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Old Jun 16, 2017, 05:39 PM
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I just don't see the point in living for other people?
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Old Jun 16, 2017, 05:54 PM
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Met with lawyer. Everything should be OK, just take a few months longer than expected - but it means he should be out if my life forever (legally anyway). He knows future ex's lawyer from law school and as someone more interested in resolution than in fighting in court. (Future ex may well be the opposite, of course.)

Apparently by paying for storage unit, phone, etc., for so long I have made myself look like a Very Reasonable Person. And judges like that.

Now I need to go to the storage unit and Verizon to finish la disentanglements.
I'm glad you met with your lawyer and got good advice. I am glad it is pushing you to cut off all ties.
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I was really sick once and had a contrast CT done ( where they inject medication into your vein and it highlights your organs). I was super high on pain meds . The tech gave me the injection and forgot to put the cap bavk on my iv catheter. He stepped out and started the machine and it started spinning and blood was flowing out of my arm and spraying all over the CT machine like one of those spinning paint craft things they had in the 80s. I was so high I was like "whoa! A show!"
Then the tech comes running back in and I realize my arm was soaked with blood etc.
Bet the next staff meeting did not go well for that tech
omg, lol!! That must have been some pain meds for that not to freak you out!
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I just don't see the point in living for other people?
I know at some point one should want to live for oneself, but whenever I am really depressed and think about suicide, the only thing that truly stops me IS the other people. It would devastate my family and friends, and even if I hate living and see nor purpose in it, I do not want to create misery for a bunch of other people. So, that's why, I guess?
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Old Jun 16, 2017, 06:08 PM
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Old Jun 16, 2017, 06:17 PM
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Darn you CW. Today you have to be all sweet and reasonable and thoughtful and supportive and smart. It was like what ATAT thinks a therapist should be. It was in fact very No. 3-ish at her best.

It didn't even bother me you didn't seem to know what a footnote was.

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Old Jun 16, 2017, 06:32 PM
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I admire how you can cook things that look delicious. I had cream biscuits and salt and vinegar chips for breakfast. I really wanted porridge. I think Derren Brown lives in my fridge
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Old Jun 16, 2017, 07:16 PM
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Well I finally got dressed walked and fed the dog vacuumed and mopped. Now I need morning tea I may make some porridge. Feeling drowsy again. May have nap instead...
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Old Jun 16, 2017, 07:45 PM
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Going to get ready for bed. Need to get up between 5-5:30am
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Old Jun 16, 2017, 07:45 PM
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Old Jun 16, 2017, 07:51 PM
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Old Jun 16, 2017, 08:43 PM
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My cat eats or tries to eat everything he finds. I can't keep up with him. I'm constantly wondering what he's got in his mouth now
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Old Jun 16, 2017, 08:50 PM
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Old Jun 16, 2017, 08:54 PM
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My cat will eat any baked good. He's nibbled on pies, sugar cookies, and little Debbie snack cakes. I have to keep all bakery items in a cabinet!
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Old Jun 16, 2017, 09:11 PM
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Old Jun 16, 2017, 09:16 PM
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Communication has only happened through my attorney for over eight months now. And it didn't happen at all for four months before that.

And I suspect he hired an attorney because I did cut off one account, and my lawyer informed him he no longer got a free ride on the storage unit and phone once the decree was final.

But if he can afford an attorney, he can go **** himself. Pity party's over.

I would like to contact a therapist for some extra support, but Morticia is so new and CW is...CW.
Will he oppose the divorce or does he just want a bigger slice of the pie?
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Old Jun 16, 2017, 09:18 PM
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Why do you need to be sedated for an MRI?
MRI works best if you don't struggle.
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Old Jun 16, 2017, 09:20 PM
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So tired but can't sleep! Good night couch!
I hope you fall asleep - getting up as early as you did would mess with my sleep too
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Old Jun 16, 2017, 09:22 PM
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Darn you CW. Today you have to be all sweet and reasonable and thoughtful and supportive and smart. It was like what ATAT thinks a therapist should be. It was in fact very No. 3-ish at her best.

It didn't even bother me you didn't seem to know what a footnote was.
Those guys are very wily. Why not see both cw and morticia?
Seriously - two worked so much better for me than just one - they each had different strengths that worked so much better for me.

I hope the divorce goes smoothly
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Old Jun 16, 2017, 09:23 PM
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Both my rotator cuffs are torn and need surgery but this is new. Got kicked in the forearm a few days ago by a patient. No fractures but with each day that goes by I lose more function in my hand. Dr said nerve is damaged. No change by Monday then I need to see a hand specialist.

Thanks for asking!! Glad you avoided the weird creepy guy.
I can hear Dr House saying, "At least your patients don't lie."
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Old Jun 16, 2017, 10:00 PM
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Those guys are very wily. Why not see both cw and morticia?
Seriously - two worked so much better for me than just one - they each had different strengths that worked so much better for me.

I hope the divorce goes smoothly
I am thinking of keeping both. For a bit anyway.
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Old Jun 16, 2017, 10:00 PM
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Nevermind.

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Not true. We care.
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Old Jun 16, 2017, 10:03 PM
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Hi all, I think I might be starting to get out of the grouchy stage of things and have my head screwed on a little bit more. Is there any way to forbid a T from taking another vacation? This one didn't work for me at all...
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Old Jun 16, 2017, 10:06 PM
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Will he oppose the divorce or does he just want a bigger slice of the pie?
At the moment he seems only to want to prevent me from "stealing" his stuff. One of his earliest paranoias that I noticed and should have paid attention to, except it was being applied to other people then.

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Hi all, I think I might be starting to get out of the grouchy stage of things and have my head screwed on a little bit more. Is there any way to forbid a T from taking another vacation? This one didn't work for me at all...
Hmmm. How willing are you to commit a felony?

No worries, your Couchies will break you out of jail.
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Old Jun 16, 2017, 10:08 PM
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Old Jun 16, 2017, 10:10 PM
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Spouse picked up. Hair is complete (color). The fur kids are going to be nutso when we get home, they've never been alone this long. I'm exhausted and just want jeopardy and bed.
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