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#101
Jan 11, 2008, 03:58 AM
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(((Blue93)))
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#102
Jan 11, 2008, 05:29 AM
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Blue I say any one touches you in any way GO RUN TELLLLL! please. I got the chills reading your post and I kept thinking, man, this is a short version! it is unreal to me that a parent could do those things and even worse to have your mom basically ignore the entire situation. I have been in chat with you and you are always so sweet and have a real good sense of humor. I am si glad you were smart enough to pursue breaking out of your parents home. You have come this far, dont give up! Sometimes social services is not able to watch out for you like they should. Do not give those (*&^(*&^ a chance. Go to the police. Go to anyone you have to. And I mean anyone! But please dont let them continue on their sick and discuting path. Karma will get them but not quick enough!!!!
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#103
Jan 11, 2008, 05:03 PM
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thx
We're doing what we can.. fosters are working less this week so they can take my brother to school and take him home again. They changed their work schedules and asked friends to help out for the coming weeks. Dr said I can go back to school next week as well. Good thing is our school and my brother's school are pretty close. We will have to try and arrange something like this with the next fosterfamily too, when we move. Let's hope we can stay together... Let's hope nothing happens to him.. Sorry I can't help but worry no matter how often everyone says police will take care of this etc. Blue
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#104
Jan 12, 2008, 09:57 AM
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thanks for letting us know you can still make it here and tell us whats going on blue....
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#105
Jan 22, 2008, 06:42 PM
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We're gonna move coming thursday, we will be staying there for a few weeks tops, they said.
We're gonna stay together, for now though... But i will have to quit the soccerclub I've been playing at for about 6 years though, that really sucks.. We also have to change schools but i dont really mind that. I guess gotta find new soccerclub when we've got a place we can stay for permanent or at least longer then a month or 2 or a few weeks. Well... I guess thats my little update. Blue
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#106
Jan 23, 2008, 10:52 AM
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i'm glad you can be with your brother now blue.... hopefully there's more soccer in your future... one step at a time... i believe in your inspiration and strength to rise above... in time blue... stay as healthy as you can.. it's going to change in your favor.. patience... take special care my special friend...
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#107
Jan 23, 2008, 02:22 PM
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Blue, I too am happy you and your brother will be together. That's great news.
Stay safe. Cyran0
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My blog: http://cyran0.psychcentral.net/ Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Major Depressive Disorder, PTSD (childhood physical/sexual abuse), history of drug abuse. Meds: Zoloft, Lorazapam, Coffee, Cigarettes "I may climb perhaps to no great heights, but I will climb alone." -Cyrano de Bergerac |
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#108
Jan 27, 2008, 05:37 PM
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maybe it is not meant to be
maybe its not meant to stop i dont know anymore feel like giving up :/
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#109
Jan 27, 2008, 06:20 PM
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it hurts
it burns some blood.. again... they had this metal thing.. put it in the fireplace then on my back a warning they said there's no point anymore not really sorry i dont know what to d o anymore nothing helps its not gettingbetterr it happens again and again i guess it wont stop i guess its not meant to stop
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#110
Jan 27, 2008, 06:23 PM
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ican pretend its ok
pretend nothing's happening getting good, better and better at pretending but then mess it up again i cant mess it up again not again/...
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#111
Jan 27, 2008, 06:38 PM
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I never know what to say when I read this thread, but if it's ok by you I'd like to offer these...
 I really hope things get better for you soon, and you don't have to pretend any longer.
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#112
Jan 28, 2008, 01:48 AM
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i screamed
I screamed... they laughed
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#113
Jan 28, 2008, 07:26 PM
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almost like nothing ever changed..
i guess it didnt really change.. not really fosterdad started. there was 2 men who used to come to my parents place too. Fostermom helped i dont know how long i can keep it a secret from my brother this time esp cause he lives here too now at least they havent hurt him.. thats most important.. sigh.
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#114
Jan 29, 2008, 03:19 AM
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Is there anyone you can tell? What makes you think your brother isn't also keeping a secret to spare you from knowing what they do to him? There has to be someone who can keep you safe. Even if it means leaving the country. I wish that I knew how to help you to be safe.
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#115
Jan 29, 2008, 02:24 PM
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he knows what used to happen..
He's already catching on that im not telling him something now so it won't be a secret for much longer They never did this to him.. to keep me quiet.. So i would have a reason to not tell anyone I would have known if they were hurting him. I cant leave the country.. Got no place to stay. Not old enough to do something like that either Blue
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#116
Jan 30, 2008, 12:11 AM
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blue... send onz a pm ... at least get some advice?
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#117
Jan 31, 2008, 01:53 AM
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yeah i dunno
just seems so pointless just wish sometimes they'd really kill me like they say they will :/
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#118
Jan 31, 2008, 05:41 AM
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naw blue, you dont want that... not really... you can get help... give it a try... just talking to someone in a position to help will give you some strength... they are pros, and tho no one is perfect, they are the ones best trained to help.. they have the connections you and i dont know about...
they will at least talk to you, give you support, tell you what your real and immediate options are... you will still have control about whether or not anything happens next... but, now you'll be armed with information and connections out... dont fall into believing that these guys have ultimate control... they dont... you do... and you can get help for what you cant do a lone... it is there if you'll just do it... just a phone call... nothing more... try it blue? sending my cares buddy... |
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#119
Jan 31, 2008, 08:26 AM
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Well- as a ss worker I do know that you should tell ur foster oarent or the worker- not allways helpful I know... but also as an abuse survivor you should tell- you don't want to die u have ur whole life and u do have the utimate control- u just dont see it yet. As u get stronger (emotionally) & physically u will c... but if u want to protect ur brother from the same u must tell someone...
keeping secrets only harvest the power they have over you- u need to regain ur power---
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#120
Jan 31, 2008, 06:58 PM
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ive tried that so many times.. to tell ss....
And it all just started again every time.. And every time they would say it's ok now you're safe now etc etc.. And it never was true there's no point blue
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#121
Feb 01, 2008, 09:36 AM
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you can have some temporary safety blue? while they sort it all out again... and maybe they'll get it right this time... beats the alternative?
26 is right about it.... protecting your brother could backfire too... he needs help too, like you give with your heart, but, physical protection also.... you could steeer it back even tho its fallen off track abit by reporting it again.... these people have to begin to listen! give them another chance blue... over and over if you have to... you cant let this go on my friend.... you have the power to remind them again and again... dont shut up.... sending best wishes |
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#122
Feb 01, 2008, 12:23 PM
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Blue I never know what to say but ((((( Big Hugs ))))) to you and your brother.
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#123
Feb 01, 2008, 04:48 PM
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i dont know
im scared of what they would do.. they made burns on my back last sunday.. said they were giving me an idea of what they would do if i told.. I dont believe they can catch em all anyway,, way to many of them its not gonna happen blue
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#124
Feb 01, 2008, 07:34 PM
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(((((Blue)))))))
I know you are scared, I know that feeling I know you are young, but such strength you have to want to protect your brother, and to be as strong as you are... You need to if you can talk to the police or SS You have the proof, its on your back.... I am so sorry this is happening to you and your brother I understand how it is to want to protect your sibling been there, done that, To protect him the best imho is seek police or ss Keep safe |
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#125
Feb 01, 2008, 07:42 PM
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that never helped.. made things worse it did
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