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#1
Aug 03, 2018, 01:52 AM
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Anything you would like to say to your T, big or small - feel free to post it here.
Continued from Dear T: I Really Need to Tell You Something...Part XXXIII
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'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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#2
Aug 03, 2018, 01:55 AM
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You know what? A little bit of communication really helps...if one sentence (from you, that's key...) is the difference between me functioning and falling into whatever this is...then one sentence ought to be doable.
I don't want to be angry at you, but this is really hard. I cannot explain to anybody else...
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'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
 AnnaBegins, CantExplain, Lemoncake, LonesomeTonight, lucozader, SalingerEsme, WarmFuzzySocks
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| Anonymous45127
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#3
Aug 03, 2018, 04:51 AM
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T,
A year or so ago, according to my notes, you told me it's pointless to tell me that you care or tell me how much you care. Your reason was that it would make me dependent. Do you still believe that in your heart? Because I do need to know that you care, and one way I know is by you TELLING me. Is it wrong or bad to "need / want" to HEAR that you care? How does that make anyone dependent?? I'm sure you don't feel this reservation with the real people in your life who aren't your patients... Why's it different for patients? |
| Anonymous46415, CantExplain, LonesomeTonight, Lrad123, WarmFuzzySocks
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| circlesincircles, SalingerEsme
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#4
Aug 03, 2018, 04:56 AM
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(And Ts accuse me of black-and-white thinking.  )
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Mr Ambassador, alias Ancient Plax, alias Captain Therapy, alias Big Poppa, alias Secret Spy, etc. Add that to your tattoo, Baby! |
| Anonymous45127, SalingerEsme, WarmFuzzySocks
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#5
Aug 03, 2018, 05:51 AM
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| CantExplain
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#6
Aug 03, 2018, 08:23 AM
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i'm so glad i came yesterday despite not wanting to. and i'm glad we talked about last week. next week we dive back in...
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| WarmFuzzySocks
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| CantExplain
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#7
Aug 03, 2018, 08:30 AM
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Why did you lie to me over and over and over again?
Why did you permanently ruin my life? I paid you to help me...and you took my money and hurt me worse than any of the traumas I told you about. Because you were supposed to be different.
Possible trigger:
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"Beneath the dust and love and sweat that hangs on everybody / there's a dead man trying to get out..." |
| atisketatasket, CantExplain, LonesomeTonight, NP_Complete, Raging Quiet, SalingerEsme, WarmFuzzySocks
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#8
Aug 03, 2018, 08:35 AM
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 ((Anna))The best revenge on a bad T is to find a good one.
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Mr Ambassador, alias Ancient Plax, alias Captain Therapy, alias Big Poppa, alias Secret Spy, etc. Add that to your tattoo, Baby! |
| Echos Myron redux, ElectricManatee, lucozader, SalingerEsme, WarmFuzzySocks
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#9
Aug 03, 2018, 08:40 AM
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I'm honestly stuck between wanting to ruin his life like he ruined mine, wanting him to come back and beg for my forgiveness because he acted like a complete selfish asshole and
Possible trigger:
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"Beneath the dust and love and sweat that hangs on everybody / there's a dead man trying to get out..." |
| CantExplain, Echos Myron redux, LonesomeTonight, NP_Complete, Raging Quiet, SalingerEsme, WarmFuzzySocks
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#10
Aug 03, 2018, 08:50 AM
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I don't like any of those options. But option 1 is the least bad.
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Mr Ambassador, alias Ancient Plax, alias Captain Therapy, alias Big Poppa, alias Secret Spy, etc. Add that to your tattoo, Baby! |
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#11
Aug 03, 2018, 09:25 AM
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Info,
I spent years with a verbal abuser. Now I’m being forced to interact with one professionally. Different gender, same ball game. It’s not so much when they actually go off, it’s the wondering when they will go off that’s getting to me. All too familiar. As is their victim-blaming. So I spend a lot of time feeling triggered or about to be. I hope you can help. I do not need to relive my marriage like this. ATAT |
| CantExplain, Lemoncake, LonesomeTonight, LostOnTheTrail, NP_Complete, SalingerEsme, unaluna, WarmFuzzySocks
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#12
Aug 03, 2018, 09:59 AM
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IME the best way to get back at anyone is to cut them out of your life and go on to live a good one. You can heal, with or without therapy. Our mind and our body are designed to heal. I am sorry for what has happened to you that never should have. |
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#15
Aug 03, 2018, 10:58 AM
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#16
Aug 03, 2018, 11:34 AM
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Thanks also for telling me that other stuff yesterday. Sure that part wasn't technically therapy, and it was perhaps a little more woo than I am, but heck - it made so much sense for how I've been feeling the past week or so and yeah, pretty much explains why I came back, so it's all good. This is an interesting time for me that is for sure.
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#18
Aug 03, 2018, 02:15 PM
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I feel so sad today.
I wonder what it would feel like to be loved by someone like you. |
| CantExplain, Lemoncake
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| circlesincircles
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#21
Aug 03, 2018, 03:52 PM
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Dear t,
Thanks for being firm with me yesterday, I needed it. -Butterfly |
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#22
Aug 03, 2018, 04:10 PM
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Can't believe I only just paid you. And the reference I sent was an anagram of my name. Did you notice?
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| Anonymous45127, CantExplain
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#23
Aug 03, 2018, 04:24 PM
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 I've always wondered what "Echos Myron" was an anagram for.
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Mr Ambassador, alias Ancient Plax, alias Captain Therapy, alias Big Poppa, alias Secret Spy, etc. Add that to your tattoo, Baby! |
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