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My mood has soured after an encounter with my mother. She started *****ing because my brother hasn’t been in contact with my grandmother. She still has resentment that he spends more time with his SIL’s family instead of ours. I want to yell at her because it’s OUR FAMILY’s fault for being full of horrible human beings!!! I don’t blame him at all! I mean yes, he should contact my grandmother to get an update on his cat because she really can’t handle the cat’s energy. He needs to find another place for the cat. BUT she doesn’t seem to get that’s she’s a major part of the problem. He’s tried over and over and over again to extend the olive branch to her and he just gets shut down every time. Why should he bother to keep trying? She won’t see that.
I’m not going to get in the middle because he’ll be mad if I say anything to her and I want to respect his wishes. But honestly she makes me so angry!!! And I also can’t tell him about her because he’ll get upset too and he doesn’t need the drama right now. Ugh. These ****ing people.
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#652
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I think my blood pressure medication, irbesartan, is the cause for my tingling/numb hands and feet, upon waking. It's only upon waking, at this point, but it's waking me up throughout the night. No pain. Just the tingling/numbness. Maybe if I could stop that med it would stop. Or at least if I knew it was the cause 100% I could just live with that. I do need some blood pressure med. It's skyrocketed over the last couple years, plus since I have kidney damage it's crucial I keep it in check. I'm not opposed to my med cocktail being reduced, but I won't stand for a doctor to slash it, foolishly. I think I need to keep my Seroquel XR, but maybe my small dose of Lamictal and Klonopin could eventually go. I'm more reluctant to give up carbamazepine, for a reason, and yet I know pdocs hate to prescribe it with Seroquel. Even my carbamazepine dose is half what it used to be. I guess no psych hospital is great, but my nephew had experience in one in Prague and he didn't hate it. One thing I'm considering is perhaps a psychological health "spa" if I need one, but am not in total crisis. Having lived in Germany, you must be familiar with these, i.e. das Bad? One in CZ is in Jeseník. In Czech, they are called "lázně", |
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#653
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Made a hair appointment for N3 for 3 today but he wouldnt answer until it was almost too late for me to leave and get him. Then I took off to get him and half way there, he called and said he didn't want to go that he was too tired! I said that's because you just woke up and told him he'd bd fine but he insisted and said he was going to call and cancel/reschedule. Ugh. I try to help him and he doesnt care. I'm trying to remember how intelligent and funny he is because otherwise I'm going to get mad at him and I don't want to do that.
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Qui Cantat Bis Orat ingrezza 80 mg Propranolol 40 mg Benztropine 1 mg Vraylar 3 mg Gabapentin 300 mg Klonopin 1 mg 2x daily Mania Sept/Oct 2024 Mania (July/August 2024) Mania (December 2023) Mixed episode/Hypomania (September 2023) Depression, Anxiety and Intrusive thoughts (September 2021) Depression & Psychosis (July/August 2021) |
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#654
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So I just realized they want me to do another AIMS test at my next injection. At first I thought okay, no biggie, but then I realized it's only been a couple months since my last one and they like to do it yearly so something must be up for her to want to do another one already. I have been feeling a lot more twitching and stiffness lately, and the tremor in my left hand is pretty bad so I'm glad they're doing the test. Hopefully they'll lay off on the APs if it does show some abnormal movement; I'm prescribed more than I need.
I'm feeling hurt/abandoned today. I was recently manic and scared a lot of people off and now no one (especially a person who claimed to always be there for me) wants to talk to me.
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"I don't know what I'm looking for." "Why not?" "Because...because...I think it might be because if I knew I wouldn't be able to look for them." "What, are you crazy?" "It's a possibility I haven't ruled out yet," |
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#655
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Major TW.
Possible trigger:
I just feel weird about something but I can’t place my finger on it.
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#656
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I had a wonderful weekend with my daughter and then she went back to her home away from home. It always bums me out for a few days. It’s a work in progress. We talked today about me moving up there when my mother and brother no longer need me. It’s something to hold on to.
I’m feeling better. The depression is gone for now. |
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That's terrific, Jennifer! It seems that seeing your daughter is almost always therapeutic for you.
