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#1
May 01, 2009, 07:17 PM
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   Okay here is my problem. A part of me is very unhappy with my marriage, i find myself depressed constantly and feeling extremely alone. I have never felt this upset, trapped, lost and lost so much confidence as i do now. It quite literally is terrible. From any stand point that looks upon my relationship and knows what has happened will say Just end it, divorce him and be happy. However.... a few months ago i went to adopt my new puppy chester and there was this lady there sitting in the corner and she was staring at me and i did not know why. She grabbed at the table next to her and whispered to her co-worker. I honestly was feeling very uneasy i had no idea what she was saying but i knew it had to do with me. Then the other lady asks me if i knew what clairvoiyant was. I said yes psychic right? and she said yes i feel alot from you i know you have split souls... your a twin.. and i was like what... yes i am... and shes like your afraid of water and heights because in a past life you jumped off a bridge and drowned. I actually am VERY afraid of heights and will not go into deep water always. Then she said that she sees marriage and she sees an 8. i was quite stunned at this point seeing that a few months earlier i had got married on 8-8-08. Then she told me we were soulmates and meet each other every lifetime and will constnatly be with each other over and over again, no matter what we will always be together. Thinking back now, she knew so much from me that it scares me that this is true, i am truly unhappy in my relationship and feel like i have to stay with him because of this prediction? Please people tell me that she could have read something wrong or guessed coincidentally on things? I am scared that if i stay with him i will end up hurting myself again.. I need help!
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May 01, 2009, 10:11 PM
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Sally...
 I happen to believe that there are people out there who do have a gift for "knowing" things. I am also skeptical at the same time however, always willing to look at all evidence of either side. This being said, there is no evidence that states that what this lady said is not true. It could be that you and your husband are soul mates and do meet up in each lifetime. Then again, there is no evidence, other than what this means to you, that states anything this woman said was true. Regardless, even if you are this man's soul mate, this does not necessarily mean that you are destined to spend your lives together. This does not mean that your relationship is meant to work, or that it is meant to be good. A lot of people who believe in past and future lives also believe that we meet people and go through experiences with them to learn things about ourselves, others, and the universe. It could just be that you are supposed to learn something from this relationship, whether it works out or not. If there's another lifetime coming for you, then maybe you will meet up with this soul again at another time. If not, then what's most important is living this life and being as healthy (physically and emotionally) as possible. Ultimately, you need to take care of yourself, and keep yourself healthy and safe. If that means walking away from a soul mate and learning something from the relationship then that's what it means. It is a choice that YOU will have to make, and that YOU will have to square with in this life right now. I don't know how much this will help, but I hope it assists with a little perspective. I wish you and your partner well, wether you stay together forever, or go your separate ways at some point!! 
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May 01, 2009, 10:20 PM
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Hello...I'll take a jab at this
I do believe that their are people that are "gifted" for lack of a better word. However I feel that they are few & far between 7 I am skeptical of most. So a few questions...1. Did you pay her for this info? It doesn't sound like it, but just making sure... 2. Was this a place that you routinely go? 3. Was there people in the general proximity at the time that knew you? 4. At the time this event took place were you questioning your marriage? 5. If you were, did your husband know it? BTW, nice to meet you, LK 
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May 02, 2009, 07:14 AM
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I believe in certain (not all) people who can tell the future. Its a long story so I will cut it short....
