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Hello!
As always I was doing some research on my future psychiatrist. He works with a group of psychologist and psychiatrists. My current psychologist recommended me to him. Anyway.... I was looking at his perscribing habits, and noticed he was the fourth highest perscriber of Xanax in Arizona... Should I be concerned? It says on Medicare alone he has 55 patients receiving alprazolam. I am really concerned about this, as I do not want any psychiatric medication. Thanks ![]() |
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Someone has to be the fourth highest prescriber of Xanax. I don't see that as necessarily a problem. |
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Remove the x and space :# You are right. Someone always has to 1-1,000,000th ![]() |
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Forgive me if this is a dumb question, but why are you going to a psychiatrist if you don't want to take any medication? What will he do for you?
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I agree with Jo Thorne. It's very unusual nowadays for psychiatrists to do the hourly talk therapy, as they mainly just question patients long enough to make diagnoses to prescribe meds. Yours could be exception, but I don't recall your mention of it.
You certainly don't have to take any medicine you don't believe will help. There is no psychotropic medicine that ever helped me feel better, and sometimes was an issue with a new psychiatrist at the hospital. I did better talking with a PhD psychologist and a good licensed social worker. Often they know more and better than any MD or PhD, but it's the fit that counts most, I believe. I would let a psychiatrist prescribe a benzo or anti-depressant if he gave me a hard time, like saying the clinic won't treat me if I won't try out the medicine for 3 months, or sometime like that. But I didn't take the med, as the hangover made my life like a nightmare zombie. So, you kinda have to learn how to play their game, sometimes, sad to say, when you really want to do the talk therapy. |
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Sorry for being so silent. I don't know why i was planning on going if I don't want meds. I would like to try medications but I have someone in my life who is very controlling and won't allow it. They have seen another family member suffer with schizophrenia and not get good help coupled with their own poor experiences with doctors limits my opprtunities too see a psychiatrist. Sorry if I am rambling, it's late and I should be sleeping.
The only reason I want to see someone is because I need relief from symptoms. Isn't that the reason anyone goes? I have weekly violin lessons, and I was shaking so much I couldn't play. It wasn't because I was cold, but instead I was so afraid to play in front of one other person. I can no longer shower at night, because of "visions" of terrible things happening to me and my loved ones. I was also recently diagnosed with a bowel issue that took me years to say anything about because I couldn't work up the courage to say anything. I am sorry if I wasted your time, I just really needed to say this because I have very limited opportunities to talk about this. But yet again are these really symptoms of a anxiety disorder? I have had a growing number of panic attacks within the last month as well. I just can't get the courage to make that first call. :group hug: |
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Yes, you deserve help and I hope you'll be able to get the help you need.
When I first saw my psychiatrist at a public hospital (referred by primary care) I refused meds but he was able to "prescribe" me therapy with a clinical psychologist. Maybe you and the doctor can work out other possible med options like injection instead of pills if you later decide to go on meds? He should respect your choice to not take meds though, but since the reason you're reluctant is due to overcontrolling family, maybe he has other options. ![]() |
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I, too, have stomach/bowel issues...anxiety really sucks sometimes!
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~It's not how much we give but how much love we put into giving~ |
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2. We'll just say "very" minor. Between the ages of 14-11 but on the latter. In other words, a newly spawned teenager. 3. Yeah. Especially when you think that those cramps you are having, are actually that small amount of glass that you might have eaten passing through your digestive tract ripping up your intestines -_- Here is a post that I was typing, that turned out being a horrible rant. You don't really have to read, as it is just bashing w/o getting to the point. I just wrote this because I was angry :3 It covers a lot of what you guys said too.
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![]() I don't know. My (very old) mother seemingly has variable moods every day. Late at night (1-2) she is a joy! Morning/all day she is horrible to be around with a very bad attitude. With the exception of random days when she is really happy, and will take us to do things -_- ![]() I feel as if my forum post has lost direction. |
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Honestly, I don't think you need medication. From everything you've described—your anxiety, physical symptoms and distress—are all very understandable considering your crazy-making family. Can a school counselor connect you with a therapist without having to get your mother's okay?
My therapist is the first one who told me that my mother shows every indication of having a mental illness; if I had known that growing up, and gotten outside support, I would not be nearly as messed up today (and on medication). You have a real chance to get help while you're young. I hope you can find at least one person to connect you with a therapist and/or tell your mother it's necessary for your well-being. But medication/psychiatrist? I wouldn't recommend going that as a first route at all. |
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One other thing that got me in the mindset of medication was that the counselor said that might be what will happen. I made it clear to her that I really wanted coping strategies instead. She offered me her best, but none of it really worked for me. I feel like I am walking through a dark room w/o lights. At night I come on here and write, but don't really know what I am talking about, and don't compose my thoughts. Then when day comes, I write more, but more "competently". I really should stop coming on here at night. Night is when I have all of my bad ideas, such as dying my eyebrows blonde (wut). Anyway, I think the reason I was thinking (Medication!) was because it was presented as a "magic pill"? What I really was thinking was "How can I get relief, that is fast and solve my problems?" I know that medication does not cure illness, but instead treats the symptoms. If you don't mind, what is CBT like? I have heard about it, but I don't know anything about it. ![]() Oh, and sorry I got so defensive. |
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Others can answer more about CBT, but I would again say that you don't really need to change anything about yourself; it's the situation you're living in that's the problem. If posting on a forum at night helps relieve some of your stress/pressure, then keep doing that.
