10 things I hate about myself/I like

ive been wanting to reply to this thread for so long but dont know what to say, but now while iam on the " okay" mood iam trying so later whenever i feel horible about myself i can always come back and read this , well iam not gonna try to write about what i hate bout myself coz its gonna be never ending list
so here my list :

1. iam good negotiator
2. iam independent ( well not financially at the moment but stil..)
3. my ability to laugh at myself
4. i never feel bored with myself
5. iam funny
6. my ability to talk to inanimate objects and animals
7. iam loyal and good listener when iam not sleepy
8. i can get along with people from all age easily
9. i usually very good at multitasking and learn new thing fast
10. i care deeply.. well this also the thing that i hate bout myself but cant think bout anything else that i like bout myself

I have always thought that I would give a lot for the ability to sing...

10 things I hate:
1 My inablility to handle familial stress
2 My quick temper
3 Lack of self confidence
4 lack of self esteem
5 lack of self acceptance
6 my inability to make a decision w/o second guessing it
7 my desire for acceptance from women
8 i spend too much money
9 I just want to have 'fun" all the time
10 my bpd2/depression

10 things I like:
1 I love my daughter
2 I genuinely care about people
3 I am handsome
4 music soothes me...i just love music, and all different types too
5 I am easily amused
6 I am a funny guy
7 I am good at mimicing voices; many of them amuse my daughter
8 I dress well
9 I am a good lover
10 I love and acknowledge God

Hate:
1) my weight (although if I keep working at my job, this may not be an issue)
2) My lack of self-confidence
3) My lack of self-esteem
4)I procrastinate
5)I suck at housework
6)I feel that I'm ugly
7)I start projects and don't always finish them
8)I have a hard time saying "no"
9)Can't seem to get ahead financially no matter how hard I work
10)I care too much about what others think of me

Likes:
1) I am creative
2) I am a good cook
3) I love my kids and would do anything for them
4) I am loyal
5) I am open-minded
6) I graduated with honors from nursing school
7) I overcame a fear of snakes for my oldest daughter
8) I try to be the best nurse I can be
9) I care very much about others
10) I am much stronger emotionally than I think I am

Guys

this is the most negative thread I ever seen. To boost self esteem you need to focus on positives

John

10 Hates
1.) i am clingy/attached to my former teacher
2.) i am and feel weak
3.) i si ... and shallowly too
4.) i suckish at soccer/athletics
5.) my un-firm/tight skin/body
6.) i have no social life
7.) everyone is better than me
8.) never being smart/good enough
9.) i never had a boyfriend
10.) i procrastinate then si to make up for it

10 Likes

1.) i am good at and love math (except geometry)
2.) i perservere
3.) i have grown a lot in the past 2 years
4.) i am a good tutor
5.) i am perceptive
6.) i am intelligent
7.) i am mostly a good student
8.) i can have a sense of humor
9.) i have a good heart
10.) i know what i want to do with my life

--Sam

Things I dislike about myself:
1. I get really jealous easily.
2. I worry too much.
3. I hate my face shape.
4. I can't seem to relax
5. I over-think too much and make myself upset.
6. I feel like I put other people before myself 24/7 (sometimes a good thing)
7. I have broad shoulders.
8. I let other people get to me very easily.
9. I'm very emotional.
10. I can be really hard on myself.

Like:
1. The color of my eyes.
2. My smile.
3. I am very organized.
4. I am very goal-driven.
5. I am really athletic and flexibile.
6. I love to make others laugh.
7. I geniunly care about the well-being of others.
8. I can sing and dance pretty well.
9. I have nice handwriting.
10. I love to help other people.

Ten Things I Dislike:
1. my legs
2. my asymetrical eyes
3. my stomach
4. my all-over-the-place interests
5. my intimacy/trust issues
6. my perfectionism
7. my sleep schedule
8. how I always overanalyze
9. my lack of commitment to health goals
10. that I always end up disappointing people

Ten Things I Like:
1. I'm very loyal
2. My students know I care about them
3. I'm creative
4. I'm a quick typist
5. I'm curious
6. I can travel solo
7. I'm a good planner
8. people feel like they can trust me and open up
9. I'm a decent photographer when I try
10. I can invent stories quickly.

Going to try as hard as I can to think of ten things for each.

