is there such a place

need a place for a couple days where no one will talk unless talked to. where no one will ask can we do something. where safe. no hospital. some place for relief. so tired. is there such a place. we need to know.

((( wanttoheal )))

Are you okay? I do have a suggestion but I can't tell if now is a good time to tell you.

Worried about you,
LMo

((((((((((((((((( wantto )))))))))))))))))) what's going on? i'm sorry you're feeling so bombarded.

when things get like that a couple of times we've gone to a hotel room. i wouldn't do this unless i felt the body was safe. i would give t and good friend the number, etc. this has worked great. i got everything i needed before i went in for the nite.

i really don't like the thoughts of you being alone, though, not right now anyhow. can you camp out at your friend's house for a nite and tell the kids you'll be unavailable? have friend screen calls for you? i think that would be a better idea right now.

can you tell me what's going on?

love,

kd

just too much. everyone want something every time. then they get mad. and say we dont care and we dont understand. we trying to understand and we do care. but we tired. and we need to rest to and no one cares bout that. we tired to.

((((((((((((((wantto)))))))))))))))))

Remember I care about you. I love seeing you in chat

Take care,
Leslie

Wantto... how about taking a long nap? You sound exhausted. Maybe curl up with your dog -- cuddling is very soothing, and dogs don't judge

Thinking of you...
LMo

This won't work immediately, but what about going to the library? Pick out a book or magazine and just relax.

I've sat for hours just reading. No one has ever bothered me.

((((Wantto))))

Staying at a friends is a good idea. Stay safe. You can pm if it helps.

My first thought was a motel room too. Nobody will know you, you won't know them. If you put a Do not disturb sign up, nobody can come in.
I hope you find the peace you are looking for. I know what it's like to just want to get away to a safe place. Too bad we all didn't have a house we all could go to where just us could go to it.
Big hugs to you.
Love,
RhysMadison

((((((((((((LMo))))))))))))) ((((((((((((Kimmy))))))))))))) ((((((((((((Leslie))))))))))))) ((((((((((((1Day))))))))))))) ((((((((((((Place))))))))))))) ((((((((((((Rhys)))))))))))))

Thank you all for your support. I appreciate you being here when needed. Thank you for caring. Thank you.
Wantto

(((Wanttoheal))) Safe hugs if wanted.

Are you feeling some better? I hope that you are.

Were you able to get to a quiet safe place?

OK I will quit asking questions. Just wanted to let you know the support is still here.

take care.

place

(((((((((((((Place)))))))))))))
Thank you so much. No one cares here. It's all whining. When will I get it? I know my place. Just need to shut up and stop whining. No one likes hanging around a whiner. Even me.

Thank you for your support.

(((((((((((((((wantto))))))))))))))) I don't think you're whining. There's nothing wrong with wanting a quiet place to go for peace and for a rest.

(((((((((((((Silver)))))))))))))) thanks, you are sweet

(((Wanttoheal))))

You are not whining. It is OK to ask for what you need. In fact I hope you can take some time and go to this place before you "really" need to. Do you know what I mean? That makes it so much easier.

When you say no one cares "here" I hope you are not talking about here at this forum because we really do care. Those with you probably don't understand. Most people don't. That is why you have to determine what your needs are and take your time and space that you need.

You are worth it Wanttoheal. I hope I am making sense here. The brain is marginal today.

If you need somebody to talk to please feel free to pm.

Take care of you.

place

Can I just 'ditto' what place has said? my brain is non caffeinated and below marginal today! Take care hon and place is correct here ya know!
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You are not whining. It is OK to ask for what you need. In fact I hope you can take some time and go to this place before you "really" need to. Do you know what I mean? That makes it so much easier.

When you say no one cares "here" I hope you are not talking about here at this forum because we really do care. Those with you probably don't understand. Most people don't. That is why you have to determine what your needs are and take your time and space that you need.

You are worth it Wanttoheal. I hope I am making sense here. The brain is marginal today.</font>

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Thank you Place and zh.

It's not anyone here. I'm sorry it sounded like that.

It's home. No one cares here. It's all about what they can get, their needs. But I am done whining about it. It is where I am supposed to be. It's who I am. I know now what my place is. I am just so tired of it all. Tired of . . . bleh.

Anyway, thank you all so much. I appreciate you all.

Sweetie you aren't whining. You need to express what is going on and you're doing that.

It sounds like home isn't a space where your needs get met. That doesn't sound right to me!

Even if you are 'supposed' to be there you still have the right to have your needs met just the same as they do.

Let us know if we can help be a cheering support team for change to help improve the home situation.

Wishing rest for you. Safe rest for your tired soul. (((wantto)))

(((((((((((((((Wantto))))))))))))))))

I'm really sorry things are so hard for you recently. Is the exercise helping you any?

((((((((((((((((WantToHeal))))))))))))))))))))))))))

I concurr w/ ZH; Babe, you are NOT whining!! For almost a month now you've been going sheer hell mentally..of course your self-esteem is going to take the next train to London, (if ya know what I mean?)

There are 2 "homes" where you can get what you need the most; peace, loving warmth & rest for your exhausted psyche;

#1: RIGHT HERE!! Want to.......keep posting --- here & where you are physically right now, WRITE IT OUT...in words, color scribbles, drawings (even if you can only draw stickman!)
YOU KNOW you've always got US!! (and w/ DID...that's alot of us!!!)

#2)PM me! I am open 24/7.......I don't judge/lie/play games/but I have many ears and a deep soul(oh what an ego!)

Really.........Peace to you, Want to........

(((((((((((((((((((( DAYZEE))))))))))))))))))))

Thanks zh. There is no solution right now. No way to change the current situation. But thank you for the cheering team. I want to post more but I get nervous someone will recognize me.... just stupid paranoia.... and I feel like I whine enough in my head. I don't need to do it here as well.

Thank you so much for your support.

(((((((((((((((((((((silver)))))))))))))))) Thank you.
The exercise is helping me to stay alive for sure. Something I can focus on and obsess over. Whatever works at the moment, eh?

Thank you (((((((((((((((((((Dayzee)))))))))))))

Your icon usage always makes me smile. Thank you for being here. I do write in my journal and give it to t every week.

Just feel like....... eh. I don't even know. Bad brain. Just tired.

Thank you though, I appreciate your support. And I thank all of you for your support on here. You are right, this is a home away from home for sure.

((((((((Wanttoo))))))))))

I know what it feels like to want to just be left alone. I have three children. When they get to arguing and carrying on it's often too much to take. After a long day at work the last thing I want to do is here *****ing and complaining. Some of the methods I use for relaxation are a nice long bubble bath. I turn the lights out and light the candles and just relax. No thoughts just me and the bubbles. This is very relaxing for me.
I also will go out in my back yard and sit on the love seat and stare at the flowers and at the sky. I love the shy. At night it is so clear and beautiful and so endless. Like possibilities in life. Just goes on and on and on. The stars are so bright. It really gets your mind off of things and very serene. But you have to remember, be alone when doing this. No distractions. Make a cup of hot tea and enjoy the wonderful world we live in. Sometimes, I think we all lose track of the natural beauty in life. Take time out and enjoy it.
Ok now im rambling. Take care sweety. Im thinking of you.

wow, jen! your two excapes are mine...baths (sometimes 2 hrs) and going out to back yard...alone of course.

that's cool, huh? they're my two getaways at home. very necessary.

kd