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#658
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I am happy for you jennifer.
keep it up!bizi
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I am in for a dry march.
bizi
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lamictal 2x a day haldol 2x a day cogentin 2x a day klonipin , 1mg at night, fish oil coq10 multi vit,, vit c, at noon, tumeric, caffeine Remeron at night, zyprexa, requip2-4mg |
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It was a beautiful sunny Winter day today and my dog and i had a lovely time sitting out in the sun surrounded by the sparkling snow.
I watched several episodes of "The Young and the Restless" today with pleasure. Sometimes it just irritates me but today i felt compassion and affection for the characters. They care so passionately about each other and want to work out problems with such urgency. They're so honest and direct with each other about their feelings. It's so different from how i was raised, it's really good for me to see a better way of life. I realized i mistook concern for accusation in my earlier post today because of several bad experiences in my past and while that situation does happen sometimes, that's not what was going on in this instance. I realized that i feel very mixed-up about that part of my life and it's just best to accept that i feel sensitive and conflicted about it and not strive too hard to come to any conclusions. It's Sunday, so that means it's Cut Day in my benzo taper so i'll be down to 17mg Valium tonight. Progress! |
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Though I am not aware of the situation you referred to regarding misinterpreting concern for accusation, it is also an accomplishment that you worked out that distortion. It's OK to be sensitive, though. We mostly all are in one way or another. |
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I found some recommendations for doctors that speak English in addition to Czech. It's kind of important here to find the general practitioner first, so Hubby managed to get an appointment for both of us tomorrow morning. Hubby obviously speaks fluent Czech, but he liked the doctor when he talked to him, so decided for both of us to try him. Of course we are still not yet set up with insurance, so will have to pay 100%, but it shouldn't be that expensive. I have been pressing Hubby to work on the insurance stuff a bit, but he goes at his own...slow...pace. The more you push, the more he gets upset. Patience is my middle name since being with him for about 25 years. That word used to be foreign to me, before then. At least we could get the doctor to write a prescription. That's important.
Perhaps this new GP will have a psychiatrist recommendation. I also have one from my new therapist, and found a third one on an expat website. I don't think a psychiatrist will see me until a GP referral. That's why tomorrow is also important. On Thursday, I have a video appointment with my American long-time psychiatrist. At some point I will have to say goodbye to him. I also have a phone appointment with my American nephrologist on Friday. I think I will say goodbye to the nephrologist then. There's little he can do for me from afar. I'll keep my American psychiatrist for a bit longer. He can still help me more. I suppose tomorrow I should bring all of my medication bottles with me, and Hubby's, to prove we take it all. It's almost embarrassing how many we have. Nine different medications for me, plus a PRN benzo (almost half are not psych). Four for hubby, plus three PRNs for various things. |
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I often have a sense of embarrassment about how many meds I take. Lately, I've been asking myself why that is. Stigma? That medication (whether psych or not) sends the message that I don't take care of myself (which is not true)? It's interesting, how we can feel embarrassed about the number of meds we take. Something to think about.
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I am nervous about my appointment in 1.5 hours. I have no idea what she’ll want to talk about. I’ll probably just be very shy as usual when I’m meeting new people. She’ll probably think I am “very” autistic since I can come off that way sometimes. Mainly it’s just my anxiety though. I do not plan on telling her anything deep or even mildly deep. At least at the first session. With my old therapist we talked about sex (she brought it up first and then I thought “ok. It’s cool to talk about this stuff with her.”) and I told her the weird things I’m into and my OD’s and my transition. We talked about everything. I want to see what this one is like before deciding on how deep I want to go. I told my old T she could talk to her but not to tell her about any of the weird stuff. She said she wouldn’t and then went into a whole speech about “self acceptance.” I did dress nicely today even though she’ll only see my flannel hoodie and hat. Although I do kinda look like a lumberjack, I want to make a good first impression.
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I'm worried that someone (pharmacist or my dad) crushed up oxycodone and put it in my lithium capsules. About half an hour after I take it I get sleepy, feel buzzedish, and get nauseous. Also we're almost out of wood so it's gonna be a cold March/April. Today's warm and rainy though. Tomorrow won't be. I'm twitching like crazy right now.
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"I don't know what I'm looking for." "Why not?" "Because...because...I think it might be because if I knew I wouldn't be able to look for them." "What, are you crazy?" "It's a possibility I haven't ruled out yet," |
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It's crazy trying to communicate with docs when you don't have total command of a language; it gives you an appreciation of how nuanced languages are. Since it's been 30 years since the fall of communism, however, I'd be surprised if there are many Czech docs who haven't got a firm grasp of English. I hope you find someone you feel comfortable with.
