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#326
Nov 16, 2018, 05:00 AM
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One of my abuser's has died. I did my grieving some years ago when I faced their loss.
Now family members have decided that this is my loss and can't understand why I can only feel upset that they are upset and in pain. |
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#327
Nov 16, 2018, 05:52 AM
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love for you thirty shades... love for everyone here... Last edited by little turtle; Nov 16, 2018 at 08:03 AM. |
| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, katydid777, Rohag, Thirty shades
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| Fuzzybear, Thirty shades
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#328
Nov 16, 2018, 08:47 AM
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#329
Nov 16, 2018, 09:29 AM
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"when someone really hears you without passing judgment on you,
without trying to take responsibility for you, without trying to mold you, it feels damn good" the American psychologist carl rogers said that....he was the head of the humanistic approach...he died in 1987.... I really like that guy..i love that saying |
| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, katydid777, Rohag, Thirty shades
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#330
Nov 16, 2018, 11:37 AM
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| Anonymous44144, katydid777, little turtle, Thirty shades
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#331
Nov 16, 2018, 02:39 PM
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Grrrrrrrrrrrr
 at all the sadness in this world Hugs and love to little turtle, Rohag, Thirty shades, Desiree and all the drivers of this bus...
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| Anonymous44144, katydid777, little turtle, Rohag, Thirty shades
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#332
Nov 16, 2018, 06:28 PM
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Thank you Fuzzy. For being there with all your love and hugs.
Much love to you and everyone on the As IS bus.
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| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, katydid777, little turtle, Rohag
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#333
Nov 17, 2018, 05:22 AM
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Today, I want to offer thanks for good friends and the good people in the world.
A friend can help you so very much, if you reach out. There are many of us on this site and on the bus. Thank you everyone.
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| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, katydid777, little turtle, Rohag
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#335
Nov 17, 2018, 10:05 AM
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#336
Nov 17, 2018, 10:06 AM
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a major meltdown this week for me....relationship problems...
with 4 different people...the biggest problem was confessing to my wife... I am sorry that I caused my wife and kids so much trouble... I learned bad habits from my parents...I made a big mistake marrying anyone....I made a big mistake having kids....now after 64 years of marriage I am finally figuring things out...I don't have much time left... I did not hurt my family on purpose...it just happened because I was just who I am....I just should survive on having good friends... marriage and kids was a big mistake for me and them... I don't hurt people on purpose...I am a kind person but ffffffup.. I am kind and sensitive...I am still kind of a child...that's the way I was raised.. I am a wounded animal..and now I feel better knowing why why why...more at peace with reality...the real world...not a chemical imbalance... |
| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, katydid777, Rohag, Thirty shades
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#338
Nov 17, 2018, 01:16 PM
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psychiatry is big business and I hate that...
psychiatry should be about helping people to be not so sad...maybe even happy...whatever that is about.. I am for a profession...not $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ |
| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, katydid777, Rohag, Thirty shades
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#339
Nov 17, 2018, 01:36 PM
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I wanted a friend...not a wife and kids....so 64 years of marriage and I am stuck...
welcome to reality little turtle.. |
| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, katydid777, Rohag, Thirty shades
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#340
Nov 17, 2018, 02:23 PM
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 “Reality” - grrrrrrrrrrrrr
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Last edited by Fuzzybear; Nov 17, 2018 at 03:27 PM. |
| Anonymous44144, katydid777, little turtle, Rohag, Thirty shades
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| little turtle
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#341
Nov 17, 2018, 02:29 PM
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I don't know ether, but something where I will be happy???
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| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, little turtle, Rohag, Thirty shades
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| little turtle
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#343
Nov 19, 2018, 01:52 PM
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Nice to see you here Fuzzy
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| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, katydid777, little turtle
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#347
Nov 20, 2018, 05:00 AM
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How does anyone describe the pain we feel?
Love to you Fuzzy and everyone on the AS IS bus
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#348
Nov 20, 2018, 08:08 AM
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love to you all on the AS IS bus...
I am taking a look at myself...know thyself thing.. I am 87 years old...I am a survivor... I have a mental illness---mood disorder of some kind.. I am not very strong....I am very sensitive...I am not very brave... I am fearful about life...I have a very strong BULLSHI- detector... I am not happy...I am sad...I am kind...I care about other persons... I have survived 64 years of marriage to a very strong woman... and I like my valium and coffee and alcohol... so I am now here on the AS IS BUS...and I am trying not to fix anything.. I just want to enjoy life a little more until I die...and I don't believe in heaven...and I am lonely since my good friend died and another friend left town...more confessions coming later.. |
| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, katydid777, Rohag, Thirty shades
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#349
Nov 20, 2018, 11:28 AM
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My sympathies to you Little Turtle for your loss.
I see you as strong for surviving and carrying on whilst dealing MI. Your wisdom and experience counts a lot. Thank you for making this thread where we can all share and care.
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#350
Nov 20, 2018, 03:01 PM
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Thank you for your honest sharing little turtle.. and for not putting others down
 I’m sorry for your losses I wish I was 87 Thank you for your Gift of sensitivity Love to all here on the AS IS bus Why some people apparently thrive on judging others and putting others down is beyond me  (Not anyone here) Quote:
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| Anonymous44144, katydid777, little turtle, Rohag, Thirty shades
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