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#121
I do like you a lot besides the scheduling stuff and we work well together. I do wish you would push me more. Sometimes you are too nice. And if I'm being 100% honest your weight is kinda a distraction. Sorry. I'm just being honest.
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#122
Dr. S - I don't even know what I'd say to you if I saw you again. If I emailed you again. I guess I always thought myself more than another case file. But really, I wasn't. I was the same as all your case files. Just because you take/took more care with your job, with how you handle cases than lots of therapist, doesn't mean I was anything more than another case to you. No - that is more about you than me, how you do your job. I wish I would have realized that a long time ago. I'm not sure how much it would have changed things. I'm not sure it could have changed things.
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#123
I faced my fear this morning and did the thing and I never even told you I was going to. I feel stronger for it, and that's going to help with the sad thing h and I have to do tomorrow.
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#124
Dear E,
I'm doing the best I can at the moment, and I still feel exhausted. Could it really take a week for me to 'land' after this? I guess I have had a week's build up to the event, without my usual support system...🙄 I'm beginning to wonder how I'm going to explain the depth of this to R next month. Yes, the festive period is one thing...but dealing with his birthday in the middle of it floored me. Speak to you tomorrow, Lost __________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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#125
Why do you think I like Daniel Tiger and Sesame Street? I watch them when my niece is over and even then I'm on my phone. I mean I'm 30 years old. I don't get why you asked what episode was on today and stuff like that. It didn't really offend offend me. I just found it kinda weird, and I had the news on all day so I wouldn't feel like a loser.
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#126
I'm pretty sure you gaslighted me earlier. I hope you'll answer my question about that.
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#127
Just a question. I mentioned being attracted to Kelly Clarkson. You didn't say anything. Then I also mentioned being attracted to Keke Palmer. And you said "how does that make you feel?" What did you mean by that comment excatly? Is it because shes black and I'm white? So what? Man do you make some iffy comments.
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#128
Hi R,
I don't know how I'm going to explain the challenge that this time has been...but I think I'm going to need you to move for that conversation. Just under two weeks to go, and I already have the first page of notes. See you soonish, Lost __________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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#129
Wellll there's more problems with my car than just the tire. And we are taking things day by day with Stormy. So don't be surprised if I need to cancel this Friday
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#130
I still love ya, bae. I hope you will have good answers for me, soon. It was a rough week all around, and I need to know your thoughts on the matters that are still open.
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#131
So in four months we have gone from you terminating me, you then contacting me six weeks later to say you realise you handled things badly and would like to give it another go if I was willing, hashing things out and being brutally honest with each other, and now on Christmas Eve you unexpectedly leaving me a voicemail because you want me to know I’m not forgotten between sessions and that you know how difficult the next few days are going to be for me.
This isn’t what I was expecting after everything that happened in August, but your voicemail today was one of the most thoughtful and caring things anyone has done for me. Thank you so very much. |
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#132
Retail therapy is awesome. I can afford to buy nice things for my family, because I'm not handing over stupid amounts to you or any of the other incompetent therapists before you.
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#133
Dear T,
A gift my sister-in-law got made me think of you, because we were talking about it last week. When she opened it, I was like, "I was just talking to...someone about those!" Survived that gathering (despite D having a rough go of it), including eating dinner. H said I did well, and I'd agree. (And I didn't even come up with some excuse to leave for 30 minutes like my brother-in-law.) I enjoyed talking to my sis-in-law, too. So, that's one down. Now to get through Christmas Day with my parents. (I'll try to think of the fond memories that we discussed, maybe create some new ones.) Of course, then there's the rest of Christmas break (doesn't help that D keeps saying how many days are left). But I see you Wednesday, so that will be an outlet, if needed. (Though I keep having this weird feeling that will end up being virtual--hope not, as it will mean one of us is sick or some other bad thing.) Love you, LT |
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#134
Dr. S. I wish I could talk with you. Nothing bad or anything. I simply miss talking with you.
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#135
I think we are so similar. You told me that you are "weird," in the context of comparing yourself to others. That was endearing. I hope you will read my email soon - maybe on Tuesday - and reply.
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#136
Merry Christmas, L. Hope you and yours are having a beautiful day. And (I hope) I'll see you on Friday.
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#137
Dear T,
So Christmas with my parents went OK, too, despite some rough patches with D. I think in part due to our talk of Christmas memories last week, I opted to stay an extra hour and a half to hang out with my parents after H and D left. Because like we talked about--who knows how many years I'll have with them? I mean, who knows how many years (or days or weeks or months) I'll have with anyone? So I should make the most of the time I have. And I think talking about the positive memories put me in the mindset of wanting to stay, not trying to get out of there as soon as D wants to leave. Whether you do something for Christmas or not, I hope you had a nice day, whatever you were doing. Love, LT |
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#138
L, Thank you for your text. You made me cry. Things like that is why I love you. And I didn't even remember making you the painted window. That was special seeing it. Merry Christmas L.
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#139
I said "yes" to something I would have declined on previously. It was an offer to see Christmas lights still up. I also live close to an old castle, which I've never been to before. We walked up to the grounds, then left as it was already dark. The round trip took 4 hours, but overall though it was tiring, I really did have fun at the end and I'm glad I went.
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#140
I have a feeling you are going to want to know how this extended break was.
I want to gloss over it...but that's not going to help. Steve's birthday landing when it does is a challenge I wasn't prepared for. What that means seems to change over time. One moment at a time...right? __________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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