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Old Jul 25, 2018, 08:57 PM
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Uhhh...weird. THat would throw me. What did you guys discuss in your last session?
The only thing that comes to mind recently was on Saturday when we met, I admitted that sometimes I wish he was my friend and quickly added that I know he isn't. His response was that was totally normal and he can't be a friend. I wish I hadn't said this out loud to him even though it's the truth.
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Old Jul 25, 2018, 09:05 PM
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My therapist printed out this article and asked me to read it before we meet next.

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What is he trying to tell me with this? It feels like this is more of the "I can only do so much" talk that's he's been giving me over the last two weeks. I was mostly at peace with my feelings of neediness, but I'm starting to feel ashamed of them.
I am not persuaded that childhood needs can never be met in adulthood. I believe this to be a self-serving therapist dogma. After all, how can we know it won't work if the therapist never even tries?
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Old Jul 25, 2018, 09:11 PM
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most of my smilies aren't working boo
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Old Jul 25, 2018, 09:13 PM
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Any doctor will admit that medicine still has a lot to learn and that old theories are still being disproved. And bodily medicine has much stronger scientific basis than psychotherapy!
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Old Jul 25, 2018, 09:17 PM
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If the central message of therapy is "get used to disappointment," it's not surprising that a lot of patients feel cheated. Grrrrr!
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Old Jul 25, 2018, 09:29 PM
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most of my smilies aren't working boo

There have been a lot of emoji problems today.

I suspect that nefarious emoji-hater, stopdog.
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Old Jul 25, 2018, 09:34 PM
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There have been a lot of emoji problems today.

I suspect that nefarious emoji-hater, stopdog.

I suspect the same! heh
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Old Jul 25, 2018, 09:35 PM
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well i'm going to go watch tv with hubby and try to stop obsessing over whether or not t is gonna yell at me tomorrow. i'm all paranoid now that she's gonna be completely different.
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Old Jul 25, 2018, 09:48 PM
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well i'm going to go watch tv with hubby and try to stop obsessing over whether or not t is gonna yell at me tomorrow. i'm all paranoid now that she's gonna be completely different.
Ts don't usually yell, I'm sure it'll be fine. Enjoy tv.
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Old Jul 25, 2018, 09:48 PM
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There have been a lot of emoji problems today.

I suspect that nefarious emoji-hater, stopdog.
Ha! If you guys would get your noses out of your navels (uh, what yoga pose is that again? ), you would see that we have been experiencing all kindsa technical problems in the very recent past and present and possibly future.

And aint none of it SD's doings.
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Old Jul 25, 2018, 09:51 PM
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Ha! If you guys would get your noses out of your navels (uh, what yoga pose is that again? :P ), you would see that we have been experiencing all kindsa technical problems in the very recent past and present and possibly future.

And aint none of it SD's doings.
I'm not pointing fingers but I haven't had any technical problems. Let's see, smiley emoticon test, let's see if it works.

Edit- It shows up fine for me.
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Old Jul 25, 2018, 09:53 PM
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I'm not pointing fingers but I haven't had any technical problems. Let's see, smiley emoticon test, let's see if it works. Couch 172: Couch me if you can


Edit- It shows up fine for me.

Yeah, Una, maybe you’re just paying for your sins... Couch 172: Couch me if you can

(I have noticed icon and folder issues.)
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Old Jul 25, 2018, 09:53 PM
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Yeah, Una, maybe you’re just paying for your sins...
Me too apparently
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Old Jul 25, 2018, 09:54 PM
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I'm not pointing fingers but I haven't had any technical problems. Let's see, smiley emoticon test, let's see if it works.

Edit- It shows up fine for me.
Hmm. Not on the phones. I only see it now when i quote your reply.
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Old Jul 25, 2018, 09:54 PM
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Yeah, Una, maybe you’re just paying for your sins... Couch 172: Couch me if you can

(I have noticed icon and folder issues.)
Im bankrupt!
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Old Jul 25, 2018, 09:56 PM
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And how do we know stopdog isn’t an evil tech genius, anyway?

I mean, lack of emotion...love of Apple products...highly analytical mind...it all adds up.
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Old Jul 25, 2018, 10:00 PM
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And how do we know stopdog isn’t an evil tech genius, anyway?

I mean, lack of emotion...love of Apple products...highly analytical mind...it all adds up.
I just assumed it was russian hackers. Not that anatoly said anything
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Old Jul 25, 2018, 10:01 PM
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The only thing that comes to mind recently was on Saturday when we met, I admitted that sometimes I wish he was my friend and quickly added that I know he isn't. His response was that was totally normal and he can't be a friend. I wish I hadn't said this out loud to him even though it's the truth.
Weird. That is SO mild...I would just try (yeah right, i know) not to freak out too much, and see what your T thinks about why he had you read that.
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well i'm going to go watch tv with hubby and try to stop obsessing over whether or not t is gonna yell at me tomorrow. i'm all paranoid now that she's gonna be completely different.
She won't. I am 1,000% positive that she will only welcome you with open arms.
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Old Jul 25, 2018, 10:03 PM
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I just assumed it was russian hackers. Not that anatoly said anything

So you have changed to the new ambassador!

Is he really a “plenipotentiary”?
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Old Jul 25, 2018, 10:24 PM
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Weird. That is SO mild...I would just try (yeah right, i know) not to freak out too much, and see what your T thinks about why he had you read that.
He wants my thoughts on it, but I'm going to ask him first why he wanted me to read it. We'll see if he gets all squirelly when I ask him. I'm sure it's fine, I'm just sensitive right now.

On another note, I just sent my HOA an email complaining about the trespassing perennial thief. It'll be interesting to see what comes of that.
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Old Jul 25, 2018, 10:41 PM
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She won't. I am 1,000% positive that she will only welcome you with open arms.
Thanks, Velcro.
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Old Jul 25, 2018, 10:52 PM
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Hmm. Not on the phones. I only see it now when i quote your reply.
I can see it on Tapatalk as well.
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Old Jul 25, 2018, 11:41 PM
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Any doctor will admit that medicine still has a lot to learn and that old theories are still being disproved. And bodily medicine has much stronger scientific basis than psychotherapy!
Yep.

Dr H at my Patho exam said the same thing. "In medicine you don't know anything". And he's been in clinical practice for the last 25 years.
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Old Jul 25, 2018, 11:44 PM
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And how do we know stopdog isn’t an evil tech genius, anyway?

I mean, lack of emotion...love of Apple products...highly analytical mind...it all adds up.
Hmmmm.....

Where is SD right now?!?!
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Old Jul 26, 2018, 12:18 AM
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I have two sessions with T left. Today and on tuesday before he is away for 27 days.

I asked last session where he was going, but he didn't tell me. I've dropped talking about the email contact that I originally wanted and brought up before. I don't think he'll want to initiate that anyway or he'll just tell me we didn't arrange anything when he comes back. I know it's just going to be a giant "F off S- let's see if you're still alive when I come back because I need you to help pay for my Christmas break".
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