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#776
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Granite....
made up version of an actual except from xT session: xT: Are you angry? Granite: NO... what the h e l l makes you think that xT: Ummm... I can feel the anger way over here... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I wish I could give you a real hug. |
#777
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Leave the phone off the hook. It messes with their stats. The guy sounds like a total ***.
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#778
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Which one? What is your fear of?
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#779
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I always thought he was whiny, and the book put way too much pressure on children to love toys to save the toys from something bad.
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It is not like I think I understand how to engage with others. I am not one to jump in and reassure others that they are liked, or go aww at pictures of baby animals, or children and such. I don't object to such things, but I have no particular response to them. I am baffled at any number of things others find reassuring and comforting as well as what others think of to do in order to be those things. So, in perspective, I could be wrong about my interpretation about all other human interaction except that which is mine.
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
#781
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Knew i should have stayed awake all night I'm exhausted from reading the posts from last night (yesterday?) Off to find some breakfast.
Hugs to all. |
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#782
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I had a total puppies and rainbows session today. T is on vacation next week and I really didn't want to get into anything that would get left hanging until he returns. It was kind of nice to just talk and laugh with him.
Thursdays are when I work at the mammal clinic. The only babies we have now are raccoons. I love them so much. They're so curious - they have to explore everything, including my glasses, my hair, my pockets. They think it's the funniest thing ever to steal stuff out of my pockets. I always forget to leave everything outside the cages and end up chasing somebody to get a Kleenex or Chapstick back. Working inside a cage with 8 adolescent raccoons is the best. |
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#783
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The "T Mistakes" one.
I'm afraid that public opinion will not support my decision to leave Madame T over her mistakes..
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#784
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Should public opinion matter CE? You felt the mistakes were significant and outweighed the benefits you were getting and you felt justified in leaving.
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#785
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The poll you posted, in how I read it, was not really geared towards this as such. For what it is worth, I support you leaving the therapist over her mistakes. Each client has their own threshold for mistakes, and what will annoy or be bad for one client is not the same for for other clients. The new guy you have sounds good. Is he able at all to help you with grieving the end of the old therapist? Even though you left her, and even though she did not seem to meet your needs any longer, her loss is still worth grieving properly, I think.
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#786
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Yes, but it's never that simple, is it?
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#787
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Have I done with her for ever (that would be simplest) or am I going to see her again some day (that seems more likely). But underneath it all is the abandonment. PS: Like you, I'm not fond of the idea that therapists are human. They should do their jobs properly and leave the humanity to us.
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#788
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Unless she was trying to seduce you or stole money from you, I can't see any pro-therapy forum such as this one giving any one a whole hearted "the therapist was wrong" response. No matter how wrong the therapist was for you, there will those who defend her or exclaim her humanness, or blame the client, or talk about process and other such.
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I don't think people necessarily read it as such. There were a couple of requests for clarification (in case you have not read it yet). There are mistakes, and there are MISTAKES. We all differ in our tolerance level for and how we define those things. I will tolerate things from my current T that I would not tolerate in a new relationship. I actually thought about posting a thread about thoughts I was having that the exact same action by a T being incredibly harmful for one client and incredibly healing and helpful for another. So an action that would be a huge mistake for my T to do with me, to make might be the exact thing another person needs to heal.
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#790
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I don't deny therapists are human, just that it does not excuse them mucking up when dealing with clients.
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
#791
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No but asking vague ambiguous questions on a public forum where others have no information to base their responses on isn't going to help alleviate your doubts. I didn't respond to your poll as i couldn't remember the circumstances behind your decision to leave Madame T, plus I wasn't sure if that was what you were referring to or if it was just a general question.
I know i ask for opinions from other members but I use this as a guide I don't use them to justify my decisions (9 out of 10 cats.....) |
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#792
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My older sister had her first therapy appointment today! Well, not first ever, she did try before, but first in quite a while and first with this therapist. ANYWAY, the point of the story is that in filling out the paperwork, she just didn't answer certain questions. When the therapist asked her about it, she told him that she was not prepared to answer those questions yet, or that she did not see the relevance of that information.
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#793
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Hankster - I understood why you posted as you did and I thought it was intended to do the honorable thing.
MKAC - good for your sister. I never give them my social security number because I pay out of pocket.
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
#794
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I find it interesting that over there you seem to have to fill in a lot of paperwork to see a T. Over here its the basics name, address, contact details, emergency contact. is this because of the insurance system over there?
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#795
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Some therapists have intake forms so that they know basically what the issues are and what your background is before they even start.
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#796
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That would have been hard for me as I had no idea what my issues were. I still don't really, but i'm working on it.
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#797
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The ones I have seen are just a list of questions - sometimes with true/false or short answer. Not so much directly- What is your issue and why stuff.
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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Thanks. Sorry for the angry rant.
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#799
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This is all my xT and T2 asked. With xT I would only give my cell phone number and I gave a friends cell phone number as emergency contact and I paid in cash....
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