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Nov 27, 2006, 08:42 PM
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She won't be quiet. She won't let me be.
I refuse to accept her as part of me...she is damaged, I cannot be damaged. I hate this. I hate me. I hate her! 
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Nov 27, 2006, 10:09 PM
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((((((TS))))) (((((Little)))))
(btw- I love Staind, and feel that line too)
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Nov 28, 2006, 02:43 PM
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(((((((((((((safehugsforTS))))))))))))))))))))))
i am hoping for peace for you. ps. even if you were damaged it wouldnt make you a bad person hon. |
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Nov 29, 2006, 03:18 PM
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Have you thought about sitting down with Little and holding her while she cries... have you tried to tell her its okay and that you know she is hurting?
Maybe all she needs is to be heard and if she is that loud then I think she is determined to be heard... I dunno about things like this.. I am only thinking out loud... You are not damaged.. neither is she... she was hurt... she wants heal...whatever happened wasn't her fault and she can heal from it.. but she might need you to help her. Maybe you need to stop ignoring her and try to accept her... she is little.. .she needs loving... not hating... Maybe? I hope you find peace.... Faith
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Dec 01, 2006, 02:24 PM
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((((((TS)))))
Your little has helped you get this far.... hold her and listen to her. She needs you!
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Dec 02, 2006, 12:11 PM
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faithisalive has good ideas, hope they help
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Dec 09, 2006, 08:13 PM
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((((((((TwistedSoul & Little)))))))))))
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Dec 09, 2006, 09:40 PM
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((((TS & Little))))
I know how you feel. I had pushed my little away for so long that she just kept getting angry. Eventually, when I was in a place to deal, I tried to talk to her. She was huddled in a corner under a shelf and refused to let anyone near. She refused to talk and was very physically threatening. Now, after about 5 months of therapy, she is beginning to come out of that dark place and even plays with another Big at times. It is really hard and really frustrating, just be as patient as you can be. She really needs you to love her right now. Faithisalive is so right on....She has been hurting for a long time and could really use your support. I KNOW how hard that is! You CAN do this. Believe in yourself. You are NOT damaged and neither is she. Here if you need me. (((((gentle hugs)))))
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Dec 09, 2006, 10:49 PM
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Susu, you nor the little are damaged, the a**hole who hurt is damaged
Angie
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