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Old Oct 29, 2008, 08:49 PM
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Hi. I have just started using EMDR for my complex PTSD issues.

I was just wondering if there was anyone else out there using this form of therapy. And if they would mind sharing their thoughts and feelings.

I have been at it for just over a week. Sometimes after my sessions I feel better. Other times I have to go home and take extra medications to feel better. Then I end up falling asleep and trigger throughout the night.

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Old Oct 29, 2008, 11:20 PM
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I have used it in the past and while I did feel bad after some of my T session I have to say that most of trials with this form of T was good.... I even learned how to use it home by my self after my T felt I was ready.
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Old Oct 30, 2008, 03:15 PM
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That's encouraging, Rhapsody.

How were you able to do it at home by yourself? I have learned how to go to my "safe" place at home on my own. But that is about it.

Are you still participating in EMDR?
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Old Nov 06, 2008, 06:49 PM
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I thought I would give an update on my EMDR.

Seems thing to be going very well. My T is very impressed with how I am doing. My boyfriend says that things are better at home. He can joke around with me and I'm not so over sensitive.

My big news - I have finally actually come to the realization and belief that I am NOT to blame for my parents issues. And that it is NOT my fault.

This is huge for me. I have always blamed myself for everything. And I am finally beginning to realize this is not the case. My parents are to blame. They are bad parents (I have a better word for it, however it is not allowed). I have also decided that my parents need to be kicked to the curb, slapped up side the head, and kicked in the shin repeatedly!

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Old Nov 17, 2008, 11:39 PM
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I am glad things are going well for you - I had EMDR once and it worked to get rid of some unattached emotions.

I lkie the thing about kicking them to the curb! is there room there for my dad and brother !

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Old Nov 18, 2008, 06:23 PM
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Old Nov 18, 2008, 08:39 PM
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Of course there is! Any abusers can be kicked to the curb!

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I lkie the thing about kicking them to the curb! is there room there for my dad and brother !

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I am having a very difficult time lately in EMDR. Of course anything with my dad & brother is a difficult issue! I so need a smilie that shows a little dude kicking someone.
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Old Nov 19, 2008, 07:30 PM
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In my latest session, I had such a panic attack. I have to idea where it came from.

I was so completely terrified . I could hardly breathe. The T had to keep telling me to breathe. I am having a hard time with that. I couldn't continue I was so terrified.

Well that is my update. Hope everyone is doing well!
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Old Nov 19, 2008, 09:20 PM
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In my latest session, I had such a panic attack. I have to idea where it came from.

I was so completely terrified . I could hardly breathe. The T had to keep telling me to breathe. I am having a hard time with that. I couldn't continue I was so terrified!
I am sorry that you are having these reactions - when I had EMDR I got to a place where i felt it was too dangerous to go and i told the therapist and she let me deal with it at another time - i would hold my hand up if i needed to stop - do you have a stop signal? I know we have to somtmes push our boundaries but i believe you should only go as far and as fast as you feel comfortable with - I hope things improve for you soon P7
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Old Nov 19, 2008, 10:37 PM
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I have PTSD, but I am not receiving any specific therapy for it. This therapy sounds interesting and I am going to conduct some research on it. Good luck. I hope it works for you.
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Old Nov 20, 2008, 02:10 PM
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I so need a smilie that shows a little dude kicking someone.
Here you go: EMDR participants

I've only done one session of EMDR but will be doing more to fight my PTSD about driving in bad weather. I'm interested to see if it will work for me.
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Old Nov 20, 2008, 09:33 PM
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Thank you for the kicking dudes! Thanks to all who come here to support me. I really appreciate it.
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Old Dec 10, 2008, 07:27 PM
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So here is a new update for you. December is a hard month for me. Actually the holidays are what is hard for me.

My therapy sessions for the first 2 weeks of December left me in panic attacks. Last weekend I had to go into the therapist b/c my anxiety was so bad! I woke up with the anxiety, it was horrible.

So we are now doing a new med change and trying therapy a bit slower than before.

However, I am working on developing a likeness for the holidays. I am doing so by building new traditions with "my" family!

Hope everyone is enjoying the holiday season.
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Old Dec 11, 2008, 01:32 AM
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I am working on developing a likeness for the holidays. I am doing so by building new traditions with "my" family!
what a great idea!

