So how old were you when you first started having sexual feelings?

I was at horseback riding camp..riding and my legs went numb and I could not grip the horse. My instructor thought this was hilarious but I did not know what was going on... though I realised after I got over the fear that I liked it. Not my first feeling of my sexuality but ... my first and many other orgasms via that route. Gave a new enthusiasm to horseback riding. Maybe 13.. not sure. .

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Omg you guys dont know how better you make me feel. I started when i was around 7 and i disgusted myself. I thought i was the most terrible thing in the whole world. I didnt even know what i was doing!!! but i felt dirty. Thanks for making me feel...a little less weird

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i feel exactly the same way

-steph
xxx

So many people think they're unusual, and feel embarrassed to be found out, but so many of us are doing the same thing, LOL!

Remember as a teen, you'd die if anyone found out you practiced kissing on your hand/arm/pillow, but most kids do that!

<font color="purple"> I have been sitting here trying to recall if there was an "it" moment and really I just dont recall not ever not being sexually interested.... not sure if that has to do with early abuse or not....

I rememebr being younger than 6 or 7 masterbating....and being fascinated by bodies...

I remember being around 10 when my grilfirends and I would practice kissing, or playing house and always wnating to be a pregnant teen.... Or messing around with neighborhood boys that were friends of my cousin... I was an early bloomer too....

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Well, we are born with them. Some people have witnessed their babies rubbing against things sexually. Masturbation is perfectly natural.

I was a late bloomer when it came to sexual stuff. I don't think I hit puberty until I was 15 and my period didn't start until I was almost 17. I had my first orgasm when I was 16, with my boyfriend. (It was oral.) I had NO idea what had just happened. The orgasm scared the life out of me. It's funny in hindsight. I ended up being so flustered afterwards, I couldn't find my panties and went home without them.

I was scared after my first orgasm, too! LOL! After a bit, I started wondering if it was an orgasm, which I'd heard of, but hadn't experienced until then.

Were you athletic, Juliana? Sometimes girls who are especially athletic start their periods later than other girls.

I wasn't into sports, but I was a ballerina. I had some stomach problems throughout junior high so I was too thin and probably not properly nourished. I was also very small for my age -- runs in my family. I remember getting weighed and measured in home ec. class in grade 9 and being so embarrassed that I only weighed 78 lbs. and was totally flat-chested. All the other girls had boobs in grade 9, but I looked like a little girl. I didn't get boobs until I was 19.

I was very athletic (played softball for 2 teams and fieldhockey) and I got my period when I was in 5th grade. I remember a girl when I was in 5th grade got her period she was out of school for like a week (I kinda think that's really pushing it...) But it I was so scared when I got my period first. I was going to a day-softball camp at a local college which was about 3 blocks away from my house or so. But I had got it the during the middle of the week (since the camp was Monday-Friday) and I got it the one night after the camp. Then I remember this awkward feeling since my dad went up to the college players that instructed us to "take it easy on me" since I just got my period for the 1st time lasts night.

I was home with my dad when I got my first period. I was in his room (I played there during the day), and he walked by the door and saw me; I think I was crying, because I was nervous, even though I knew what was going on. I had used one of my mom's big, bulky pads, LOL! He asked me if I'd started my period, and I said yes, but I didn't know how he figured it out. Years later, I found out my mom had told him I had been spotting for a few months before...I never knew that!

My earliest memory of sexual feelings was around 5 years old, our pre-school took a field trip to a pool facility to get swim lessons, the "swim coach" told us to just remove our clothes and leave them on the bench in the locker room, , he didn't want us to put our swim suits on because at our age, it was just a waste of time.
When we lined up and paraded out of the changing room, I apparently was fully aroused, he sat us all on the side of the pool, but noticed my excitement and told me, "oh, you're one of those" and told me before any other interactions with others, you need to work on your kicking, and quickly placed me in the water holding the side of the pool and told me to keep kicking while he gave us instructions.
That same year, we had a family day at the beach, I went to the restroom, and there were open showers, there were a bunch of naked men showering, after I peed, I decided, I wanted to shower too, so I stripped down, with a bunch of strangers to shower off, again, I was visibly excited. One of the men said, look he's one of us, and proceeded to fondle and perform about 30 seconds of oral on me before another man beat the hell out of him and told me to get dressed and never come back without a family member...
After that, my sexual exploration continued on a very regular basis...

