Couch 172: Couch me if you can

Jersey, could the anxiety maybe be about applying for corporate jobs? Like on some level your current employer would "know" and fire (punish) you for it? Not logical, but hell, when are brains logical?

This is starting to make a whole lot of sense. H insisted we fix the a/c in my car shortly before my recent trip. (I really didn't mind not having it.) So we spent the $$ and got it fixed. Then while I was out of town, he put a radio in my car (which it didn't have either and I also didn't care about and never asked him to do.) He said he thought I was punishing myself by suffering without them. I said I didn't feel that way, it really didn't bother me not having either as my commute to work is not that long and I preferred spending $ elsewhere (ahem like on therapy) rather than on my car. Maybe he does feel threatened somehow by all the changes I've made esp the physical ones.

This is starting to make a whole lot of sense. H insisted we fix the a/c in my car shortly before my recent trip. (I really didn't mind not having it.) So we spent the $$ and got it fixed. Then while I was out of town, he put a radio in my car (which it didn't have either and I also didn't care about and never asked him to do.) He said he thought I was punishing myself by suffering without them. I said I didn't feel that way, it really didn't bother me not having either as my commute to work is not that long and I preferred spending $ elsewhere (ahem like on therapy) rather than on my car. Maybe he does feel threatened somehow by all the changes I've made esp the physical ones.

I don’t see the logical connection there. And I would say don’t spend time wondering about his psychology. That has a very good chance of leading to misunderstandings and misjudgements and making things worse.

Work on you instead, figure out what you want, then go through with it.

LT- I would go in and give him the benefit of the doubt. Casually mention to him, hey I was talking to pdoc and she mentioned you talked about x topic and that surprised me as you told me that you talked about x and x topic.

Does anybody else feel like spending time on PC just makes you think too much? I may need a break from here again. Only trouble is I miss you guys when I stay away.

Art, if you feel overwhelmed with all the information and different opinions you are getting, then you could just ask if we could hold any further thoughts we have and I’m sure everyone will respect that. You do have a lot to process and we’re given lots of advice and support here and things to think about.

Christmas movies are showing on the Hallmark channel.

Discussing a nightmare I had about being in an underground resistance movement and afraid:

Piaf: Are you frightened of anything in real life?
(ATAT pauses to think)
Piaf: Like therapists?
ATAT (indignantly): I’m not afraid of therapists. I just scorn you.

Should have said “your ilk,” huh?

Discussing a nightmare I had about being in an underground resistance movement and afraid:

Piaf: Are you frightened of anything in real life?
(ATAT pauses to think)
Piaf: Like therapists?
ATAT (indignantly): I’m not afraid of therapists. I just scorn you.

Should have said “your ilk,” huh?

Xmas in july?

Christmas movies are showing on the Hallmark channel.

I want to be a fly on the wall.

Christmas In July.

I see Una already said Christmas in July. Whoops. Point goes to Una.

Under rug posted the emojii, i defer the point.