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#667
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I am in for a dry alcohol free march.
bizi
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lamictal 2x a day haldol 2x a day cogentin 2x a day klonipin , 1mg at night, fish oil coq10 multi vit,, vit c, at noon, tumeric, caffeine Remeron at night, zyprexa, requip2-4mg |
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I saw the new therapist. I liked her. We are going to work on my anxiety, my move, and getting back to work. She said she can get me a lot of resources where I’m moving. And she can help me find a new primary that works with trans people. She also does in person sessions which is a huge thing for me. She said she’s excited to work with me in her office when I move. Old T didn’t call her though and new T said she’d really like to hear from her. So I have to sign some stuff and email them back to her. But yeah it went well today.
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I'm doing a lot better today and feeling happier than I did the other day, so that's a plus!
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Furious at my therapist because she's pulling one of her disappearing acts. Says she's sick, but this is a consistent...she is out for a week or 2 regularly every couple of months. And the clinic generously lets me know oh, 3 hours ahead of my appointment. Screws my entire day. I'm on the verge of telling her to go to hell.
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I'm a wreck and a mess. I feel like my mother this afternoon, except I'm not abusing anybody (except myself). I did email my therapist and let her know how upsetting it is when she repeatedly cancels a few hours prior to my session. I really believe that she thinks because we have a strong bond that I'll "understand." Wake up, lady, I wouldn't tolerate this from a friend - let alone from a therapist.
Trying to practice breathing and calm myself down, nothing seems to help much and I have a headache now. Advil and rock and roll might be just the thing... --------------- Ugh, i'm really spun out about this. Took a couple of Klonopins to try and calm myself - which makes me feel like a failure because I'm in the process of titrating down on K-pin, and because I'm not using "tools" well, the ones that are supposed to help me mellow out. Dammit. I'm a failure today. It happens so easily. And it's not about BD, I don't think, it's about crappy highly dysfunctional environment childhood insanity. ---------------- I feel self-destructive, like doing something really rotten. Like getting drunk. Except I don't like alcohol. I'd SH, but that doesn't seem helpful. I'd like to give my T a hard smack across the face.
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I did three (3) loads of laundry! I knew i would get to it. The weekends seem to be days i want to procrastinate but Monday rolls around and i get right on the horse. I always know it's Laundry Day when the only thing i have left to wear is my casual and pretty Christmas dress! That's like how in university i used to know it was my friends Laundry Day when he would wear his tuxedo shirt!
I used a new brand of laundry detergent and it smells heavenly but my dog hates it, she is frantically rolling around on our bed trying to destroy the scent and transfer her own smell to it! But i loves it! Clean clothes, clean clothes!!! My first night at 17mg Valium went just okay but i feel fine today, not tired, so i'm still hopeful about it. @BethRags: I'm sorry to hear you're feeling so uncomfortable right now. I *do* think it was very brave and wise of you to email your therapist. It's hard to tell people that their behavior is a problem for you but since it's a pattern i think it was best to take action. Try not to be too hard on yourself about the Clonazepam. Tapering is a long process as you know and one little slip is not gonna make much of a difference. I know what you mean about childhood trauma bothering you. When i'm upset i start off being angry at the current incident but it often ends up going further and further into past hurts. I hope you feel better soon. Remember: This too shall pass. Last edited by Anonymous41462; Mar 01, 2021 at 06:15 PM. |
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@BethRags: I'm sorry your not feeling well. Hopefully things calm down for you soon. Don't feel bad about taking medication that you need right now. Knowing when to take medication is success too.
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I don’t feel good. Physically. mentally I am ok. No fever either. Just a very upset stomach. My head is spinning a bit too. Every time I blink I get a whoosing feeling in my head. I don’t want to go the ER because then I’d have to explain the multiple Xanax I’ve been taking all day thinking it was anxiety. I took a zofran. My gastro doctor says it can interfere with one of my meds. But they work good. I’m worried if I go the doctor for an accidental OD I’ll end up in the psych hospital anyways even if it turns out to be physical. and there is so much to do these next couple weeks I can’t afford to go to the hospital. Figuratively or literally. Money is so tight.
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Thank you, Mm. It's very decent of you to point that out ![]()
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