they are lurking...... Like an MIA thread...

Yes, but I worry someone would be forgotten and get their feelings hurt or feel even more like they were worthless or something.

WikidPissah · Feb 27, 2013, 09:40 AM

True sd, that's a big concern. Someone is always left out.

Feb 27, 2013, 09:43 AM

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Originally Posted by stopdog

Yes, but I worry someone would be forgotten and get their feelings hurt or feel even more like they were worthless or something.

Your correct I just noticed the number of "have you seen or Missing so-n-so" ,thread. I guess I just miss a few people.

unaluna · Feb 27, 2013, 09:43 AM

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Originally Posted by trdleblue

I don't know why, but saying or hearing weed whacker always makes me smile. When my oldest Nephew (6 now) was three the only thing he wanted for Christmas was a weed whacker. To my surprise they actually make toy weed whackers so he was a happy boy. He weed whacked the entire house after he opened the gift. (I am now much more content since I got to say weed whacker so many times.)

My nephew wanted his own vacuum cleaner at that age!! I wonder if they want to control what frightens them. So what toy do I want? Hmm...

granite1 · Feb 27, 2013, 09:46 AM

ok all my peeps i am in the shower and off and running for the day. wish me luck in T today .for some reason i am not to worked up about it today .that is not to be trusted big time lol

WikidPissah · Feb 27, 2013, 09:46 AM

I want my own semi automatic. (us vegans are such a peace loving group)

WikidPissah · Feb 27, 2013, 09:47 AM

((((((chickie)))))))))
Thinking of you....try to let us know how it went!

10:51 AM

All my facebook friends that have died, their pages remain as a sort of continuing tribute. My step dads is still up and one of my dearest friends.... its therapeutic to go to their pages and "talk" to them. We could call it The Wake room....

ok ok bad idea

WikidPissah · Feb 27, 2013, 09:53 AM

yikes.....

really bad. I don't do wakes. Crap. Now I have a visual. Ick.

Thanks lola... (((lola)))

Feb 27, 2013, 09:54 AM

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Originally Posted by WikidPissah

yikes.....

really bad. I don't do wakes. Crap. Now I have a visual. Ick.

Thanks lola... (((lola)))

I am so sorry.... we can call it..... those who moved on.... oops

WikidPissah · Feb 27, 2013, 09:54 AM

ahhhhhhhhhhh......

So not your fault Lola.....all me.

SONOFA*****

Cancer girl has an uncontrollable fear of death.....

Feb 27, 2013, 09:55 AM

ok ok .... calm ..... sorry

WikidPissah · Feb 27, 2013, 09:56 AM

Need to go....gonna get daughters assouttabed.

stopdog · Feb 27, 2013, 09:56 AM

I am having cabbage and brown rice for breakfast.

sconnie892 · Feb 27, 2013, 09:56 AM

Wiki - Thanks for posting the pic. It is beautiful and brightened my day

WikidPissah · Feb 27, 2013, 09:57 AM

(((love you)))

so not your fault.....

sconnie892 · Feb 27, 2013, 09:59 AM

Wow. The weather report just said the city I work in got 14 inches of snow overnight. That's like 2 inches an hour...

granite1 · Feb 27, 2013, 10:02 AM

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Originally Posted by WikidPissah

Need to go....gonna get daughters assouttabed.

Feb 27, 2013, 10:19 AM

Im waiting til it warms up to mow... Brrr

Chopin99 · Feb 27, 2013, 10:21 AM

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Originally Posted by WikidPissah

Chopin, I work with middle class, upper class and I volunteer with DV woman teaching them how to make ends meet. Believe me when I say the only difference class makes is how much in debt they are. Most people screw up their finances at some point in their life. Some learn from it, make good decisions and move on. Others continue to jump from one mess to another. I have a client that has lost 4 houses and declared bankruptcy every decade for the last 5 years. His income would be considered upper class. You didn't ask for advice, but if I were to give it anyways it would be: don't avoid talking to the creditors. I know it's frustrating and hard, but as long as you are talking with them you can make arrangements and save your credit score. Partial payments are payments none the less. Medical bills take tiny payments and don't generally report to credit companies. There are businesses that will do that for you, but believe me it is much better to do it on your own. Make a budget and use it. http://mappingyourfuture.org/money/budgetcalculator.htm

Thanks for this. I've done good budgets before. Our problem is sticking to it. We are so used to being able to buy almost anything we want, when we want. H and I are both guilty of this. I'm planning to seriously look at our bills once I get to work. I need to know exactly where we stand so I can figure out where to cut.

I have talked to one creditor and set up a a payment plan. I'll talk to others if necessary. Thanks again Wiki for the advice and the reminder I'm not alone, no matter what "class" I'm in.