I let him back in and now I am kicking myself #2

Just tell them thats the wrong one, if they have the wrong one. It was just an exercise that got mistakenly uploaded and you loaded the correct version as soon as you realized. This happens all the time in computers. Thats how wrong college acceptance letters get sent out.

Good luck with your interview!

The fact that a grown man needs inheritance to get ahead in life would be a major turn off for me. In fact even if I considered dating a man, after he said that he is waiting for mommy’s money to help be out, I’d lose his phone number. Embarrassing

Why is he still doing all this? Talking nonsense and bringing flowers when you aren’t home (stalkerish and inappropriate-don’t show up when I am not home and without a phone call- it’s creepy). Why isn’t he blocked? Ugh it’s like never ending story

From what I gathered, dating him isn’t even that much fun. And the fact that he thinks you’ll agree to do it for money is disturbing. What do some men think of women…like only money matters? How would he feel if a woman told him she’ll pay his debt and his rent if he dates her. I’d think it wouldn’t be acceptable. Why is it acceptable to offer women money in exchange of affection. Like what planet is that acceptable proposal? It sounds so bothersome on so many levels. It’s so disturbing

Hope, there is no alimony in Mass. except under very specific circumstances lime you were permanently disabled and could not work.

My husband dropped off flowers the other day, while I was out. He left them at my door. And now he's trying to convince me to get together again before our court date on Tues. I know I know... you're going to tell me to block him & stop talking to him. He doesn't know anything about me and this other guy... and I will not be telling him anything. I will block him again when it comes to that point again.

He also gave me $250 last night, on his own initiative. I gave it back to him this morning, realizing that IF I keep accepting money from him, I will be beholden to him and will be obligated to keep the lines of communication open. It gives him rights and access to me that I don't want.

As it is, the other night he was arguing that if I don't want to get back together with him, that I shouldn't take money from him. He was scolding me, then took it all back when I pointed out he was scolding me. So, I just won't take any money then.

Court date is right around the corner.

I don't think it's that atypical, especially for a love bombing abuser. He has been love bombing me for the last 2-3 months. None of his behavior is normal or rational behavior. So it makes perfect sense to me that even in the final hours, he's still trying to get me to change my mind.

I don't really know how I feel. I just want all of it to be over.

I'm freaking out. I have an interview with a freelancing company tomorrow, and I am praying that none of my lies were uploaded into their online system.

They only asked for a LinkedIn profile link and no resume. I don't recall my LinkedIn profile or LI resume being uploaded to their system. IF it were uploaded, then the previous lies from my profile would be present in their online system. IF it wasn't uploaded, just my LinkedIn link would be in their online system, with no lies since I've corrected my LI profile.

UGH. This is what lying will do to you. This is the only opportunity in front of me right now, and if I screw this up, I am going to be really upset.

Just tell them thats the wrong one, if they have the wrong one. It was just an exercise that got mistakenly uploaded and you loaded the correct version as soon as you realized. This happens all the time in computers. Thats how wrong college acceptance letters get sent out.

Now my husband is trying to bribe me with additional monetary support. He says he will wipe out all my financial debt & pay half my rent if I date him and give him yet another chance. This is of course once he receives his mom's inheritance.

Sounds like he is trying to play you.

Thank you.... and yes, I think he is. UGH.

I've read that I can get alimony in Mass, even after being married for under 4 years. BUT, my sister just told me that my divorce agreement says he and I are waiving rights to alimony, so it's a moot point unless I decide to pay the lawyer more $, and revise the agreement. I don't think it's worth it though.... He could easily retaliate, which is very likely. I know him, and he is vindictive. He's made threats in the past.

Don't know the law, but that looks like you could be playing with fire if you did decide to revise the agreement.
With your husband's health problems (bad back, chronic pot use), he could receive a disabled diagnosis, or even if he just gets laid off, he in turn could apply for alimony from you, perhaps even a few years after your divorce. Make sure you know any and all repercussions of making that change.
You don't need that hanging over your head. A nice clean break may be preferable.