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Old Sep 09, 2019, 03:28 AM
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I didnt like to admit to my exT that i liked the idea of rituals i just heaped scorn on him and i have no idea why. Yes, i do it was to keep him at a distance and look how well that worked out for me.
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Old Sep 09, 2019, 03:29 AM
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Oh the cooking sounds lovely and i would definately recommend doing it more as you enjoyed it.

P.s can I please come over for dinner ?

Sure do you hve any requests? The oven i have njow will make better naan than i did before.
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Old Sep 09, 2019, 03:37 AM
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I start my african drumming lessons tomorrow
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Old Sep 09, 2019, 07:05 AM
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Couch professors: do you use that Turnitin software for submitted papers? it checks for plagiarism. It is making me bonkers. I have submitted my current paper 3 times trying to get the percentage down. The problem is, it is counting as plagiarism things that are required to be part of my answers like "The Cascadian Subduction Zone" and the "San Andreas Fault Zone" and the names of the tectonic plates, and other things that if I changed the wording, would make my answers wrong. Yet it counts them as plagiarism. I sent an email to my prof about it because it is making me so nervous.
If you are under 20-25%, you're probably good. We understand what Turnitin picks up. I don't use it anymore because our district doesn't fund it. Honestly, I can generally pick up on true plagiarism fairly easy since my students write so much; I know their writing quirks and know when they aren't sounding like themselves.
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Old Sep 09, 2019, 08:44 AM
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It just seems from reading on here that it’s not actually possible to put what’s called parental and erotic transference into neat separate cubbyholes. They’re more like a Venn diagram with the amount of overlap in the center differing between clients.


Well how very Freudian of you!
I’ve been around una too long...
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Old Sep 09, 2019, 09:17 AM
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Freudians are wily. And often incomprehensible.
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Old Sep 09, 2019, 09:31 AM
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I see T in 2 hours. I really don't even feel like seeing him. I think that says something in itself. Planning to talk to him about how I feel we're at an impasse, that I'm having trouble getting past some things he's said/done recently, that I don't think his modality is working for me right now. I don't intend to tell him about the consult Friday or that I have a phone consult (not about him, but with a potential future T, another woman, K--K2? like the mountain?) Tuesday and am meeting with that other guy Wednesday. He doesn't need to know that.
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Old Sep 09, 2019, 10:01 AM
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I see T in 2 hours. I really don't even feel like seeing him. I think that says something in itself. Planning to talk to him about how I feel we're at an impasse, that I'm having trouble getting past some things he's said/done recently, that I don't think his modality is working for me right now. I don't intend to tell him about the consult Friday or that I have a phone consult (not about him, but with a potential future T, another woman, K--K2? like the mountain?) Tuesday and am meeting with that other guy Wednesday. He doesn't need to know that.
I was thinking of you today.

I hope it goes well.

You don't have to tell him anything you're not comfortable with.
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Old Sep 09, 2019, 10:04 AM
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Sure do you hve any requests? The oven i have njow will make better naan than i did before.
Oooo there's no need to go to any real trouble. I'm happy with ANYTHING. Dinner for me tonight will be cereal.
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Old Sep 09, 2019, 10:06 AM
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I start my african drumming lessons tomorrow
Yay! That sounds fun.

Are you still painting?
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Old Sep 09, 2019, 10:11 AM
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Old Sep 09, 2019, 11:15 AM
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It's weird being at Ts on a Monday morning instead of evening. And to know my session will be cut a few minutes makes it even worse. I'm mentally struggling really bad already this morning so this should be interesting.
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Old Sep 09, 2019, 12:11 PM
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Hi Couchies. I did a sort of dumb thing. I stopped taking my AD and my AP this weekend. I figured if I felt this bad on the medication, why was I taking it? I felt pretty much the same until today. My anxiety is through the roof (but that didn't happen until I went to work and found out that the Engineer quit--seriously worried how we are going to get jobs out without an engineer). And then I'm anxious about not taking the medication. I've been on meds for so long, I sort of thought it would be good for my brain to reboot, but now I'm anxious that not taking my medication is going to push me further down the hole I'm in. So now I don't know whether to take the medication again, or just see what happens with not taking it. I don't see PDOC until November but I don't forsee my reboot going that long. I'm serious struggling with anxiety and SH thoughts today though so I'm going to take some anti-anxiety medication. I think for sure I'll restart the AD. I'm not sure about the AP. But I was having visual hallucinations yesterday. I get them on or off the meds apparently. I don't know what to do. HUGS Kit
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Old Sep 09, 2019, 12:15 PM
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Freudians are wily. And often incomprehensible.
Speaking of which, even though i said i wasnt going to do my poop test, i took the packet out to do it this morning, and IT WAS ALREADY USED!!! Ive been walking around with someone elses biohazard in my backpack all summer. There are not enough eeks on this site to cover that. But at least now i have a good excuse! I mean, darn! Im so disappointed!
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Old Sep 09, 2019, 12:17 PM
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I got the opening round of documents from my lawyer. I still need to provide them with his driver's license number, which means I need to figure out which box I put all his stuff in and dig through it to find his wallet. I half-heartedly looked for the box yesterday, but gave up after about 2 minutes because depression/the box isn't labelled/the box was taped up and I couldn't be bothered to find a knife to open it up with/not wanting to dig through his stuff.