Ten things I hate:
1) My body weight disgusts me.
2) My sexual organs disgust me (yes, I have gender issues). Some would say lump these two issues together, but trust me. They're very different.
3) I push people away. Sometimes I wonder if I do it intentionally.
4) I either feel too intelligent or too stupid. Neither is pleasant. As either way I feel inferior to the average person.
5) My scars.
6) My lisp. I hate the way I sound. I try as hard as I can to avoid "s" and "sh" words.
7) I often feel like I'm annoying.
8) My butt. This really doesn't tie in with body, either. As it disgusts me more than my weight.
9) My teeth. My top teeth overlap my bottom teeth. They're all crooked and my jaw is misshapen but I cannot afford braces.
10) I can never express myself properly.

Ten things I like:
1) My love for animals.
2) My pretty blue eyes.
3) My talent for writing
4) I spend much of my time thinking about the wonders of the world. It's a blessing and a curse, really.
5) I'm curious.
6)
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8)
9)
10)
I can only think of five things I like at the moment. Maybe I'll think up more later.

Things I hate:
1) My teeth
2) My skin
3) My nails
4) That I care so much what other people think
5) I'm useless at everything, even the simplest tasks
6) I feel like I need a boyfriend
7) I'm a bit dumb
8) I feel so ugly and wish more than anything to be attractive
9) I'm way too sensitive
10) I dread and avoid every single thing in life because I can't handle them

Things I like:
1) My eyes are a nice blue-green colour
2) My hair colour (does it count if it's fake??)
3) I can write welllllll-ish........
4) I'm friendly
5) I have a great, although quite vulgar, sense of humour
6) My dorkiness can be cute under the right circumstances...!
7) I am quite open-minded
8) I try not to be snobbish about silly things like music, movies etc. and I hate when people insult eachother for their tastes
9) Friendships, however temporary, are meaningful to me for life
10) I'm sentimental and romantic

Listing the things I like about myself was particularly hard because some of the things I used to list don't feel true any more

Things I Hate:
1) My weight. My face makes me look fat, as my chin has a tendency to go double, despite the fact I probably weigh the same as the other girls in my grade. My sister has no qualms with calling me names.
2) When I can't cry and really want to, like when L died, so it feels like I'll burst with all that I'm feeling. It's literally painful because I can't get the release I need.
3) When I can't stop crying and really want to, like when someone yells at me.
4) My eyes. Super-duper dark brown, so you can't see any detail. So boring. All my friends have interesting eyes with entire landscapes in them. So beautiful, but not mine.
5) Procrastinator, guilty as charged.
6) Difficulty accepting failure.
7) Difficulty accepting change.
8) Difficulty communicating, at the very least with my dad.
9) Inability to control myself when I'm in an environment where I thrive. People don't seem to like it when I'm excited, eager, or happy and believe I'm arrogant/inconsiderate/annoying if I'm in a school setting.
10) The fact that I immediately am compulsed to believe that any person nearby that is crying is trying to manipulate me.

Things I Like:
1) My voice is okay. Friends and the occasional classmate compliment me. Also related, I have the greatest evil laugh in existence and am often cued by my friends to have an especially humorous effect.
2) I am loyal.
3) My hair dries in ringlets. A friend loves playing with my hair and braiding it.
4) I respond quickly to situations and respond with a cool demeanor.
5) My friends. Simply fantastic.
6) My writing is okay.
7) "Gifted", or whatever the hell that means. I've met many cool and understanding teachers through the program in my district.
8)I have long eyelashes.
9) I can love fictional characters with all my heart, which brings me great joy and comfort when I'm going through rough times.
10) My imagination can literally take me anywhere; though this is sometimes a double-edged sword, I try my best to keep it on the exciting/happy/exhilarating end of the spectrum... except when I'm feeling exceptionally low, then I fantasize some really bad things that just make me worse.

Great. Except that really dark brown eyes should go well together with long eyelashes. Really dark brown eyes are an asset, not a liability.

Isn't it funny how we are our own worst critics? I'd be willing to bet, Katix, that that one friend you tell everything to would disagree with your list. I challenged myself to think of one positive thing (just one) each and every day to tell myself. Some days it seems like an impossibility, but usually at some point during the day, I'm able to find just one... even something as silly as "good job for doing _____ today."

