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Old Nov 21, 2017, 01:25 AM
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I am feeling bad because I was the home tutor for my daughter and I thougth she was watching the video conferences but it turned out she wasn't and now I feel like i failed her somehow. The teacher and case manager at the day program are working with the distance ed people to work on some strategies. I just want to run away and hand all responsibility to someone else. I would like to give it to my ex but he has dyslexia but at least he is more organised than me.


Hugs. Mistakes happen. You’re doing the best you can. Are the people at the day program helping you help her?

You can do this. I truly believe this. Your older daughter turned out great too, didn’t she? I’m sure there were hard times too, and still you managed.
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Old Nov 21, 2017, 03:46 AM
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Whenever i am getting mad at the kittens the dog has to come and put his 2 cents in too.
Whose side does he take?
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Old Nov 21, 2017, 04:02 AM
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Whose side does he take?
As far as I can tell he tells the kittens off, he is also a snitch and will tell me if the kittens are swinging on the curtains
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Old Nov 21, 2017, 04:21 AM
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i'm so tired. of trying. i really don't want to do it anymore.
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Old Nov 21, 2017, 04:22 AM
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Old Nov 21, 2017, 05:15 AM
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I went to the gyn

It took me so much to not just start crying

All just to be told that there’s nothing wrong. Thx.

I went to a stomach/liver-guy, a urologist and the gyn. There aren’t many more organs left in my stomach.

Any suggestions on what to do next? The doctor didn’t have any.

Ahhhh
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Old Nov 21, 2017, 05:29 AM
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Old Nov 21, 2017, 05:44 AM
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I went to the gyn

It took me so much to not just start crying

All just to be told that there’s nothing wrong. Thx.

I went to a stomach/liver-guy, a urologist and the gyn. There aren’t many more organs left in my stomach.

Any suggestions on what to do next? The doctor didn’t have any.

Ahhhh
Have you mentioned this to your t? I was a lot like you and saw every specialist and my t thinks it's related to the trauma the casa.
Not saying you have this trauma but my odd pains have settled a bit by working with them
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Old Nov 21, 2017, 05:47 AM
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My d wants to skip day program and I kind of want her to as well. I am really avoidant and I don't think I am the best person for this. The woman to me you know we all have to do things even though we don't want to. Umm not me I have gone days without food because I couldn't go into even the smallest shopping centre here
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Old Nov 21, 2017, 06:30 AM
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My d wants to skip day program and I kind of want her to as well. I am really avoidant and I don't think I am the best person for this. The woman to me you know we all have to do things even though we don't want to. Umm not me I have gone days without food because I couldn't go into even the smallest shopping centre here
How old is your daughter btw?
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Old Nov 21, 2017, 07:53 AM
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I am feeling bad because I was the home tutor for my daughter and I thougth she was watching the video conferences but it turned out she wasn't and now I feel like i failed her somehow. The teacher and case manager at the day program are working with the distance ed people to work on some strategies. I just want to run away and hand all responsibility to someone else. I would like to give it to my ex but he has dyslexia but at least he is more organised than me.
Maybe I'm missing something (probably am because I don't know the backstory), but why do you feel bad because your daughter didn't do her work? That's HER failure, not yours. Is it possible you are taking on too much of HER responsibility for HER work? If she's in a day program, shouldn't they have people who coordinate and supervise schooling issues at the day program?
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Old Nov 21, 2017, 08:16 AM
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I went to the gyn

It took me so much to not just start crying

All just to be told that there’s nothing wrong. Thx.

I went to a stomach/liver-guy, a urologist and the gyn. There aren’t many more organs left in my stomach.

Any suggestions on what to do next? The doctor didn’t have any.

Ahhhh
Ugh, I'm sorry. Did anyone actually do an ultrasound?
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Old Nov 21, 2017, 10:02 AM
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Rosie!
Hanging with the ocarina like a pro. Maybe I should find a new spot for it...
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Old Nov 21, 2017, 10:03 AM
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(((Jdna))) the fund sounds like a great idea to me. Please don't bar yourself from asking for help.
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Old Nov 21, 2017, 10:04 AM
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My word, anais....Rosie is exceptionally beautiful. I hope you are both getting on well.

Nice to see the ocarina, too...somehow I'd missed the 'dinosaur' part.
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Old Nov 21, 2017, 10:05 AM
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Rosie!
Hanging with the ocarina like a pro. Maybe I should find a new spot for it...
My cat would be batting the ocarina around like a pro. Rosie is showing great restraint.
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Old Nov 21, 2017, 10:10 AM
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She and the kittens were in perfect condition and had all the indicators for Egyptian Mau breed... the friend who found her wonders if she might have escaped from a breeder or show or something like that. Either way she's beautiful and well socialized and very healthy looking.
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Old Nov 21, 2017, 10:10 AM
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Old Nov 21, 2017, 10:12 AM
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She and the kittens were in perfect condition and had all the indicators for Egyptian Mau breed... the friend who found her wonders if she might have escaped from a breeder or show or something like that. Either way she's beautiful and well socialized and very healthy looking.
She looks super beautiful! I'd wory about the oclarina too tough
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Old Nov 21, 2017, 10:16 AM
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I just ran for the bus and it completely destroyed me and now I feel really ill. I don't think it's my lungs, I think something is wrong with my heart. Bring on the cardiologist.

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Old Nov 21, 2017, 10:20 AM
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I just ran for the bus and it completely destroyed me and now I feel really ill. I don't think it's my lungs, I think something is wrong with my heart. Bring on the cardiologist.

That is me and every bus. Makes me feel like I will vomit/pass out. Weirdly, when I'm actually running for exercise I don't get this at all. So I think for me it's more the activity combined with the sudden panic/stress/adrenaline.
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Old Nov 21, 2017, 10:21 AM
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Rosie!
Hanging with the ocarina like a pro. Maybe I should find a new spot for it...
I would say not just the ocarina, but the glassware too.

Within weeks of being adopted, new cat destroyed an antique bowl. When we heard the crash, junior cat looked at me as though to say "I told you so."

So you have a cat and two kittens?
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Old Nov 21, 2017, 10:29 AM
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Yeah, the only thing there I care about is the ocarina... the rest is tjmaxx junk

The kittens are still with the friend in nyc. They don't have homes after three months of searching. I can't believe it. But maybe people don't want kittens for the same reason I didn't want a kitten.
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Old Nov 21, 2017, 10:39 AM
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That is me and every bus. Makes me feel like I will vomit/pass out. Weirdly, when I'm actually running for exercise I don't get this at all. So I think for me it's more the activity combined with the sudden panic/stress/adrenaline.
Huh... That's really interesting actually. I have a condition that affects my lungs and it's normal for me to get out of breath easily, but this didn't (doesn't, still kinda feeling it) feel normal - it's exactly as you describe, feeling like vomiting and passing out. I think you might be onto something with the panicky adrenaline spike being a contributor.
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Old Nov 21, 2017, 10:57 AM
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Yeah, the only thing there I care about is the ocarina... the rest is tjmaxx junk

The kittens are still with the friend in nyc. They don't have homes after three months of searching. I can't believe it. But maybe people don't want kittens for the same reason I didn't want a kitten.
I have heard it's easier to find homes for kittens vs. cats; I think there are just a lot of kittens out there to choose from.

Personally I think kittens are fun to watch, but I prefer owning cats.
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