It feels like everything is coming undone at the seams at the moment. Also have an unanswered week-old email from my mother who apparently *needs* to come see me next month on the anniversary of my father's death which she now apparently refers to as his birthday for some sort of religious reason. We spent two sessions on this issue last week and I'm still no closer to knowing how to answer her that I don't want her to come without feeling like a complete jerk.
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Old Sep 09, 2019, 12:17 PM
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Slumber, can you get an earlier appt with your pdoc? Like asap?
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Old Sep 09, 2019, 12:18 PM
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@ArtieSwimsOn - Thanks for the memory...I hated TurnItIn as a university student. Unnecessary fuss, IMO.

This is the first class I've had it be a part of and I pretty much hate it too already! My prof responded to my email this morning and said that I am not a student that she has concerns at all about and that I should not lose any sleep over it. She said she appreciated my determination to lower my percentage though. (I tried 4 times and lowered my percentage by 10 points but it still seemed really high to me. Can't help it though since it picks up common phrases and the proper names of the different faults, etc that are required answers, and I discovered it also counts information used in your references as well!! yeesh!)
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Old Sep 09, 2019, 12:20 PM
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Speaking of which, even though i said i wasnt going to do my poop test, i took the packet out to do it this morning, and IT WAS ALREADY USED!!! Ive been walking around with someone elses biohazard in my backpack all summer. There are not enough eeks on this site to cover that. But at least now i have a good excuse! I mean, darn! Im so disappointed!



You are one tough cookie though.
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Old Sep 09, 2019, 12:20 PM
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Speaking of which, even though i said i wasnt going to do my poop test, i took the packet out to do it this morning, and IT WAS ALREADY USED!!! Ive been walking around with someone elses biohazard in my backpack all summer. There are not enough eeks on this site to cover that. But at least now i have a good excuse! I mean, darn! Im so disappointed!
OMG, that's disgusting. I might have to burn that backpack. How on earth did they send you a used kit?
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Old Sep 09, 2019, 12:21 PM
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Slumber, can you get an earlier appt with your pdoc? Like asap?
I was also going to recommend seeing your prescribing doctor.
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Old Sep 09, 2019, 12:23 PM
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Oh NP - my sympathies on the parental stuff. And the H stuff.

Man if i could get a guarantee that ECT would stop my nightmares in that department - and about work?
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Old Sep 09, 2019, 12:24 PM
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OMG, that's disgusting. I might have to burn that backpack. How on earth did they send you a used kit?
They HANDED it to me at my last appointment

Yeah add it to my list of nightmares!
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Old Sep 09, 2019, 12:24 PM
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It's weird being at Ts on a Monday morning instead of evening. And to know my session will be cut a few minutes makes it even worse. I'm mentally struggling really bad already this morning so this should be interesting.
maybe you could ask if would he be willing to add on the time to another session?
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Old Sep 09, 2019, 12:25 PM
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They HANDED it to me at my last appointment
COOTIES.

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Old Sep 09, 2019, 12:41 PM
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Hi Couchies. I did a sort of dumb thing. I stopped taking my AD and my AP this weekend. I figured if I felt this bad on the medication, why was I taking it? I felt pretty much the same until today. My anxiety is through the roof (but that didn't happen until I went to work and found out that the Engineer quit--seriously worried how we are going to get jobs out without an engineer). And then I'm anxious about not taking the medication. I've been on meds for so long, I sort of thought it would be good for my brain to reboot, but now I'm anxious that not taking my medication is going to push me further down the hole I'm in. So now I don't know whether to take the medication again, or just see what happens with not taking it. I don't see PDOC until November but I don't forsee my reboot going that long. I'm serious struggling with anxiety and SH thoughts today though so I'm going to take some anti-anxiety medication. I think for sure I'll restart the AD. I'm not sure about the AP. But I was having visual hallucinations yesterday. I get them on or off the meds apparently. I don't know what to do. HUGS Kit
Slumberkitty I would not advise a reboot with the AP, it can trigger a psychotic break to quit suddenly even in people who never had psychosis. Very dangerous. If you do want to quit try tapering slowly with your pdoc.
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