I was told lots of things and they all came true each and every one of them over the years from one particular man, however one of the things he said was that I would have five girls and one boy so in total six kids ! In a way he was right I had six kids BUT he got it the wrong way round it was five boys and one girl. The moral here is they can get things back to front and maybe this is what your teller did ? |
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May 02, 2009, 11:55 AM
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Nice to meet you too by the way
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May 02, 2009, 12:04 PM
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I really did not consider the fact that she could have been right in the aspect that i will always meet him and be together but that it could be to learn something. All that was going through my head was that she meant forever. Maybe what she was reading was that we do meet each life for a reason and that is why we are a form of soul mate but maybe we meet each other to learn something for our future each time. It would make a lot of sense because from this relationship i have learned quite a lot and know i will not take things for granted as i did in past relationships. A part of me has been thinking of going to another psychic and seeing what they say and compare but i do not know if it is worth the money. Some people just tell you really vague things that could happen to anyone, some people are gifted. I do believe that women i met was gifted because of the things she said blew me away just the whole point of together always scared me, especially at that point when i was at the point of never being that unhappy. I want to do what is healthiest for me and i know at this point that it would be to leave him but that doubt of what she said has been literally killing me. I always thinking of what if i regret it, hes from another country so the whole legality of it makes it more complicated. But i do know that he has held me back from alot of things that made my life happy, i have been into art since i could pick up a pencil but he has held this back from me and tells me i can only do artwork of what he wants and from this i get no inspiration and have given up on it. I used to be very good at it and got alot of awards but now i have no drive to touch a paintbrush again. I also left college because he said i should spend all my time with him not studying. I dont want to be working where i am right now all my life, i know i could do something amazing i could feel it, like invent something that changes things but im held back from that. I cant see my friends when i want to he guilts me out of it, including my twin sister all he does is bad talk her. I just wish i had some sort of sign that i should end it now. Wish i knew. My sister told me that my dad was going to have a talk with me about how he thought this man wasnt right for me and to get my as* back in school and start drawing again. However my dad passed away before he got to tell me and my sister decided to tell me after we got married... If i knew my dad did not have his blessing on this i would have defintly not done it. It just sucks...
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May 02, 2009, 12:07 PM
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This is very true that she could have been reading in between the lines and got certain points but not the whole picture. Do you think i should try another psychic and compare?
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May 02, 2009, 12:22 PM
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I also believe that you are the master of your own destiny and they can only point at certain things. I would just go with gut feelings for now and not seek any more 'help', as it may confuse you more.
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May 02, 2009, 12:35 PM
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i belive in clairvoant gifts. I think clairavoiants have been around for thousands of years. My cousin is clairvoiant and years ago when I was going through my divorce from my first husband she told me I would meet someone in 2001 and we would concive a son shortly after. She told me his soul was in his eyes and he would be a Pices. That he would be also be going through a turning point in his life. Well in 2001 I met my now husband we were together for 3 months and I found out that I was 1 month pregnant in that 3rd month. He had a turning point iin his life and went to live on a Cherokee reservation for 2 years before meeting me. He was given the name crow wolf bcause the soul in his eyes. In your situation however it sounds as if you must of been very unhappy in your past life to have jumped off of a bridge. Please be careful, Sally.
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May 02, 2009, 12:39 PM
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i forgot to add, you do not have to stay with your husband because of this prediction. I belive people have more than one soulmate. Be it a friend family member etc. They could have been in your previous lives as well. just because he was in your previous life does notmean he was there as your husband he could have been your brother. And I agree with the other poster you are in control of your own destiny. Just make wise decisions.
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May 02, 2009, 01:01 PM
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Sally....
I don't think you NEED to see another Psychic. They will gladly take your money and give you information which may or may not be accurate, but either way, it will most likely just end up with you being more confused than you are now. Besides...I think that you already know the answers to your questions. You have answered them several times throughout your responses to others posts.  You have stated a couple times that this person emotionally, psychologically, and physically in a very real sense, holds you hostage from doing the things in life that make your life worthwhile. YOU have let him imprison your artistic self, YOU have allowed him to imprison you from your family, your own twin; who could possibly be more of a soul mate than her? And it seems as though you are looking for people to say that this is okay and that there is a good reason for you to allow this kind of relationship to continue when it is poisoning your soul. True love conforms to us!! It wraps itself around us like a blanket to keep us safe and warm. It is unconditional. True love never asks, or expects us to conform to it. For something so impassioned as love does not know how to make such a demand... Set your soul free. .gif "Girl Angel") Be who you are...not who others believe that you should be!! 
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May 02, 2009, 02:46 PM
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1. Did she know you were coming? 2. Did you or your husband call to make an appointment to go over there? The reason I ask is because if she had a way to access your name before meeting you she could have found out some info on you very easily. Since she did not ask for money at that time...she may have been "reeling you in" by saying call her anytime just to charge later... If you call her back with a few questions you'll find out quickly if she tries to charge you at that time...THEN HANG UP .If she doesn't, then the only other scenerio I can cook up in me lil' ol' paranoid mind is that since your husband knew you were not happy he may have "rigged" it as a way to coherse you or manipulate you. I don't know your husband, so I'm not trying to accuse anyone... Just throwing tangible "real world" possibilities out first.