I'm surprised that the only recommendation was faith-based therapy. I wish you could live with an emotionally stable relative. Is there any chance of that? Putting you on medication without changing the environment is like sending someone back into war with numbing drugs. It doesn't really make things better. Also, do you think there's a chance someone could convince your mother that therapy would help with your physical health? It might take someone telling her it would be considered neglect to keep you from getting help. You need a good advocate. I wonder if a crisis line could help you figure this out? |
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What I really need is some way to cope with the the stress from school, and life. I need some way that I can stop the constant worry. I know that she wants the best for me, but sometimes walking on a floor of broken glass, and stepping on one of the shards hurts. I need some way to tell myself that people aren't judging me. I need some way to tell myself that I like myself as I am. The problem with me not getting help does not lie with her, but instead me. Last time I asked, she became angry with me, most likely because she dosent know how to help. Because of this, I told my father recently that I still want to go.nhe said that she dosent think that I still want to go. It might be worth while having my dad talk to her. I think I over exaggerated the problems that I have with her. Was really angry when I wrote that, as we just had faught. It's just that I feel as if her comments and care are not always genuine. ![]() |
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I guess I reacted the way I did because you're a minor and I see your parents as the adults; but I agree that asking for ways to cope is a good thing for you to do. I just didn't think you should bear the burden of all this. Your mother's comments, if those are verbatim, are concerning...but yeah, figuring out how to cope is key.
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Thanks for the information. Your situation sounds incredibly tough. You sound very intelligent and determined, so that is good.
Sometimes psychiatrists (or primary care doctors) prescribe non-psychiatric medications for psychiatric conditions. I especially thought of that when you mentioned your hands shaking when you play your violin. A lot of people take a type of blood pressure medication, one of the beta blockers, for anxiety. You don't have to take it every day, either, if you're taking it for anxiety. Public speaking and music performance are two of the big things people take it for. If you get a chance to see your primary care doctor soon or talk to them, you could ask about this. If you have a good primary care doctor, he or she can be a big advocate for you with your parents. |
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While you're working out how to see a therapist, it could help to keep coming here and post and read. i've learned so much from others here and have wonderful support. I see a good therapist at my county clinic. It's a real bummer having to tread so softly around your mom to get what you need. From your posts, it seems like talking to a counselor or therapist of some kind is what you really need. And some help with your digestive condition would help as well.
As you may already know, seeing a psychiatrist might be a good plan after all, not to get meds, but to have him deal with your mom with his official stance. If she would take his advice, you would have referral to a psychologist who works with the psychiatrist for the talk therapy. But I realize you want to avoid dealing with her at all when she's so controlling about it all. Maybe someone at school can help and not betray your confidence. |
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Hello! I know I am at this point just kicking a dead cow, but...
Well, FINALLY I worked up the courage to say something about me wanting to see a therapist. We were out to eat, and my dad was there. We were talking about my gastro. as we have not heard anything yet. I mentioned that I would like to go to a therapist. My mother instantly said "Why? So they can give you drugs, then have you go sit in the corner?". I then asked her if she knew the difference between a psychologist and a psychiatrist. She then said sarcastically "Sure (insert name here), tell me!". I explained that a psychologist works to find coping strategies, while a psychiatrist is mainly medication management. She then continued to tell "Well if you go see a psychologist, he will just have his psychiatrist buddy write you the psychologists "recommended prescriptions". During this, my father was trying to stop us from bickering by telling her about a psychologist I was looking at. She disregarded this, and continued to talk. In the end, I just said "Yes. Whatever your opinion is." She then continued to spew conspiracy theories about how all doctors are out to get you, and that they don't want you to get better. Failed attempt #2! My dad isn't like this. Although I would try to work through him, he wouldn't be the one taking me to my appointments. What should I do? Suggestions? |
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it seems unlikely your mother will change her position. perhaps you can talk to another trustworthy adult who isn't faith based, your dad, school counselor or supports your mom's world view. someone who can effectively advocate on your behalf. but you have to be careful. I have worked with youth in your similar situation maybe who were LGBTQIA and not to scare you but often times we had to remove those youth from their home for their own safety. I don't think your situation is dire. at least I hope it's not but there is cause for concern bc your mother seems predisposed to not support any form of treatment for anxiety or mental illness. why isn't your dad able to advocate on your behalf?
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That did scare me about the home removal :/ ****i am not
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Hi everyone. I was just talking with my mother about vitamins, and she told me that she tried to get her internist to perscribe her something for anxiety. Instead she perscribed her antidepressants, which she was unhappy about. I tried to tell her medicine shouldn't be used as the first line of defense, instead coping strategies. She said the reason for her anxiety is life problems like no income, or not being able to pay bills. This is no reason to take medicine, so I suggest stead coping strategies. She said "You know what would be a great coping strategy? If I kill that B**** Jane!" I tried to explain that his was not the right course of action, but clearly she didn't care and kept talking about how she wants to stab her over and over. Then she went outside to smoke... I saw her making stabbing motions 0.0
After this I was overcome with many emotions. Anger, I scream louder than ever and my throat hurts so much now. I slammed my pillow against my bed. Fear. I was crying, but writing this helped me settle down. Saddness. Again, crying. Why does she get to seek help, and not even accept it, if I can't even? I am so sorry but what the f***?!?! She constantly tells me that I think I am the smartest person in the world, but I do not. Why does she think this, or is it just to aggravate me? Why won't she listen to some of my suggestions? |
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