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#526
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ps yes my T has said some questionable things before
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#527
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This is why your empathy is not a mimic. Perhaps you've used movies and such to learn the socially acceptable non-verbal and verbal ways to show empathy. The caring is in there (you).
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#528
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On the divorce stuff, first, thanks everybody.
The car insurance I can't do anything about till I have a cooy of the divorce decree. The cell phone, if I could get the carrier to inform him, not me, I would do starting next billing cycle. So maybe I'll stop by a store. I feel like the storage unit would be best stated officially, just because of the kind of person he is, plus I imagine he could accuse me of theft if he lost that stuff, but I can probably get myself to knock the time down considerably. The Prime...my goal for the week will be to do that. A lot of this is, I know how he thinks and reacts, and this is like calling attention to myself and putting a target on my back. The lawyer had to talk me out of not taking him off my benefits last year. (Yes, I'm scared of him.) The irony of all this, is when he could hold down a job he made way more money than me (MD). |
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#529
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Not sure if it helps but I also have trouble not just with empathy but all other emotions as well. And yeah, my sum total of emotional "intelligence" is from reading books. Hey, this gives me an idea for a running thread (like Dear T or In Session) -- 'Weird Emotional Encounters of the Third (or Nth) Kind' -- where folks post about all the times during the day/week that they had no idea what to say / react in situations involving emotions? And, others can chip in with ideas? That way we'll have a collective encyclopaedic reference thread to check out whenever we're unsure how to respond? I'm totally serious. For example, I had absolutely no idea what to say yesterday in any of these really normal sorts of situations -- 1. Folks who were complaining about their (incredibly sucky) jobs; 2. Folks talking about having a fight with their partners. I mostly just stared at them quizzically and made a few sympathetic-sounding-in-my-head-but-mostly-coming-out-as-a-constipated-burp noises (and was largely grateful that they most likely attributed my weird non-response to my being piss-drunk -- problem is I'd have been even more awkward and weird if I hadn't had a few). |
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#530
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Thanks I feel better that you guys don't think I'm a seriel killer haha
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#531
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Okay - in a test - the site blanked out an obvious swear word in the middle of a made up word - but it did not blank out **** from dicktionary (which is also not a word)
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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#532
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I am more concerned about your paranoia levels. They have seemed to get worse over the past week or two. What has changed? I don't hate you, and do not think you are a socio/psychopath. |
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#533
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Hmmm...trying to figure out what swear word goes in between "bug" and "ingly" I have a guess, though.
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#534
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Nice new username, ex-Elsewhere! I like it.
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#535
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JD, I think your t told you that your past could create sociopaths was perhaps a way of saying that you have overcome much. As in, you are not a sociopath.
Besides that, I agree with other posters that I find you genuine and helpful on this forum. A psychopath wouldn't bother with trying to figure out how to be helpful. Sometimes I hurt for you, but I never find you bothersome. |
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#536
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I missed it. Can't figure out new name.
It might have been while banging my head against the wall.
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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#537
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See Dear T - UnderRugSwept.
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#538
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I'm hosting a quartet-reading party in my apartment tonight.
I've been looking forward to it for a while but now I keep having the urge to cancel... I love reading parties. What the eff is my problem.
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#539
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i adjusted my medications last week
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#540
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#541
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#542
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Hate to quote Henry Ford, but i think this was spot on - whatever you say you can or cannot do, youre right. So i CAN become trustworthy? |
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#543
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#544
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If there isn't, maybe I could Kindle-publish one... |
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#545
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Well you guys I am practicing being a strong woman and partner for my h and a Parent with a capital P. And I am even remaining calm.
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#546
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I really am just curious if you would not mind - why or what part to be mad or worried about the pot? That he tried it, underage, in your house or something else. I mean he seems to be productive and working/school. Do you see it as different from wine or beer?
I really am just curious - of course it is none of my business -but thought I could ask. People's views on pot are interesting to me.
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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#547
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why would he leave his weed under the couch
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#548
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#549
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that is why i'm trying not to be mad. i am now choosing to assume it isn't even his, but that one of his friends must have left it there at some point. if my son was trying to hide it from me, under the couch I always sit on would not be the place he would choose. so it's probably not even his.
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