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May 02, 2009, 03:04 PM
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I think you have your answer & I think it's IN you. You can always find a reason NOT to do something....so if you look for an excuse to not follow your heart you'll find it.
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May 02, 2009, 06:16 PM
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You have been so helpful, i feel soo incredibly better. I started to think of it when you reminded me that i was not happy in my past life to have jumped off a bridge. Maybe this happened before considering a week ago i almost ended it for me but i felt something stop me. For all i know he could have been a brother in a past life it would make sense seeing that we have a bond that's for sure but it is not as romantic as i thought it would end up being.I really do feel alot better from this. Thank you 
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May 02, 2009, 06:22 PM
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It was the lady's friend who worked with her. Yes they knew i was coming, i was talking to the one who owned the house through email a few days earlier saying i was interested in the puppy i saw online. I emailed confirmation and called myself to talk further into adopting the pup. I tried to figure any other way that she could have known anything about me, i even thought of factors of how my husband could say anything but i couldn't find one. He is definitly the manipulating type, a part of me almost thought he told her through his mind, i was so definite he had to have said something but couldn't have been. The clairvoiant even told me that i was going to have an Autistic child. I mean if i was to i would be a great mother to him/her but i found it innapropriate for a stranger to be telling me that when i didnt even know her.
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May 02, 2009, 06:27 PM
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Completely inspiring... Thank you. I honestly feel a lot stronger. I just kept telling myself the next time he does a big thing hes gone and then he does something and i say okay next time again. He knew he was on thin ice and decided to pin me against the wall with his knee with my face towards the wall and call me horrible names until i snapped and started cursing him off and screaming. My sister ran in and he called me a headcase and said " your just upset from a bad day right??" and i said yes im going to sleep. when i write everything down i see it more as how bad it really has gotten. I have to do some research on the legal stuff about it but i plan to take care of this situation real soon. I want to be confident again and feel good about life. I used to smile everyday and cheer everyone up with jokes and advice and now i am the one that always frowning and looking on the downside. i want my life back and im tired of waiting, im gonna Take it.
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May 02, 2009, 08:21 PM
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May 02, 2009, 10:02 PM
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Interesting experience. I once went to a psychic to ask about my mother who I had not seen since I was 5 years old.
The psychic told me NOT to look her up. That she was in a mental institution and was very disturbed. I was shook up by the experience. My father's family never talked about my mother and I was not permitted to have even a photo of her as a child being raised in foster homes. Many years later, I met my soul mater, my life partner who I have been with for 24 years. She encouraged me to file a missing persons report on my mother. I was reluctant but overcame my fear and I filed the report. Ten years later, I recieved call, my mother had been found in a nursing home. She was schizophrenic and had spent many years in a mental hospital. I was able to go and meet her before she died. It was a profound healing experience for me. So the morale of my story is that the psychic was right, and it wasn't the time for me to connect with my mother, but she was wrong to tell me not to look for her. I think psychics offer some help but we have to temper that with our own gut level feelings. Quote:
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May 02, 2009, 10:13 PM
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My husband has off days and good days, today was no problems, it seems to be okay when we are like watching movies or eating then again neither of those include talking ha ha. I know what i have to do now, i just have to wait for the perfect timing. I am gonna do it because i know i have to do it, i feel it deep down that if i do not do this i will not have a very long life. Mental abuse/Emotional makes you physically sick and lowers your immune system. It also sheds years off your life (stress). I want to be like over 100 years old when i pass, i am one of those people who want to live as long as possible because i love life. When i was younger i never could understand how someone could feel that bad to not want to live anymore until a few weeks ago when i almost did it , i injured myself badly and then hit an epiphany of (What am i doing, why am i going this far and how can i change my life to never result to this again). I know what i have to do now, i just have to wait. I see this all happening by the end of the month, once the legality is out of the way. I know when it happens i will feel so much off my shoulders and feel completely free. i cant wait to have that key.
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