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#601
Sep 23, 2013, 11:11 AM
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When you can not understand what the hell the crisis was the other day that caused you to feel suicidal and smash your head into the wall because you can not imagine feeling that way again because you do not even remotely feel that way now. You actually feel like you do not have any mental health issues.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors. |
 Atypical_Disaster, Bill3, Zangie.x3
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#602
Sep 23, 2013, 11:12 AM
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Oh yes this has been me alright.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors. |
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#603
Sep 23, 2013, 11:16 AM
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OMG! I thought that was just me.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors. |
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#604
Sep 23, 2013, 09:03 PM
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You see everyone else received a thank you for their reply and not you and think they all hate me.
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"Those who cannot remember the past, are condemned to repeat it." George Santayana d.1952 |
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#605
Sep 23, 2013, 10:59 PM
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“Happiness can be found in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light" |
| cluelessgluten, Zangie.x3
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#607
Nov 29, 2013, 03:50 PM
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I hope it's okay that I dug up this old thread. I always thought it helpful because it allows us to share and see how we are familiar and not so isolated or alone......
You know you are Borderline when you feel like running away from a friendship because you know deep inside that it's just going to end in failure and abandonment anyway....
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| Atypical_Disaster, Aventurine, Bill3, Phreak, Zangie.x3
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#608
Nov 29, 2013, 06:20 PM
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when you feel empty and bored even when there is tons of stuff to do, even when you are engaged in a conversation with somebody, you still feel alone.
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"Much like wind blowing through hollowed cemetery grounds, we all circulate within this void of reality in search of something more profound. Hopes and Dreams fuel our will to live, projecting our desires into the universe and awaiting what it gives. Throughout life's journeys you will encounter Saints as well as the Heartless, but remember, in order to Appreciate the Light, one Must spend time in Darkness." ~ Prozak |
| Maranara, MoxieDoxie
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| Bill3, Maranara, MoxieDoxie, Verity81, Zangie.x3
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#609
Nov 29, 2013, 07:04 PM
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I feel invisible, and if not invisible, tolerated. When I leave the room, I think they roll their eyes and shrug their shoulders. Now I feel so guilty for such self indulgent thinking! This sucks big ones.
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"I've lived through some terrible things in my life, some of which actually happened". - Mark Twain. |
| Bill3
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#610
Nov 29, 2013, 07:10 PM
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| Aventurine, Bill3, ready2makenice
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#611
Nov 29, 2013, 09:51 PM
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Mags Depression diagnosed March 1996 PTSD diagnosed January 2000 BPD diagnosed September 2013 |
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#612
Nov 30, 2013, 11:30 AM
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When you unexpectantly make a new friend and feel both pleased and totally wary "what does he want....he's trying to deceive/hurt me" at the same time.
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Maranara |
| Bill3, FooZe, hawaii04, Morgansangel, Phreak, ready2makenice, River11, technigal, Zangie.x3
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#614
Nov 30, 2013, 08:15 PM
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When you go into self destruct mode and bring everyone down with you.
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| Bill3, hawaii04, ready2makenice, technigal, VxVx, Zangie.x3
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#615
Nov 30, 2013, 08:43 PM
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when you take on the emotions of all those around you and life is best described as a roller coaster of moods.
when you are everybody and everything at one time or another
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"Much like wind blowing through hollowed cemetery grounds, we all circulate within this void of reality in search of something more profound. Hopes and Dreams fuel our will to live, projecting our desires into the universe and awaiting what it gives. Throughout life's journeys you will encounter Saints as well as the Heartless, but remember, in order to Appreciate the Light, one Must spend time in Darkness." ~ Prozak |
| Morgansangel
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| Bill3, Morgansangel, technigal, Zangie.x3
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#616
Nov 30, 2013, 10:21 PM
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When you go out and think everyone is staring at you.
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Mags Depression diagnosed March 1996 PTSD diagnosed January 2000 BPD diagnosed September 2013 |
| Morgansangel
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| Bill3, Morgansangel, tranquility84, Verity81, viking83, Zangie.x3
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#617
Dec 01, 2013, 11:55 AM
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When you know you have people who care about you and have gathered around you a number of friends, something you've never really had before, but you still feel so completely alone most of the time.
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Maranara |
| Bill3, FooZe
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| Morgansangel, technigal, Zangie.x3
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#618
Dec 03, 2013, 06:06 PM
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When you allow others to rule your life, make you feel endlessly guilty about everything, and you feel like a bother and pain to everyone even though they tell to countless times you're not.
I'm working it, I am, but it's really hard.
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Maranara |
| Bill3, hawaii04
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| hawaii04, technigal, Zangie.x3
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#619
Dec 03, 2013, 06:51 PM
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When your friends say, "No matter what time of day or night, call me" and, "No, you're not too much, just call, I'll be there no-matter-what!!!" Then a few months later, they tell you you're too much and dump you.
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JustForNow! Hope for better days ahead. Student: I'm reaching for the light, please help me. Teacher: Forget about the light. Give me the reaching. Zen Koan |
| Bill3, Phreak, River11
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#620
Dec 06, 2013, 08:34 PM
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You constantly bite your tongue and say nothing for fear of hurting someones feelings for months, and the instant you do say something, you do the thing you feared all along and know for certain that it's the end and that the damage will never be repaired.
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Maranara Last edited by Maranara; Dec 06, 2013 at 10:54 PM. |
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#621
Dec 06, 2013, 09:26 PM
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When you go to extreme lengths to receive any sort of validation.
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 Am I the only one I know, waging my wars behind my face and above my throat? Diagnosed: BPD PTSD |
| Disturbed0114
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| Atypical_Disaster, Aventurine, Bill3, Happy Camper, hawaii04, technigal
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#622
Dec 07, 2013, 10:39 AM
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You constantly bite your tongue and say nothing for fear of hurting someones feelings and in turn being hurt for months, and the instant you do say something, you do the thing you feared all along and know for certain that it's the end and that the damage will never be repaired.
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Maranara |
| Aphrodites_Muse, Aventurine, Bill3, technigal, Truth in Ruin
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#624
Dec 08, 2013, 12:38 PM
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When something really good is happening in your life, you can't cherish and enjoy it because your mind is busy trying to convince you it's something other than good and all you want to do is run away from it all.
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| hawaii04, Maranara, technigal, tranquility84, Truth in Ruin, Zangie.x3
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#625
Dec 08, 2013, 08:18 PM
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when you tell people you don't want to go, so they go without you, and you break down because they left you.
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| Disturbed0114, Phreak, simplydivine1030
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| Aphrodites_Muse, Bill3, Disturbed0114, hawaii04, Phreak, simplydivine1030, technigal, Zangie.x3
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