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Old Feb 12, 2015, 09:33 AM
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Mast...I think you should write it all out... Then scream Ito or punch a pillow...that helps me let the anger out... I'd wait a few days before sending letter or giving OT to T.

You want to talk about it...I don't think you've ever said furious in regards to T before.
Thank you, RTS. No, I don't think I have said that before - or felt it. I've been out for a short walk in the beautiful winter weather, and sat reading for 20 minutes in the tropical greenhouse across the road. I feel a little better now. I'm not going to contact T or send him anything before my session next week, but I think it might be a good idea for me to write things down before I start to gloss over them, and then I can give it to him in session.

It's hard to explain the anger... I guess the fundamental reason is that T is challenging some of the things I know about myself, and I'm finding it really hard to react to that in a mature and appropriate manner.
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Old Feb 12, 2015, 09:38 AM
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glad I missed the T's in leather topic...that's just wrong on so many levels.


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I thought I had gotten over the giggles. I guess not...
Sorry. I'm 12

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Old Feb 12, 2015, 09:41 AM
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(((Artemis)))
Stbx used to pull that kind of crap too. He was so threatened by how powerful my therapy made me feel. The sad thing is that if he could have accepted it he could have shared in it...


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Old Feb 12, 2015, 09:43 AM
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(((Mastadon)))
Sounds like good work. Sometimes it's good to be angry...

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Old Feb 12, 2015, 09:54 AM
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You know, speaking of group, it has taken me most of the time I've been here to get to the point where I want to go to group and be comfortable there. At first I used to get angry and frustrated at having to do it. I was very much in the group is not for me camp. I'm also very quiet and introverted... That's changed though. Now I'm thinking that I want to attend the outreach groups when I leave here.
I have done a looot of work, both here and with T, since I've been here. I'm still very much me - quiet and bookish with a sense of humor that seems to either pleasantly surprise people or annoy the hell out of them, but I'm not the person who came here four months ago either...

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Old Feb 12, 2015, 09:58 AM
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I do not imagine I would do well in a group sort of thing.

Every group needs a Stopdog. It's like a public service

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Old Feb 12, 2015, 10:07 AM
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you had me until BACON. lol

I have a stupid, over-the-top fear of the dead (or undead) that has gotten worse and worse. Crazy, right?

glad I missed the T's in leather topic...that's just wrong on so many levels.

Shipping off to Boston in a bit...trying to get there early enough to shop/grab lunch while I'm there.
I have a fear of cheerleaders.
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Old Feb 12, 2015, 12:45 PM
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I saw this today and thought of pbutton's hilarious post the other day:

The Couch Get's 86'd (it's now under the end zone at Giant's stadium)
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Old Feb 12, 2015, 01:04 PM
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Hi couchies! I've missed you folks - it's been too long. I hope things are going well for all.

MKAC, I miss Calvin and Hobbes! That one's great.
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Old Feb 12, 2015, 01:04 PM
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Oh, critterlady, it is really good to see you!
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Old Feb 12, 2015, 01:10 PM
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I didn't want to hijack a thread and none of my IRL friends would think this was funny as I did, so I'm sharing here.

It was noon, and I said, "...so I should go out to lunch (I was going to finish the sentence with a friend's name) when she quickly said, "should WE go out to lunch??" with such surprise that I laughed at her. I reassured her I didn't want to go to lunch with her and laughed all the way to the elevator.
Why didn't she want to go to lunch with you?
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Old Feb 12, 2015, 01:15 PM
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I'm feeling absolutely furious with my T after my session. I don't really know what to do with that. It doesn't matter whether my feelings are ok/valid/appropriate or not - I know that feelings are what they are - I simply have to find a way to get rid of the feelings without expressing them and without harming myself. Maybe I should write a page or two about it and perhaps give that to T when I see him next week (or perhaps not).

Sorry. Ignore me. I'm just babbling.
Is expressing them so bad?
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Old Feb 12, 2015, 01:18 PM
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I make it a rule not to watch any program dealing with vampires, zombies and/or cheerleaders.
Vampire cheerleaders! That would make a good film.
Zombie cheerleaders, not so much.
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Old Feb 12, 2015, 01:19 PM
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I expressing them so bad?
It is not an option, and if it were, yes, it would be very bad.
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Old Feb 12, 2015, 01:19 PM
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Oh, critterlady, it is really good to see you!
It's good to see you, too, Mast! How have you been?

The critters have been keeping me busy. Lots of raptors in the winter - bald eagles, hawks, owls - they all keep running into things or eating things they ought not to. Silly birds.

T is going ok. We had a big rupture and I wanted to a) run away or b) throw him off a bridge or c) both, but we're working through it. I guess it's true what they say about how nothing worth having comes easily.
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Old Feb 12, 2015, 01:41 PM
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I saw this today and thought of pbutton's hilarious post the other day:

Do you DARE laugh at the... crap, what am I? Royal Majesty Grand Poobah High Priestess Exalted Ruler of the Internet??!?!
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Old Feb 12, 2015, 01:56 PM
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hi peeps im back home and reading back some . I am hating this snow
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Old Feb 12, 2015, 01:58 PM
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Old Feb 12, 2015, 01:59 PM
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It never ceases to amaze me where my dog hides her cookies. She was staring at an end table barking and whining, and when I looked there was a cookie in the drawer slots. It also amazes me that she remembers all of these hiding places. I keep telling her that Lexi isn't here anymore to swipe her cookies...
You have only Sadie now?
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Old Feb 12, 2015, 02:36 PM
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Old Feb 12, 2015, 02:39 PM
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Don't worry, growly, I'll just have to see how it goes. I'm pretty shy and an introvert, so not sure stressful I'll find it. But I think that's part of it, to get me used to being comfortable in the company of others who share a similar history. We'll see ...
Don't you hate it when you accidently refer to the wrong PCer! I dreamt about this and checked this morning - that post was meant for Mast!
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Old Feb 12, 2015, 03:12 PM
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Don't you hate it when you accidently refer to the wrong PCer! I dreamt about this and checked this morning - that post was meant for Mast!
I suspected as much

We do look a little alike. But my tusks are way longer.
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Old Feb 12, 2015, 03:20 PM
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I managed to give myself a helluva therapy hangover from group this morning...
It wasn't *bad*, and I don't feel bad... My whole body just feels like my ears after a rock concert...
I'm too jittery to do anything. This emotions business is nuts. Just sayin'.
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Old Feb 12, 2015, 03:24 PM
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I managed to give myself a helluva therapy hangover from group this morning...
It wasn't *bad*, and I don't feel bad... My whole body just feels like my ears after a rock concert...
I'm too jittery to do anything. This emotions business is nuts. Just sayin'.
Ahh... Sorry to hear that. hugs! I get it though.

My ears are going through that feeling still from a concert Monday night... Even in complete silence I still hear noise. And I am pretty sure I will end up with a T hangover after tomorrow's session... I've been so all over the place these last few days. All extremes too. Bah.
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Old Feb 12, 2015, 03:42 PM
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I have a "ran-into-someone-I-never-wanted-to-see-again" hangover. At least the person didn't see me. But still...the fact that she was toting a child that looks like an ex-boyfriend that I adore(d) (she is married to him) makes me want to hurl.
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