The answer is: (Couch) 84. The question is...

I must have missed something lol

Well, it is possible that SD and I are referring to different threads, but the effect is the same..Why did I post, gah!

I think that is a refrain. I would rather not be helped (and I am not talking about you) and not shamed than shamed by someone and have it justified as because they care.

I didn't take it that way SD

I just get sucked into threads where I know better

YEs, me too. But sometimes I see something I think is so off, I do it anyway. It made me a good public defender. I did not so much care about the clients personally for the most part (often they are unpleasant unhappy people - not all - but a good number) - but I hate the way the state bullies and judges think they get to lecture. And sometimes, when the stars lined up just right, a judge would go so far in the lecturing as to cause reversible error. And I would think, you know, if you (judge) just would sentence the guy and shut up instead of getting all high and mighty and condescending and full of yourself, I would not have had any grounds for reversal.

stress is keeping me awake and sick to my stomach I go from being ok to stressing massively. it stinks just saying change is so scary

Granite that does sound rough

The customer finally revealed what he wants. And it is NOT what the old feature did.

That sucks granite. That was pretty much how I was last night... And fairly often these days. I hope it stops for you soon.

Customers and clients are rarely useful.

They do supply the $$$ though...

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(((Granite))) & (((Catonyx)))
I know the feeling... I'm working hard on staying focused on the present and what I am getting done. Otherwise I'm just making myself sick and panicking and that's *really* not helpful.

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For what it is worth, I found the second therapist I see through referrals from a therapist seen by someone quite close to me. The referring therapist even called to talk to me to make sure she had my requirements clear in what I was looking for and then she called me back with the names and numbers of four 4 to try. The 4 I called had no (or indicated they had no - they are wily) idea who had referred me nor would they (at least 3 said this -one asked who had given the referral) knowledge of, desire to look for, or tell the referring therapist I had contacted them. I don't think one need worry if you try to get a referral for someone, that it somehow makes you responsible for ensuring the person follows up with the info you got for them. I would very much have not like it had I felt obligated just because of being given the names of some to try.

I hate when that happens!

Before i left my last job, some people were doing maintenance on a system i wrote. This guy said, this code doesnt make sense, it should be coded the opposite. Im like, yes, i remember that, but it doesnt WORK coded the opposite - you will see if you test it. He goes - oh im not gonna test it, im just gonna change it cuz it doesnt look right and i wanted you to okay it.

I was like i say here, and the insurance commercial - thats not how it works!!!

I have wondered about that! I see judges going off on people on tv on live court cases, and im like wtf?

I got my first Mac computer in 1993. Never had a Windows computer in my home (well, I do have a dual-boot on my Macbook with Windows installed, but I only run one specific piece of software on it). I have never had a virus or any kind of malware.

I have worked at places where I had to use a Windows computer and I did not like the experience. But I don't know how much if that was simply my not being used to it.

You certainly can.

So, I have lapsed tonight, which I feel ashamed about. I'm not sure I can own up to it with my addiction psych. Will start again from the beginning tomorrow, I suppose. I didn't realise I was so dependent on alcohol - cannabis, yes, but not alcohol ... well, not for a long time.

I find my feelings to be annoying. No wonder I never wanted to feel anything, ever.

Feelings are annoying. Spock was lucky.

They are certainly useless.

Yep. I preferred it better when I blocked then all out.

I never got into Star Wars.

My ex looked disappointed when the girls and didn't run around shouting "please don't go, stay here" so now he is seriously looking. And i put my claim in for family payments. I thought this was too easy he has to have something else up his sleeve. I don't trust him at all.

Thanks for all the support guys

My T says feelings won't kill me, i'm not convinced about that though.

TWF, I hope you can talk to your AP about this. I would think that's exactly the kind of thing they are there to help you with.