Couch 157: Fair Value

Haha, looks like you've recommendations for me

*hugs* know the feeling!

ON a happysad note. Here is my eldest daughter dressed for her formal and graduated on Tuesday. I so happy she worked so hard for this ad will probably go to one of top unis I am so so proud and incredibly sad as 17 years just went in a blink.
She's the one on blue. I will probably on leave it up a little whiel

Your daughter is beautiful, BCM! I hope she had a wonderful time, and will continue to flourish.

Thanks Lost I keep tearing up everytime I see this.

She's in a stunning dress. I hope you're proud of your parenting, BCM

BCM- She's a very beautiful girl. I hope she had a wonderful time.

I've posted something about sexual attraction in my blog, and now I'm paranoid that it's clear from this post that I'm experiencing a kind of ET (T's following my blog).

She was not hard to parent but I don't know if that was because of the incident when she was 3

Thank you for the photo BCM, your daughter is very beautiful

You could eventually possibly discuss transference (ET or other types) with him Your T seems very accepting.

Your daughter looks awesome bcm :-) I'm happy she seems to be doing so well!

Sounds like something bad happened...? How would a trauma make a child easier to raise? *confused*

Hah, you know, last time T said something like "I'm not very popular therapist", and I said "Well, I can tell you that there are people in USA, Singapore, Switzerland, Australia, UK etc who consider you a really good therapist, so consider you're world famous!".

He laughed and said thank you

Haha, great that you said that to him! Because I'm glad you have him. You rock too, shh don't tell your parents

That came out wrong womething bad happened but we worked through it but I think in the process our guilt of what happened maybe overshadowed her sister, which is why she is in a day program for anxiety

Parenting is hard *hugs*

Maybe I could do something in reverse with mine.Last session we were talking about the different things we tried and i said when we did emdr he did not explain something things properly. Instantly he said "So I'm a **** therapist" I did not how respond maybe I could say "Well people in Singapore Switzerland Uk and Siberia seem to think so.

"Russia, Siberia? Who told you that, a bear?"
I can assure you I'm not a bear

I thought you were from Siberia. My geography is a bit off but I thought you said thats where you are rom. i am sorry iff i have insulted you.

I'm sorry for misunderstanding
I meant your T would ask "Did you talk with someone from Siberia (Russia)? Was it a bear?"
Sorry again, I have a weird sense of humour

I nearly giggled aloud *covers mouth at work*

I guess my t isn't a bad T he gets all his work from word of mouth, he is not in the phone book he has no advertising on his building he hasn't taken any new clients for over a year. I think these are hall marks of a good t so maybe there is something behind what he is doing. Maybe I should ask why he appears to dislike me, but if he disliked me he wouldn't keep me on as his waiting list is quite long.

I truly did not think of bears in relation to Siberia, I always think of the Trans Siberian Railway and the stories the nuns told of their Russian and Chinese holidays in the 70s They had no photos which might give you a clue what happened

I saw T yesterday. It was good. We walked for 30 minutes and I went over my list of things to tell him. He said I'm making a lot of progress. We came back to the practice and sat at the table and he taught me how to play a game called necronomicards. It was a nice brief oasis from my week of sadness, voices, and extreme loneliness. I wanted to ask for a hug but didnt. Maybe next week