Caught boyfriend in lie

Thanks for all your help. I broke up with him today. I am seeking counseling which I start on Tuesday. I also am going to get my life together for the best. I am going to keep a journal and right down everything. Thanks again and I hope to hear from you soon.

I think you are doing the right thing. But do not base anything on my opinion, please. I am happy for you that you decided to take this step, and I am sure you will realize that you did the right thing, life is too short to be dealing with a "real screw up" if you know what I mean. Try to make peace with your family, it might help things go more smoothly in the long wrong. Look girl, you are young (wish I was) you can be the one to choose your own destiny, do it! Take care and keep in touch.
"darkeyes"

I wish you the best of luck with it. I, too, have been enduring a lot of abuse (mental) but not from a boyfriend. I feel weakened by it and am getting out of where I live a.s.a.p. I think walking away from people who abuse us is the best thing to do. Or else we get sucked down the drain with them. Like you, I have to take care of myself and deserve a better life than this garbage life I'm living now. I hope you'll keep writing here, too.

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