Caught in a rerun ?

A very wise poster wrote this in another thread..... I was wondering whether other people also relate to this as a fear in their online lives...... I certainly do.... I fear being caught in a rerun of the abuse and neglect and feeling of being "invisible" and trampled over that characterised my childhood.........

I think a fear of posting and disclosing is almost universal. (??)... different people express that fear differently .....

I agree, it can be universal, I think too.
Being caught in a rerun? Maybe in my 3D but not online, so far.

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I think you're right, Fuzzy. I know I'm always afraid to post because I think no one will respond, that I am "invisible". It just causes me to withdraw, esp. when I could use some help and support from the community.

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oh, fuzzy............ you seem to have wrote this about me, even though i know you didnt.
the fear of being invisible is mine, the fear of being blanked when i post a thread, asking for help and getting no replys,( being over looked by everyone)
this is not a bad thing in the real world but here online.................. that is scary.
i had this when i first started posting , its not nice, i can see how other people here may have a fear of posting.

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I think the fear of getting no replies is a very common one...... its a bad feeling and scary

It definitely goes back to childhood pain for many people...

Love,
Fuzzy

I relate that to "not having a voice." No one heard me when I was a child when I needed help or when I wanted the abuse to stop. I learned to yell to make myself heard. Later, I found out that yelling turns people off or they tune you out but worse yet, you scare some people off.

I still have some problems with that. Maybe I'm just a naturally loud person. IDK. My husband and my kids tell me I don't need to shout.

Here, it takes a lot of editing to get rid of the capitals and bold type. I'm learning, though. My soul sister capitalizes the first letter of a word she wants to accentuate. I do it with her when I write her, but I don't do it here.

It's awful not having a voice!

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Love,
Fuzzy

I understand Fuzzy.

That's why I have to up and leave for days at a time, it just gets too be so hard.

I don't like being invisible here, but wish for it IRL. *sigh*

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Love,
Fuzzy

i agree the thought of getting caught in a rerun is quite scary, here and irl, it so easy to be overlooked,
you can tell your self it doesnt matter but sometimes it does, i have a fear of no choice this was big in my childhood the adults all thought they knew what was best for us as children,
i have tried not to make the same mistakes with my own children :

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A fear of no choice...... yes that was very big in my childhood.... my father was very dictatorial and always knew "best", whatever the situation. It wasn't until later on that I discovered that I had been lied to about huge issues....although I always sensed something was "wrong"

It's great that you are breaking the "cycle" with your children.... I know you're a wonderful mother!

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