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#26
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Its been another **** day. I simply do not want to do this anymore. What the hell is the point when you can hardly function. I am supposed to interact with family I see once a year. On this crappy day. I dont think I can do it. Yet what it is the alternative? To sit alone doing what?
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#27
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Having to buy presents for or even spending Xmas with people that have mistreated you in that way is not good at all. It is traumatizing. I would not do it, unless it is more dangerous for you to stay alone. If you can, go to some place, perhaps there are people that need companion or help today. Once, when I was in the US, I brought food for the metro station agent and spent some time with her, she appreciated a lot. Hope you can recover soon. I am sending you a big hug
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I don't want to get them presents but I feel like if they get me somethjng and k don't get them something it will be weird. And I'm going to just spend time with them on xmas. I don't drive so have no where else tk go. Going to see some family I haven't seen I along time maybe they have changed. But j higley dought it. For some reason they look down on me. My mom is giving me money tk buy presents right. Well she won't even trust me with the money she has to take me to get stuff. She won't just give it to me so I can get it myself. Or she won't let me even look at her bank cards. My dad is the same way. Now that sounds real trusting doesn't it?
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Hi Xander,
It is not very encouraging at all! I am not a good adviser but I am thinking that I have been trapped in situations I could not escape like you right now. In my case, I made an effort to think that that thing was just temporary and that I needed to swallow it like a pill you don't like. At the same time, imagining how I was going to get out of the situation in the future helped me to pass that moment. I do not know if this is useful, but I am sharing my experience just in case. I will spend these holidays in bed at the hospital, not very encouraging, either. But I will be sending my best wishes for you and all here at PC
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I just want to give you a hug and slap myself on the face to remind me that I should be happy with my family even tough they treat me like I'm 12 all the time, they are there and they care and I'm a ***** for not always appreciating that
I will be alone at new-years eve and that feels very lonely too, only the animals to wish a happy new year so yes, I can relate to how it feels when you are alone in these time of the year |
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Hugs. I have a love hate relationship with it. I love to decorate and wrap gifts but I hate every other aspect. It's another day. This is the first year I'm planning to not see my family.
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Who are you planing on spending it with then?
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#34
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Christmas just about put me over the edge this year. Major depression and so many losses if I wrote a book it would be too unbelievable. On New Years eve write me and we'll ring it in together. I haven't figured out the msg on this site yet and hope I can get back in again. I signed up to work the holidays because they are hell since mom died, divorcing, kids cruel and ignore me. Still I tried hard to hide the tears and am a miserable sad sack at work, trying so hard to be positive on the outside when my story is tragic and people don't know what to say to me. Listening to others talk about their merry plans when I am all alone. I am isolating and having trouble getting out of bed. Making it worse buts I am unable to fight it now, it has overcome me. No gifts from anyone this year except my husband filed another harassing divorce motion. I am being a negative, sad sack, a few small gifts from colleagues, but my family is shattered. I am terrified of being old and alone.
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Well it's too late for this year but anyone that doesn't want to be alone on Christmas should go to a nursing home for the day. There are always people there who would kill for a visitor on christmas or any day for that fact.
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New years is even worse for me. Most people appear to be out enjoying themselves and having fun. I have nobody. Literally nobody. What does one do? Watch tv? My life is slipping by. The only thing left is that my meds might actually work and I can try to get some enjoyment out of what remains of my life. I called the acute mental health team here today as it was a very severe day. They will get back to me in two days. Acute? .... yeah
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Whats so good about Christmas or New Years for that matter?It signals another year of misery approaching. My family insist i come to join them for Christmas.But why? I feel 10 times worse after i go than before i went.I've tried tp explain it to them.But no one can understand it. I go and everyone is laughing abd having a wonderful time it seems...but i just sit in a corner and watch the happy beautiful people that have never suffered a traumatic injury or seen the things i have. Sometimes i wonder why i stay alive?
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#39
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i am extremely relieved that christmas is over. i too hate it. it's a nightmare for depressives.
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#40
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YES!! me, too. It's like I was holding my breath until it was over. I'm holding my breath until january 2nd, too.
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