Things I hate:

Sick and always tired
Unorganized and scared I'll never get anywhere
Looking old (feel like a kid)
Looking very gender typical
Worrying too much

Things I like:

Intelligent, logical
Creative
Childish
Unusual
Standing up for me

That's 10. In all at least.

Things I hate about myself:
1. I'm shy (No friends at all, politeness and formalities don't go with friendship.)
2. I'm bipolar (My parents and I hate it.)
3. Eating habits ( Not fat but if this continues going on...)
4. Sensitivity (Even simple things put me down)
5. Trust issues (I think people are judging me secretely)
6. My speech (I stutter and I hate my voice.)
7. My negativity (It annoys everyone)
8. My cutting (My family doesn't look at me the same way anymore)
9. I'm too serious (Can't make friends in public)
10. Can't go through with plans (I give up easily)

Things I like about myself:
1. I like to draw (Art is my freedom.)
2. I like to type stories (My imagination actually works there)
3. Good writer (Best of my class and above-average in my age group)
4. I sing and I don't care what others think about it (Joining chior next year)
5. I'm a good listener (Sometimes too good)
6. I'm a mix right-brained and left-brained (I like it that way!)
7. I like to try new things (Foods, roller-coasters, bring it on!)
8. I love animals (Cliche, I know)
9. I love children (My sister and I get along well)
10. I'm mellow and friendly (Been told that many times. Something unique that I have in the family)

There's my list. Nice idea of a thread by the way.

Hate:
my teeth
getting old for real
disorganized at home
stuck inside self
guilt/anger
ugly glasses
too skinny
not getting things done at home
feeling overly sentimental about past that wasn't all that good
sometimes just babble on
LOVE
feel young (away from mirrors)
being able to do physical things as easily as ever (flexible, endurance)
being able to help my grown kids when i can
my time with my grandson
still having a dream to aspire to
generally empathic
gardening when i do it
my old cats
i help others at work

Things I hate about myself:

1. Being fat.
2. My stomach & upper arms.
3. Being on psych meds that have had numerous side-effects.
4. I haven't got a partner and am unlikely to meet one.
5. I have few close friends.
6. I haven't got a decent job.
7. Not having good qualifications.
8. I have a crap medical history.
9. I'm messy.
10. I think the above are probably enough as I feel terrible now.

Things that I like:

1. I'm struggling to think of something, nothing seems to compensate for the above list .... perhaps I should have done this list first.

You do not need to compensate for being messy. I am extremely messy. After a lot of struggle, I have learned to see that it is a wonderful quality that means that you are not too controlling, for one, and are delightfully spontaneous, for another. Celebrate it. For real. And, do not invite people over if you know them to be the ones who criticize you for being messy. Just eliminate such people from your life.

Things I like:

1. I am alive
2. My haircut
3. My inner chameleon
4. My odd way of looking at the world
Can't make it to 10

Things I don't like

1. That I can't make it to 10 on the "Things I like" list
2. My small stature.
3. My inability to get along with or understand most people
4. Not knowing where I want to go in life
5. My long time friend, apathy
6. My depressive states
7. My past
8. My ability to draw odd looks from total strangers.
9. Not being able to understand if someone is joking or serious, angry or just annoyed unless it is patently obvious. Nuances in speech or behavior go right over my head.
10. My inability to make or keep close friends

HA I posted this at 13. Im happy on how far this thread came. Im going to do the list over. See if anything has changed. I wonder if I helped anyone?

Things I don't like
1. Chest
2. Face shape
3. Lips
4. Nose
5. Hair
6. Smile
7.Voice
8. Legs
9. Skin
10. Chin

Things I Like
1. Eyes

1: old
2: bad teeth
3: fat
4: lazy
5: tired
6: bad stomach
7: constant headaches
8: leg pains
9: back pain
10: useless

There is nothing I like about me, there is nothing good about me so, there you go.

It takes wit to come up with your userid. You are not giving yourself any credit, it seems.

Not really witty. Just poor english.

The userid is unusual because it is an oxymoron - artists are presumed to be creative. This is true in any language, thus having nothing to do with English.

If you really cannot accept even this tiniest compliment that you clearly deserve, you need some sort of in-depth therapy.