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#351
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Rain-I promise we wont think its stupid..
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#352
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just caught up on the couch and it seems to have been a rough day for a lot of us.
Btw, Lola my T was wearing those shoes as well, but much more worn. |
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#353
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3 male T's same shoes... are they a gift for passing an exam haha
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#354
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"You decide every moment of every day who you are and what you believe in. You get a second chance, every second." "You fail to recognize that it matters not what someone is born, but what they grow to be!" - J.K. Rowling. Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire. |
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#355
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Happiness cannot be found through great effort and willpower, but is already present, in open relaxation and letting go. Don't strain yourself, there is nothing to do or undo. Whatever momentarily arises in the body-mind Has no real importance at all, has little reality whatsoever. Don't believe in the reality of good and bad experiences; they are today's ephemeral weather, like rainbows in the sky. ~Venerable Lama Gendun Rinpoche~ ![]() |
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#356
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yes we can..,we must love ourselves to truly love another. |
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#357
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RR i don't follow...
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#358
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Rain-it may be fear getting in the way more than anything. Therapy will teach you self-worth and to love yourself. Once you do that, you can give more to those you want to love
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#359
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True that!! And who gives a rat's patoot that it takes some of us 50 years to learn how to love ourselves.... what's important is getting there.
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#360
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Goodnight folks. I don't have an ounce of energy left in my body.
Sweet dreams, everyone. Lola...no launching space shuttles in your sleep. ![]() |
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#361
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Good night TTGB.
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"You decide every moment of every day who you are and what you believe in. You get a second chance, every second." "You fail to recognize that it matters not what someone is born, but what they grow to be!" - J.K. Rowling. Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire. |
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#362
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night TTGB ...im off like a prom dress... i cant make any promises what ill do in my sleep..lol
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#363
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Could you manage to wear the overalls again...
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Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined. - Henry David Thoreau |
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#364
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Mr Ambassador, alias Ancient Plax, alias Captain Therapy, alias Big Poppa, alias Secret Spy, etc. Add that to your tattoo, Baby! |
#365
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Just for you Chopin... Ill even naw on straw and wear a straw hat
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#366
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This is the first chance I've had today to flop on the couch. I'm sorry so many have had a tough day.
I can't count how many times I've made T tell me that he won't abandon me, won't kick me out and won't let me push him away. He's told me that even if I tried to physically hurt him, he'd just try to figure out why. If I choose to pull away, he'll respect that choice, but it won't be his decision, no matter how long it takes or what I tell him. I'm starting to believe him. I finally swam tonight. I hadn't been in the pool for more than a month. I've been a total slug. |
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#367
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Can we guess? Is it Rumplestiltskin?
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#368
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I am new to the couch, but have been on the boards awhile.
I see my new therapist for session number 3. He is going on vacation sometime in October. I hope I don't miss him and start that all over again. ![]() |
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#369
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Antimatter... I know it sounds repetitive but my T says "Trust The Process" Whatever that means.
Welcome to the couch! We love when new folks drop in. |
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Gee, mine says that too..."trust the process...it's all a process".
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Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined. - Henry David Thoreau |
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#371
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It's so textbook.
How do you feel Chopin. Did you go out to dinner? |
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#372
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#373
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Went out to dinner. Walked around Target. Bought a fedora. Something happened, now I'm down again. I'll PM you.
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Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined. - Henry David Thoreau |
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#374
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Trust the process is what therapists say when they mean they do not know what they are doing and are just hoping as much as you are that something will work. Like a placebo.
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#375
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DAMMIT how did you know??
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