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Old Jun 27, 2022, 10:56 AM
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Gawd, I'm glad I've therapy tomorrow. I'm quite shaken by some bad news, and my fiancé reminded me just how unwell I was late last year.
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Old Jun 27, 2022, 11:08 AM
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Gawd, I'm glad I've therapy tomorrow. I'm quite shaken by some bad news, and my fiancé reminded me just how unwell I was late last year.

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Old Jun 27, 2022, 11:16 AM
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Old Jun 27, 2022, 11:18 AM
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My T texted me Saturday to see how I was. I told her I was doing fine, just hot and tired from helping out at food distribution. I told her to enjoy Las Vegas.

She sent me back a picture of her and I am guessing her daughter at a Bar in Vegas....from what I can tell it is a fancy bar.

She was smiling so I guess she is having fun/was having fun.

Sometimes my T is so random!
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Old Jun 27, 2022, 11:22 AM
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I just got yelled at for asking how my partner would call his friend, like with what app. He told me to just read his conversation and in the end, it turns out he was wrong about how it would work.I so want to leave... why can't life be easy...
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Old Jun 27, 2022, 11:25 AM
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Old Jun 27, 2022, 11:30 AM
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I have a dentist appointment today at 3:30 PM PST that cannot come soon enough.

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Old Jun 27, 2022, 11:37 AM
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Old Jun 27, 2022, 11:38 AM
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Definitely not fun, Kit! I had fragments leftover from extractions. They hurt! I still have one in my gums. It hurts when I wear my dentures, but I'm leaving it be for now. I feel for you!
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Old Jun 27, 2022, 12:01 PM
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I cannot believe how difficult Amazon make it to get in contact with a human being. I've written an email about my book experience and the steps I would like them to take, but I have no way of actually getting it to them.

Somehow I need to reach the people who write the policies.
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Old Jun 27, 2022, 12:05 PM
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HUGS, Kit.

Thanks for the TW. I can't read it at the moment, but I hope your appointment goes well.

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Old Jun 27, 2022, 12:10 PM
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I feel fragile right now. I want to ask for support from my friends but since I haven't been felt really heard by them lately, I'm not sure exactly what to say to get the support that I am looking for. I can't even define fragile so it might mean something different to different people. I'm also not too sure what it is that I need so it's hard to ask for what would help me feel better.
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Old Jun 27, 2022, 12:55 PM
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Old Jun 27, 2022, 12:59 PM
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Old Jun 27, 2022, 01:00 PM
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Old Jun 27, 2022, 01:01 PM
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My therapist ended my therapy this weekend. Via email. With no notice and no further contact. Her explanation is that "she needs to take time off". We were deep into work about childhood sexual abuse, abandonment and traumatic attachment. The irony would be funny if I could laugh. I feel gut-punched. She's always been tricky, sometimes unprofessional, and our relationship has been characterised by ruptures, but this feels, I don't know. I am shocked.

I have read many people's experiences of sudden termination (including on here) where they assumed it wouldn't happen to them. I assumed it wouldn't happen to me.
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Old Jun 27, 2022, 01:03 PM
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HUGS comrademoomoo. I'm so sorry your therapist ended therapy with you by email no less. That's really crappy and I'm really sorry it happened. Feel free to talk here if you want. I'm listening. HUG kit
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Old Jun 27, 2022, 01:51 PM
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Old Jun 27, 2022, 02:12 PM
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Hugs, comrademoomoo. I'm so very sorry, it's just awful that this can and does happen. it's bad enough if they do it in person but omg in an email? that is such a crappy thing to do.
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Old Jun 27, 2022, 02:18 PM
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I have encountered her coldness before, but this is brutal. We had worked together for five and a half years.
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Old Jun 27, 2022, 03:45 PM
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Thats a bona fide crazy person. Im sorry moo.

Seems like there should be repercussions for her.

Holy carp.
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Old Jun 27, 2022, 04:04 PM
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Thank you una. Do you have an associate mob of repercussers who could pay her a visit?
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Old Jun 27, 2022, 04:20 PM
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Thank you una. Do you have an associate mob of repercussers who could pay her a visit?
If she doesn't, I volunteer. *grabs flaming torch and pitchfork*

She's old, right? Piece of cake.
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Old Jun 27, 2022, 04:29 PM
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I'm so sorry comrademoomoo, that's abysmal. I had a T end nearly 5 years work by text once, which was a hell of a shock, but we had reached a point where we were only meeting occasionally. Even if you've had a difficult therapy relationship, no one deserves to be dumped like that, and especially not in the midst of trauma work. Can totally understand why you would feel gut punched.

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Old Jun 27, 2022, 04:41 PM
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My therapist ended my therapy this weekend. Via email. With no notice and no further contact. Her explanation is that "she needs to take time off". We were deep into work about childhood sexual abuse, abandonment and traumatic attachment. The irony would be funny if I could laugh. I feel gut-punched. She's always been tricky, sometimes unprofessional, and our relationship has been characterised by ruptures, but this feels, I don't know. I am shocked.

I have read many people's experiences of sudden termination (including on here) where they assumed it wouldn't happen to them. I assumed it wouldn't happen to me.
I'm so sorry....that's really awful for her to do that over email with no explanation when you were in the middle of that sort of work. If it were an illness or sick family member, something like that, you'd think she would have told you. Did it sound permanent?

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