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Thank you for sharing about your experiences with EMDR. I did a couple sessions with my therapist, but had to stop because of some instability caused by my biploar disorder (I have complex PTSD as well). As soon as I'm stable again I will go back to it. I'm glad you shared because I also had stuff come up during & after sessions that I didn't anticipate dealing with. Good for you. You sound like you're getting thru it. I guess it just takes time.
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Old Dec 12, 2008, 10:06 PM
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Thank you for sharing about your experiences with EMDR. I did a couple sessions with my therapist, but had to stop because of some instability caused by my biploar disorder (I have complex PTSD as well). As soon as I'm stable again I will go back to it. I'm glad you shared because I also had stuff come up during & after sessions that I didn't anticipate dealing with. Good for you. You sound like you're getting thru it. I guess it just takes time.
I hope that you stabilize soon. I know what it feels like to be unstable. Get better and good luck.

Happy Holidays.
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Old Dec 13, 2008, 12:53 AM
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I am doing EMDR. Only had 2 sessions & for me it is strange in that I know I am talking--the sessions last about 2 hrs. but I feel like I have been in a trance or something (I do do the dissosiation thing due to childhood trauma) & I don't hardly remember it & I'm exhausted & come home & sleep & sleep & feel like I will never be able to wake up--which is strange & scary as I have major insomnia--sleeping usually 2-3 hrs. a night (despite taking several sedating meds) & actually HATE to sleep.--Suzy
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Oh, I guess I should also mention I have bipolar 1 disorder as well so that has the added attractions of suicide attempts & irrational behaviors due to mood swings. Doing DBT with the same therapist who is doing the EMDR.--Suzy
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Old Dec 14, 2008, 03:54 PM
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Keep up the good work, Suz. I applaud you in all that you are going through.

Merry Christmas. And have a good holiday season.
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Old Dec 16, 2008, 07:45 AM
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Hi, I am doing EMDR treatments also, regularly for the past 2 years. I also get so tired afterwords and need to take nap and sometimes this tiredness lasts for a couple of days. IT can also stir up flashbacks too, and that is so hard. But I am healing, I am doing much better, and am hopful for a better life. Keep up the good work everyone!
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Old Dec 16, 2008, 04:07 PM
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I saw my T yesterday and asked if i can have emdr again - ive only had it once and it helped but i got a migraine after - dont know if it was related or just bad timing - i get headaches when im stressed anyway - and she said yes! so in about 2 weeks time i will be able to give it another go - if it can make the sadness go away its worth the migraine! P7
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Old Dec 22, 2008, 01:25 PM
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I saw my T yesterday and asked if i can have emdr again - ive only had it once and it helped but i got a migraine after - dont know if it was related or just bad timing - i get headaches when im stressed anyway - and she said yes! so in about 2 weeks time i will be able to give it another go - if it can make the sadness go away its worth the migraine! P7

Good for you P7. I hope that you don't get migraines from it.

I am still struggling a bit. I am trying to go back to work full-time and that is bringing a lot of stress. The holidays also stress me out.

I wish all of you the best in your treatments. Have a very Merry Christmas.
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Old Dec 22, 2008, 02:25 PM
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I've had EMDR off and on for years. For a period we were doing it really intensely like every week, now it's more sporadic, mostly when we're doing ego state integration work. I really like it and find it to be incredibly helpful, although it still kind of freaks me out a little.

I find it incredibly intense and always have a really strong physical reaction to - with muscle spasms, and some twitching when we're doing it, but I usually find myself really high energy for a day or so after doing it.

There's different types of bilateral stimulation that can be used in EMDR. It doesn't have to be completely visual - it seems to be the bilateral stimulation that's important. When I do it with my T, she has these little electric pod shaped things that I hold in either hand and the alternate vibrations. We switched to that after I had a problem following light moving across a bar. I'm very sensitive to visual stimulation, and that just made me throw up. Haven't had any problems with it since we started using the hand held things.

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Old Dec 22, 2008, 02:41 PM
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Keep up the good work, splitimage.

My therapist does the tapping on the hands. Her moving her fingers in front of my eyes almost made me throw up.

I'm a bit anxious about today's session. But I've been anxious since Thursday, so it probably has nothing to do with the session. And all about my anxiety being off the wall.
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Old Dec 23, 2008, 05:44 PM
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had emdr yesterday - left me exhauseted and sad - just tired today - stopped part way through because ... well it got too difficult and i panicked - but overall i think it helped.

When we went to work on one thing i tensed even harder and couldnt do it instead of getting to let it go - has anyone had this happen?
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