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#626
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Yeah I struggle with social motivation too like keeping my plans with friends. I bail from my plans a lot which sucks, but it takes so much effort to hang with people and I just rather stay home. At least you're social online ![]()
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#627
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I have a difficult time showering but i thought it was a symptom of marriage.
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#628
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I dont do anything socially, but i genuinely dont want to. I am not going to feel obligated to go out because i am "supposed" to. That seems silly to me.
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#629
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#630
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My boyfriend wants me to be social since he worries about me. Sometimes I really enjoy seeing my friends and other times it gives me stress.
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#631
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I'm researching about this topic and found this article
Lack Of Motivation In Schizophrenia Linked To Brain Chemical Imbalance -- ScienceDaily
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#632
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I am never sure how to differentiate between lack of motivation, and just genuinely choosing not to do some things. Like being social. Most people would say thats abnormal, but i really just dont want to. And yes most people shower more often, but i dont stink, i am hygienic in the how to put it, bathroom area, and i would clean it off if i got mud or something spilled on me. I am also very careful about handwashing and gloves or barriers at work. So why do i need to shower more often if i dont want to? What is motivation and what is personal preference? Dont i get to choose?
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#633
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As long as you're clean it doesn't really matter imo. I need to shower more often because I get flakes in my hair if I haven't showered in a long time.
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Thanks, that has always been my thought too. Sometimes i do take an epsom salt and bubble bath for fun, but i do have to sit on a towel because the tub hurts my tail bone. Th epsom salts are good for me though.
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#635
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When my boyfriend and I get our own place I plan on taking relaxing bubble baths. I don't do it at our new place because our landlord uses the shower too and his girlfriend so too many cooties for me.
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#636
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Oh yea, no way would i soak in a shared tub! I hope you get your own place soon.
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![]() Ha ha! I love that! It is so true with our fat cat Louie! ![]() |
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#638
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Hahaha! Thanks!!!
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#639
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Me either! I'd much rather stay home with Daisy ![]() |
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#640
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We only have one bathroom in our apt. So that's one shower and tub to share with my 3 kids, the 2 cats, and my dog! Lotsa cooties! ![]() |
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#641
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Actually my boyfriend and I are applying to a small one bedroom apartment, we are pretty excited about it
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#642
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Your cat is so pretty! My cat doesn't live with me and lives with a relative of my boyfriend's. When we get our own house in the distant future we can have her live with us again.
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That sounds great ![]() |
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Thanks! Fat Louie is my oldest daughter's favorite cat. She weighed him earlier tonight and he weighed 17 pounds! He is a mess! ![]() I know you'll be so glad to have your cat back. |
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Me too and I never had my own apartment before. It's 450 square feet so it's kind of small, but it means that utilities will be cheap (I'm assuming) which will be good.
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My boyfriend's cousin has a obese cat and he is the cutest animal ever. My cat is rather small since I got her from a really bad place and she had worms until I treated her. She has a vet appointment to go to as a check up, but I'm saving my money for it so she can't go yet.
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#647
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Yes the utilities should be cheaper in a smaller place. I'm hoping to move some time around the end of this summer. My kids will all be moving so I want a very tiny apt for Daisy and I. I'd like a studio apt which is the smallest. Some new ones are being built up the street from where I work. Once they finish building them I'm going to go check them out. I just hope they won't be too expensive since they'll be brand new. |
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#648
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Sounds pretty snazzy and hopefully they will be cheap.
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I'm not sure where you live but do you have Petsmart stores in your area? If so, inside Petsmart is a vet called Banfield. They have awesome wellness plans for cats and dogs. You pay a certain fee every month. Like for my dog Daisy I pay $32.95 every month. That covers all shots, check ups, deworming, and dental cleaning every 6 months. Free office visits each time plus a ten percent discount on any medications from the vet. There's some other stuff it covers too but right now I can't remember it all. Paying monthly is easier for me. This way I don't have to hand over a large lump sum each time Daisy goes to the vet. www.banfield.com Last edited by Anonymous100103; Apr 09, 2014 at 01:10 AM. |
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#650
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It would be very cool to have a brand new apt where no one has ever lived....no cooties! Lol! ![]() |
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