The first sexual thought I had (that I recall) was when I was five (I had already begun masturbating). Even then, even though I didn't know what those thoughts were, I knew it was wrong and disgusting so I stopped thinking about those things until puberty. Now I'm in my mid-20's and constantly plagued by sexual thoughts. I say plagued because it just makes me want it more and I've never had it. And it's kind of wrong to be thinking about someone specific I know in real life.

I was like 9 I think and it started with me noticing that girls had breastes's.

It was never weird or bad or anything to me though, just part of growing up I guess.

Probably around 10, but I first acted on them around 12.

Heard Adam Sandler singing the Thanksgiving Song, heard the lyric "My brother likes to masturbate with baby oil," asked my mom what masturbation meant, and figured that sounded like a FANTASTIC idea.

And so it began. I owe Mr. Sandler so, so much.

I remember my first sexual feeling was when I was 4 years old. I remember it very clearly. Of course, at that age I had no idea what it was. I just knew that it was an overpowering feeling. However, interestingly enough, what I was feeling was not masculine at all. Not even a little bit. I was laying in my bed. It was early morning and maybe an hour before the time I was supposed to get up. I got this incredibly overpowering need to have someone do something to me in a way that I couldn't understand. I really needed someone to put SOMETHING into me somehow, somewhere. I didn't know what that was all about other than I wanted something and I wanted it urgently. All I know is that I had this intense desire that I didn't understand at all. It wasn't until I got much older that I recognized those feeling as being quite feminine.

That was the only time I ever felt that way. But, I still remember it like it happened yesterday. I think perhaps it gave me a much greater insight into the female sexual psyche that I carry with me to this day. I dunno... My wife and I have talked about this event several times. She seems to understand what I'm talking about...

My first MALE encounter with sexuality was when I was probably 6. We used to go swimming at a huge outdoor swimming pool that the Navy had on base. At that age my mother would bring all four of her children into the womens dressing/shower room to shower and change clothes. The place where we changed clothes had a long bench with a tall back on it that was made of wooden slats. There was a gap of about 1 inch between the slats. I remember standing on the bench and looking through the slats and seeing two women that were probably in their early 20's. They'd just come from taking their showers so of course they were both as naked as can be. I remember watching them through the slats, completely fascinated with their bodies. I couldn't help but watch them both and was filled with a need to touch them or to do SOMETHING. I didn't know what... all I know is that I REALLY, REALLY liked what I was seeing and wanted to see a lot more of it!

I think that that was the last time my mother brought me in to the womens shower room with her. After that I always had to use the mens shower room. Yeah, I think mom was a pretty smart cookie... and oh-so-observant.

Dan

6 years old I kid you not. Even got me in trouble too. But ironically I stayed a virgin until 16, not that I didn't try my best before then

Ah sexual feelings, so wondrous when they don't interfere with life in strange awkward ways, as they did with mine.

I can remember feeling sexual feelings as early as 7, in response to teen idols, crushes, rock stars on TV. I don't know how I finally found my way to masturbating but I did so with frequency, often got caught and was very very abusively shamed for doing so.

It did not make things better.

I lost my virginity at 13 to my best friend's older 18 year old brother.

I couldn't tell you what age exactly, but I know I must have been quite young; 9 to 11ish. I remember quite distinctly because my first west dream occurred to a particularly vivid and unpleasant nightmare.

Ignore me, I'm a downer.

I was probably sixish but didn't really know what it was. I started having them more when I was molested later on.

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I started having sexual thoughts and acting on them (with myself as far as I know) when I was very young, before I started school. I always wondered why I started so young, especially because ever since I was little I had very unusual fantasies and I wonder where the hell these thoughts come from?

When i was 7 when i crucified my hulk hogan doll to the wall with some pins.

And also when i saw superman 2 and sarah douglas turned me on.

Believe it or not, like 15 for me. Even now I don't have much sexual feelings.

5 or 6. molested

I was abused at age 6 and know i rubbed against my bear at night....have always had sexual feelings since then...i am still struggling to remember just what all had been done to me, and i feel lots of guilt and shame from it all.

No need for that Swan...you were put into a situation that was against your will, without any input from you. You didn't do ANYTHING wrong. Feeling guilt for such a heinous thing that was done against you is like feeling shame that your car was stolen...it's not your fault. You didn't do anything to feel guilty or ashamed of.

Just wanted to offer that, is all.

Hugs,
Harley