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Old Jul 11, 2008, 12:16 PM
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The first thing I said when I entered T today was "well that didn't work" meaning the emails. T replied "no not at all". I tried to explain to her how her email about caring sent me into orbit. Basically I told her, being nice is for nice people and I've already seen my truth, seen my evil, my adoptive mother showed me that. I said can you imagine making a sand castle and sitting back admiring it, and then someone puts there foot on it and says, thats only sand, nothing else, well thats how I feel about my insides, there only evil and nothing else.

T said that I have internalised my adoptive mothers sadism and am constantly attacking it from within, that the evil that my adoptive mother said was in me, was actually hers.

When I got home I emailed T and said I know you dont need an apology for my email the other day, but I feel the need to give it. T replied that I am right she doesn't need an apology, she realises how difficult this is for me but she also said its good that I felt I could give her an apology.

SIGH, SIGH, SIGH.
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Old Jul 11, 2008, 12:22 PM
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Mouse...man thats hard. Im sorry. Keep working like u are. I wish that adults had to suffer the consequences of their actions on children as soon as they do it. It seems fair.
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Old Jul 11, 2008, 12:33 PM
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i just want to give you a hug ....... because i know how hard it is ..... i'm so tired of it all mouse ...... let's just keep going .... there has to be an end love Jinny xx
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Old Jul 11, 2008, 12:35 PM
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I'm sorry this is hard. I have the same struggles in T. Sometimes it feels like I need to prove how awful I am, because T just doesn't see it. It feels like what was done to me left a black mark on my insides, so that now I am tainted forever.

I am impressed that you were able to apologize and I think going through this hard time with your T may help you be able to accept that you are, at heart, a good and worthwhile person.
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Old Jul 11, 2008, 01:21 PM
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Old Jul 11, 2008, 01:35 PM
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It is always nice to hear this isn't it. Sometimes I wonder if I will ever internalize the new message.
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Old Jul 11, 2008, 01:43 PM
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I've just ordered "East of Eden", somehow I think this may help me in my journey.
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Old Jul 11, 2008, 04:53 PM
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(((((((((((Mouse)))))))))))))) feeling like messing up constantly. I feel for our T's. I often wonder if this will ever end - these cycles - if we will ever feel worthy enough to let ourselves live. Sounds like you have a good t - hang in there. It's got to get better at some point.
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