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Old Jul 12, 2019, 12:59 PM
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Well they just got home. The new place is faxing the old place for information. I am stressing now that old place is going to try to screw them over because they broke their lease over the bed bug situation. This so sucks for them....

I hope that doesn't happen. Does your son have any records from the exterminators being there? That could support his case.
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Old Jul 12, 2019, 01:02 PM
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Reason no. 57 why it can be annoying to have H work from home while I'm working from home (he has an office to go to, I don't): He keeps yawning loudly upstairs, like totally exaggerated yawns.
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Old Jul 12, 2019, 01:03 PM
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Well they just got home. The new place is faxing the old place for information. I am stressing now that old place is going to try to screw them over because they broke their lease over the bed bug situation. This so sucks for them....
Can I ask why they’re not just driving around dropping in on apartment complexes? Any time I needed to find an apartment that’s what I did, made a list, drove around, stopped at likely-looking places I saw on the way. It never took more than a couple says to find a place that way.

It just seems inefficient to only look at one place at a time. (Can you tell I’ve been studying for an economics test?)

And it’s stressful, because then everything feels like it hinges on the one place.
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Old Jul 12, 2019, 01:05 PM
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Old Jul 12, 2019, 01:14 PM
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Can I ask why they’re not just driving around dropping in on apartment complexes? Any time I needed to find an apartment that’s what I did, made a list, drove around, stopped at likely-looking places I saw on the way. It never took more than a couple says to find a place that way.

It just seems inefficient to only look at one place at a time. (Can you tell I’ve been studying for an economics test?)

And it’s stressful, because then everything feels like it hinges on the one place.

Mainly because they both work full time I guess? And also because they don't want to have to pay a bunch of application fees. If they get turned down for this one though, I am going to tell them, that they need to do what they have to do to find a place even if they have to spend their entire day off looking. They have to consider finding a new place to live as a 2nd job right now. They don't have a choice. We don't have the space here for them to stay longer than a month or two.
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Old Jul 12, 2019, 01:16 PM
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I know. I'm probably making excuses for them. I just really want them to get this place.
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Old Jul 12, 2019, 01:17 PM
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Old Jul 12, 2019, 01:18 PM
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Reason no. 57 why it can be annoying to have H work from home while I'm working from home (he has an office to go to, I don't): He keeps yawning loudly upstairs, like totally exaggerated yawns.

to sorta quote The Breakfast Club: "I think your hubby and my hubby should get together and go bowling". Mine does that too when he's sitting here waiting for a job to come in! Or sleeps, and snores loudly with the TV on full blast.
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Old Jul 12, 2019, 01:22 PM
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Look at you, enjoying the empty nest!

I don't think I realized how much I did until it wasn't anymore!
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Old Jul 12, 2019, 01:41 PM
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I hope that doesn't happen. Does your son have any records from the exterminators being there? That could support his case.
They can show they paid the apartment complex for it. They forced him to go through them for the exterminator, so my son was not given anything even though he paid the complex. It's all quite shady in my mind.
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Old Jul 12, 2019, 01:46 PM
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Reason no. 57 why it can be annoying to have H work from home while I'm working from home (he has an office to go to, I don't): He keeps yawning loudly upstairs, like totally exaggerated yawns.
Ugh. My husband used to do these very loud, extremely exaggerated sneezes. Like Aaaaaaaachoooooooooooo. I would roll my eyes so hard when he did that.
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Old Jul 12, 2019, 01:47 PM
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Ugh. My husband used to do these very loud, extremely exaggerated sneezes. Like Aaaaaaaachoooooooooooo. I would roll my eyes so hard when he did that.
Mine does that too!! What is up with that?!
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Old Jul 12, 2019, 01:50 PM
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Mine does that too!! What is up with that?!
My thought was that he needed to be the center of attention at all times.
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Old Jul 12, 2019, 02:07 PM
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Generally, in my opinion, men are not taught they have to be quiet and demure.
Try yawning and stretching with loud noises or sneezing loudly and freely - it is quite fun and can help your whole body feel better in my opinion.
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Old Jul 12, 2019, 02:09 PM
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Generally, in my opinion, men are not taught they have to be quiet and demure.

Try yawning and stretching with loud noises or sneezing loudly and freely - it is quite fun and can help your whole body feel better in my opinion.
I may just try that the next time I have the house to myself!
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Old Jul 12, 2019, 02:32 PM
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Is it wrong for me to want to ask L for a different day next week when I'm the one who scheduled vacation on my normal day?! I scheduled this short trip before I went back to therapy.

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Old Jul 12, 2019, 02:33 PM
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Today oddly feels long. I had a coffee this morning but still got super drowsy. Thankfully my manager gave me some of his Keurig coffee even though it tastes gross.
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Old Jul 12, 2019, 02:37 PM
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Is there anyone from the UK who’s currently in therapy through the NHS who wouldn’t mind me messaging them with a few questions please?
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Old Jul 12, 2019, 02:45 PM
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My brain hurts. I think it's an extended therapy hangover cuz I cried so hard in there yesterday.
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Old Jul 12, 2019, 02:57 PM
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Is there anyone from the UK who’s currently in therapy through the NHS who wouldn’t mind me messaging them with a few questions please?
I am in the uk and have had therapy through the NHS and am on a waiting list for more. Feel free to message me.
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Old Jul 12, 2019, 03:06 PM
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Is it wrong for me to want to ask L for a different day next week when I'm the one who scheduled vacation on my normal day?! I scheduled this short trip before I went back to therapy.
I don't think it's wrong to want to ask, nor do I think it is wrong to ask. HUGS Kit
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Old Jul 12, 2019, 03:35 PM
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I don't think it's wrong to want to ask, nor do I think it is wrong to ask. HUGS Kit
Thanks Kit. I know she wouldn't mind at all if I did, especially since my trip was already planned before I knew I was going back. I just feel weird about it I guess...
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Old Jul 12, 2019, 03:47 PM
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Is it wrong for me to want to ask L for a different day next week when I'm the one who scheduled vacation on my normal day?! I scheduled this short trip before I went back to therapy.
Dont make me come out there!
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Old Jul 12, 2019, 03:52 PM
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Haha. I'm just a mess. Not thinking right about anything. Don't mind me.
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Old Jul 12, 2019, 03:58 PM
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