can't handle it

Can't handle life. why is it soo hard? why can't i survive? why can't i just be happy? we are all born to die - why? so many why's... so few answers... can't get myself to enjoy anything. feel SO alone, will never find love....

Sorry ouch, I have no answers as I'm in the same boat. But am thinking of you.

((((((((((((ouch)))))))))))) and (((((((((((always)))))))))) hope you both find some peace in life...I need it too...lol

No answers to that one...but here a smily face anyway

(((ouch))) I'm sorry that you are feeling so overwhemed and confused ... trust me when i say i know those feelings all too well too. Just know that you are not alone, and that you CAN handle it ... no matter how much life sucks at times, you are strong and you can get through this.
As for the being happy part though ... i really can't help you there, but just try and do things for you. Try not to let what other people think influence what YOU do. Read a book, go for a walk, listen to your favourite music, anything that makes you feel even slightly more uplifted... it just might help to take the edge off a little bit, and make things more bearable.
Keep your head up, and believe that you are a good person, and are not even completely alone - not on here anyways.
Jacq

Hello my name is Soidhonia. I am going to leave you the numbers for two hotlines 1-800-273-TALK and 1-800-DONT-CUT. If you need to talk to someone in person call these hotline numbers to talk to a person that may can help you. I am also going to leave you my email address in case you email neohiodbsa@yahoo.com. All information that goes to this email is confidential, you may want to think about talking oto a counselor as well, to help you during the rough time that you are having right no. You do not have to feel this bad, and there is help for you if you get counseling, and the right therapy. Take care Soidhonia

My heart goes out to you Ouch! It does get better but sometimes we have to be patient in life. I'm sure that when you least expect it something positive will happen. Our life on earth is important and you are important and someone out there needs you but you just don't know it yet. That goes for you too Always. Already you are helping other people by being here for them. I wish you all the best.

Thank you for all of your support... just feel sooo lost. it's as if i can't get anything to work out. just feel like i'll never get it together emotionally. can't motivate myself to do anything... can't sleep, not hungry, came home and went to bed... just got up. disoriented. tried to get into a dep group, but the facilitator seems to think i'm too acute to put me in a group- he seems to not feel i'm ready. just soooo lost....

Hello I hope things are going well with you at this time. You may need to try to get professional help since you are not having the life that you enjoy due to the depression. Depression can be debilitating if not treated, and cause more depression, and hopelessness. I really hope you get the treatment that you need and deserve you are not alone in having depression, you just need to make the right steps to feel better unfortunately for some of us that is professional help through therapy and medication. Take care I hope the best for you. I am going to leava you a crisis hotline number to call if you would like to call someone to talk to in person. -1-800-273 Talk. I aill also leave you my email address in case you need help finding a therapist in your area or would liket to emaul Take care Sincerely Soidhonia

it will get better ! trust me survive throught this and all will be well. I ve been there very recentley and what i ve learned is that life can flip and become beautiful agian, have faith and you will be fine, much love

Ouch, so sorry you are having these desperate feelings of emptiness. I know where you are coming from. I hope you can find something or someone that can help you and lift you up out of this dark hole.

Sending you lot's of "hugs"!!
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Linda